I struggle to define my sexuality. The expectations that sex education gave me were pretty useless. Since puberty, street harassment is common. I have been on nights out when men have tried to dance with me and squeeze my bum so I am assertive to stand up for myself. However, my boyfriend watched porn and his desires were influenced by the content which I am angry about.
‘I chased an older woman for a long time and we got married – but now she’s 70’
Confessions of a menopausal nymphomaniac | Life and style | The Guardian
Photograph: iStock. She was sophisticated, stunningly beautiful and seemed beyond my reach. She was also 18 years older than me, but then it did not seem to be a problem. I chased her for a long time and, as I was lucky enough to make a lot of money, I was able to treat her to all kinds of luxuries. She was very wary at the time, saying that the age difference was too much and she was worried that she would regret it later.
I am the poster girl for the menopause, despite the fact that there is absolutely no good news about the menopause. But, after four years of sexless fidelity, I find myself a post-menopausal singleton in the throes of nymphomania. I want sex more than ever and that fact shreds everything I know about this sad post-fertile state.
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