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36 Great Date Questions

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How you can incorporate some of the 36 great date questions you can ask on a date that lead to love according to a 2015 New York Times Article. In this video-coaching newsletter I discuss the 2015 New York Times article titled, “The 36 Questions That Lead To Love.” A viewer sent in the link to the article and wanted to know if I thought it was a good idea to discuss some of these on a date and if so, how would I suggest bringing them up. Not all of the questions elicit positive emotions, so I discuss some of them which are fun, and which ones to avoid and discuss later on down the line after you are intimate and exclusive to turn them on, instead of turning them off. “When you are on a first date, your questions and topics of discussion should be positive and fun. It’s best not to discuss negative or overly serious topics. If you are a man on a date with a woman, whatever emotions your questions and topics of discussion elicit are what she will associate with being with you. Save the negative and heavy subjects for after you are intimate and serious or you will run the risk of turning your date off and lowering their attraction to you. If it’s not positive, uplifting and fun don’t bring it up. You are on a date to have fun and enjoy each other. Not to be their therapist. You want to be an escape from life, an enhancement, someone to bond with and a blessing, not a turd in the punchbowl.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Click the link below to read the article “36 Great Date Questions” on my website: https://understandingrelationships.com/36-great-date-questions/30552 Link to the original New York Times Article I discuss in this video: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCW3Man Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3 You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCWMY Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to purchase Official Coach Corey Wayne branded merchandise (T-Shirts, Mugs, etc.): https://teespring.com/stores/coach-corey-wayne Click the link below to book phone/Skype (audio only) coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne
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Text Comments (123)
cine mejillas (1 month ago)
97% of the other guys just don't want to learn or to admit the truth until they will get pain in the ass
MetalLP (2 months ago)
How to be a 4% man? Rather not xD
samuel angel (4 months ago)
Fucking ads on YouTube
Enjoying your book man, it's a whole new way of life.
Nath C (11 months ago)
What if you have a thing for goth girls? the death question will probably get her wet.
Col Pro (1 year ago)
Warp factor five captain!
whiteboybeats1 (1 year ago)
If you can do a few good impressions, ask your date if she can. She'll likely say no (some do though), but she'll immediately ask you and there's your chance to make her laugh. I do a great Arnold Schwarzenegger impression and had my date in stitches the whole night. Talk about associating someone with fun!
Michael (1 year ago)
Do you think its cruel to date someone who you're not really interested in just for the sake of dating, learning or recovering from an ex? I mean dating is still just a fun activity and i'm not going for a relationship.
Julie Holmes (1 year ago)
Karl as long as you are transparent anything goes.
Joe baggins (1 year ago)
Karl Eberhard Herwarth von Bittenfeld just hangout, hookup and have fun. It's all good experience dude!
KaughtonKam (1 year ago)
You the man Corey!
print this (1 year ago)
If u pick up chicks wearing that Wal-Mart shirt you are the man!
The Capable Woman (1 year ago)
Your background reminds me of the set of Mystery Science Theater 3000. Great video!
Diana Diamond (2 years ago)
i wouldnt use the questions as an exercise; i'd probably sprinkle them around in conversation
John Lanouette (2 years ago)
Hey Corey! I had an Idea, You should put quizzes on your website, for people who have read your book a lot. to see how well we know the material!
Michael Nguyen (3 months ago)
He’s said in a lot of videos that he doesn’t want to make this skill based knowledge, but more of a teaching on self reliance, if you want a quiz, do what he says apply the teaching in real life. If you get positive results your doing well, if you get negative results, take a step back and see what your weaknesses are.
Drew Fenton (2 years ago)
I have wanted the same thing! I think I even emailed that idea to him
Prakhara07 (2 years ago)
So much for her thing sake. Don't you think that if she is the real deal and has a heart for you, one need to not do so much circus ???
Obi Wan Jabroni (2 years ago)
Yo Coach!!! fuck the nay sayers your the MAN! your work helped me alot!!! but real shit theres this other guy on Youtube thats pretty good in the coaching arena..to me he sounds like your clone! he definetly read the book 20 times cuz he seems legit but you explain he doesnt. if you wanna know who this guy is let me know. ill shoot you an email. Thanks again!!
Albert Diones (2 years ago)
Hi Corey, thanks for your works, I'm glad you mentioned 5 language of love, I think I'm a gift giver, but since you said no gifts until the girl is my girlfriend, so I suppressed my urge to give gifts to girls I like. I assume I should continue suppressing gift giving, right?
Albert Diones (2 years ago)
Coach Corey Wayne thanks Corey keep up the good work :)
Coach Corey Wayne (2 years ago)
gifts are for wives or girlfriends, not women you just started dating.
John McGunnigle (2 years ago)
Keep up the great work Corey, your new pad looks Awesome.
Sar Jazz (2 years ago)
Hey corey so i just wanted to thank you for each and every video you made till date. My relation was already over and i found you on youtube and started doing the things you said and it actually worked. God you have helped me so much. But recently i have begun to be how i was before. I started to realize that when she stopped Asking and calling me. Beta male shits. Yea and then today i suddenly realized that what had helped me in past to overcome this thing . And i again started to watch your video and it helps so much. Gonna start reading your book from today! You have helped me a lot and i know if i start reading your book it will surely help me again. Just wanted to remind you that you are a great guy. You've helped so many guys. Thank you for your time and dedication :) .
Enlightenment (2 years ago)
I have scarcity mindset baaaad! I always get rejected no matter how many women I approach in person, no matter how many dating websites I try, women always reject me. I know there's not a scarcity of women in this world, but there's a scarcity of attractive women that are also attracted to me. It's just constant rejection. I try to maintain a positive attitude but it feels like there's a curse on me or something. It's like the universe is working against me, trying to keep me from getting what I want.
hydra x (2 years ago)
hey coach! i like seeing you here more relaxed than looking all spiffy :D
richard kusi-menkah (2 years ago)
my homie CW switching up the background! I dig it
brandon baez (2 years ago)
My bro Corey you look a bit burnt. Gotta say tho being burnt beats freezing your ass off here in New York
Coach Corey Wayne (2 years ago)
I got fried at the beach on Saturday
Lookateverything (2 years ago)
My favorite is "what are your passions in life ?" I bring up the question after we have been chatting for a bit, and the woman has touched on something she enjoys. I usually get a smile and then "no one has ever asked me that before". I can just see the wheels turning and the happiness it brings the woman talking about things they love to do. Once they have expressed their passions to me, they ask me the same question.
Joseph Miller (2 years ago)
Got my son your book , thanks for every thing man you have gave me so much bro .
Adam Leeding (1 year ago)
Coach Corey Wayne if I Bought your book would you be able to post it to me I live in the U.K.
Coach Corey Wayne (2 years ago)
Thank you Sir. You're an awesome Dad for doing that.
Hunter Yow (2 years ago)
Am I the only one who would love to see Corey interacting with women?!?
Make America Trump Again (2 months ago)
Coach Corey Wayne You are the fucking man
Joseph Nox (3 months ago)
+Coach Corey Wayne Thanks Coach. "The closer we are to truth the more free we are" #blessings
Ruzo Owzy (6 months ago)
Nice insight...some of us, use to think he doesn't have some of the things he has said on this comment he has. But it is all for the better understanding n improving of our innerself.
David Grainger (10 months ago)
I imagine they drip wet as soon as he smiles and says hey hahah
Max Efoshkin (2 years ago)
The Best Man!
Brandon Daniels (2 years ago)
Coach Wayne, you should do a video on the New England Patriots's negotiating practices. They always seem to have the upper hand in free agent negotiations because they ALWAYS seem willing to walk away and move on from a free agent. They're quick to seek direct or indirect replacements for an exiting player's production. And, many players who are rumored to leave typically end up staying (e.g., Dont'a Hightower). They never seem to get starstruck or hung up on keeping any particular player like a beta male would, LOL!
Brandon Daniels (2 years ago)
Nah, Brady is 40, but he's actually signed to a team friendly deal which is great for both parties. So, they'll keep him as long as he's healthy and productive, but they aren't keep Garappolo around for no reason. Belichick has publicly admitted that Garappolo looks just like Brady. And, Brady has publicly admitted that he understands that Belichick may move on from him someday.
Terrance Manning (2 years ago)
Brandon Daniels Let Tom Brady become a free agent bet you they would change that attitude quick.....lol
Phantom Bison (2 years ago)
Yeah! Corey's back in the house!
RikoGoCrazy (2 years ago)
Anybody have any tips for movie dates???
snitsky 92 (1 year ago)
Coach Corey Wayne Movie dates are my next Netflix and chill. If I can't take her home, take her to the movies to get some head. That's why it's called Movies and chill
Omnitrix8 (2 years ago)
+Brandon Daniels James bond?? Really?!!
Brandon Daniels (2 years ago)
No. She can watch movies with her friends. Do you ever see James Bond taking his women to movies or to places where it's difficult to interact with the women he's seducing?
Coach Corey Wayne (2 years ago)
movie dates are for girlfriends and wives. Netflix and chill are the exception once you are hooking up.
Brandon Daniels (2 years ago)
Yea, you wouldn't want to do a movie date unless the girl is already REALLY into you. Your best is to go on a date where you can interact/flirt, e.g., cook or do a picnic or something along those lines.
Benjamin Ho (2 years ago)
Nice water feature in the background!
mav1877 (2 years ago)
Although I definitely agree that women who had a good relationship with their father, they are usually a lot more emotionally well adjusted and easier to date. However, since I don't have a good relationship with my father, should I judge her on that especially if she seems solid in many other ways? It's a difficult call as sometimes your relationship with your parents isn't always controllable if they were poor parents.
Mac Bizzo (2 years ago)
dart board huh? looks like soft tips? does it auto score?
Coach Corey Wayne (2 years ago)
muu sica (2 years ago)
Yeahhh I've recently read that book!
David Simpson (2 years ago)
Thing is if you're having to purposefully and forcefully think of questions to ask during a date, it ain't going well...
Carlos Monzalvo (2 years ago)
JUST in time Corey set up a date for this weekend. with this SMOKING HOT alpha female. she will be Astonished with my posture at my age. EASY-18 years old
n0toerious (2 years ago)
Lol i just dumped a girl like 6 days ago after i asked tell me 5 qualities you like about me and tell me 5 qualities you don't like about me. She shut me down with some BS oh this is some mind trick questions your asking me i'm not going to answer either one of them. mind you we dated for solid 3 months known each other for 2 plus years She got booted straight out the door :D cya later if people can't answer 5 simple questions whats the point on a relationship right haha
n0toerious (2 years ago)
Nah it's all good lol i came off as ego way perhaps But i mean i did enjoy her company spent crazy amount of time had loads of fun doing some fun stuff. I'v known her for a long long time and i'v always seen her unhappy and down 24/7 during this past 2 years so i thought her why not show her that there are good people out there that can treat her right and make her feel good about herself which i thought i was doing maybe money was better then me putting my heart out in line which i'd do anyday of the week screw giving my emotions away again learnt that from my recent ex this was all fun tho and i did have a good time Zero regrets which i'm truly happy about. And she is kinda happy atm which is what i wanted and i'm happy so win win no 1 got hurt we both had fun and leave been happy :D
n0toerious (2 years ago)
To be honest it's not harsh and it's no game i was sorta her rebound guy lol i knew how the game was played and what the outcome would be and plus i was her feel good guy that spend over $1000 a week on her because her exes couldn't do jack sh!t for her. She use to live on eating $2 noodles and stuff until she met me i started to show her what it would feel like to be with a real person with money to look after her and etc etc.... But she toke it to far sorta was acting like i'm her sugar daddy haha but cut the chit chat short she is 22 i'm 33 haha it was never going to workout either way it was all fun and game's no one got hurt i just thought it was to good to be true and it was. Plus she has major issue's trust me she has so many lose screws nothing can fix them. She just needs to be on her own i guess i did leave her in a nice way didn't hurt or say any bad words trust me i did whats best for her to give her a upper hand to regain herself and find herself. She is a good mate i just wanted her to find herself then maybe we could have a relationship which is kinda slim because she is way young and has so many issues i can't fix Trust me what i did was best for her she will thank me someday :D
Zealous Mystique (2 years ago)
I prefer gift cards only!
Sparkz Mentalz (2 years ago)
Yooooo! I always reference The 5 Love Languages to women that I'm interested in! Great insight on who you are dealing with. It's dope that you uploaded this. I was just checking out your previous vid on this, Pickup & Date Questions that build Attraction. I vibe best with positive, upbeat women where I don't feel like I'm playing "21 questions" just to get a good convo going. I generally avoid weirdo, damaged goods type chics who are depressed and have a negative outlook on life. It's just not worth my time, no matter how hot she looks.
Antonio Gonsalves (2 years ago)
Another great video, coach!
Softfire (2 years ago)
Gerard Jude Peralta (2 years ago)
i recommended your book to two of my friends that struggle but both of them did not read it seriously they just kinda read it for a bit and then forgot about it. guess they haven't been push that far yet to take it seriously.
actionLEGOs (2 years ago)
Love this channel. If I can ever get a date I'll use Coach Wayne's advice. Right now I'm too broke to afford a relationship and once I get my flying job I don't know if I'll have the time nor confidence for it. But if I ever work up the courage and get a date, I'll use your advice.
Kim Brodersen (3 months ago)
actionLEGOs Well if you haven’t buddy, you definitely need to read his book, because I promise you, it will work for you. With it without money
PANU 11 (2 years ago)
should I invite her to my place for our first date?
Will Kjj (2 years ago)
Lautaro Tejedor ss
Lautaro Tejedor (2 years ago)
English is not my native language. I dont know how to express it.
Lautaro Tejedor (2 years ago)
I met my girlfriend at the gym, and the following day we had a "date" at my place, i told her the truth. I have no money because i spent it on the supermarket (i live alone), i can cook you something and have lunch. Feel like it? And she agreed. She came, and we fucked. But i had no condomns. So we avoided the penetration part. But luckily for me, she liked me so much, we dated again and again. And had a wonderful relationship for 2 years. Until one month ago that i left the city to study archiecture somewhere else. Bad luck. JUST DO IT.
FilthyCasual (2 years ago)
If she's a friend of yours and you two know each other well, sure. But if you've only just met her or don't know her that well, go outside for a date first, to get to know each other, a person who you barely know inviting you back to their home is kinda creepy dude, besides she could be a serial killer for all i know.
Derek Hammer (2 years ago)
I have to disagree as some women are more structured than others. Some have the idea that if they wait, it will be more special and valuable when you two do hook up. Others fear that if you take them home on the first night, you might disappear, never having put in the time of a few dates to show you're really interested in something other than sex. So again it depends on the woman, so it's so important to be able to read them right.
Jet Livin (2 years ago)
coach corey wayne is on a roll with these videos!
flash12319 (2 years ago)
perfect time to drop a video like this. I was just about to go on a date
mountedpatrolman (2 years ago)
These questions were written by some leftist hipster Corey,  That's why you wouldn't want to ask half of them.
mountedpatrolman (2 years ago)
Bwhahaha. It's the NY Times, it's simply a truth, Why you gotta get butt hurt over it "cuck"?
Magnus T. Power (2 years ago)
Great video Mr. Wayne! Information is priceless and greatly appreciated. Many thanks!
Lee Crotty (2 years ago)
Nice clean house. 10 thumbs up!
Taimur Mughal (2 years ago)
hey Coach you tell us in order to reattract our ex girl we have to make her come to our place and have fun etc but What if the guy does not have his own place like my parents dont allow girls at home and I always went to her! So what should a guy do about that???
Taimur Mughal (2 years ago)
in the making Well actually I made many mistakes so its a lot of my fault as well, I took her for granted made some huge mistakes like not listening to her emotional needs etc ..
TonXaBar (2 years ago)
It is not all to get her to your place. It is showing you've changed, a different person she knew... So, first: have your own place. That's a huge change if you're with your patents, even if it is a rented one with other people. You show things are changing in your life, not living with your parents anymore...
Komandie (2 years ago)
Course heading, Captain?
actionLEGOs (2 years ago)
Komandie 330 True
Youmuus (2 years ago)
damn im early today
João Coelho (1 year ago)
What did i just witness.
Shaurya Raikkonen (1 year ago)
Bro.... Even here???
Tomáš Holý (2 years ago)
45% CDR
Mental Basic (2 years ago)
I'm getting a very Dr Evil vibe from the big chair and background! XD
Michael Nguyen (3 months ago)
Liam Feringa (2 years ago)
coach you have gave me the tools to save my relationship and have helped me greatly with my whole life. Thank you so much dude!
MisTery (2 years ago)
Henry N (2 years ago)
first like and first comment fuckers
Henry N (2 years ago)
M3XICAN NBK my man

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