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10 Good Questions to Ask to Get to Know Someone FAST!

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Here are 10 of the best get to know you questions, designed to help you get to know someone FAST! Whether you’re on a date, making new friends, connecting with family, or vetting co-workers, sometimes getting to know someone isn’t as easy you’d expect. We’ve all been there: Racking your brain, trying to think of a conversation starter and all you can come up with is “How’s the weather?” or “What’s new?” What’s even worse is being stuck on a date with nothing to talk about! But luckily, the key to making conversation or getting anyone to open up is knowing the right questions to ask. And in this video, we cover 10 of the best questions to ask to get to know someone. They’re questions that will ignite stimulating, personal conversations and will help you to build deeper connections with people. And, if you're looking for more, check out this post with 75 good questions to get to know someone here: https://www.mantelligence.com/good-questions-to-ask-to-get-to-know-someone/
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Jack Lopresti (9 days ago)
Getting ahead or getting head😂😂 sorry
Mark Reilly (11 days ago)
These sound more like job interview questions and not questions I would ask while on a date. Just be yourself, talk about your interests and goals in life and if there is a connection it will come naturally, if not then just move on. Leave this cheesy shit for the romantic comedies.
C Fields (14 days ago)
Sounds like some questions a nerdy anti-social person would ask...🤓
The Happy Wanderer (1 month ago)
If you could ask an intriguing question to anyone, what question would that be?
Karron Thompson (1 month ago)
No Black person wants to travel to the 1900s...none of the years
JK Bleach (1 month ago)
I'd lose my sense of smell
Gomila Droogies (2 months ago)
Boring cliche questions dont ask any of these
Nebuchadnezzar (2 months ago)
These are very awkward questions, it ain't work in real life
TaylorAnimations (2 months ago)
If I could have any superpower. I would choose Superpower replication.
TYT BOMBA (2 months ago)
Question 5 is a serial killer question
Elijah 314 (3 months ago)
8. I’m a bear chill and calm until you bother the fuck out of me
Razor 32 (3 months ago)
If my house was burning i’d save my house
Foe 187 (4 months ago)
Thumbnail almost made me nut
Jackson Thomas (4 months ago)
Hahaha i try this to my friend and i laugh at her answers!!!! Hahahahahahaha
New Thought (6 months ago)
No sane person would ask or answer these questions. Be spontaneous, thoughtful and genuine, that's the most important thing.
Chief Keef (6 months ago)
Everything besides #4 cringy as shit
lucy jones (7 months ago)
I’d get rid of taste.
AndyCandyCane (7 months ago)
Um.. I would be very concerned and weirded out if someone I barely knew would ask me these kind of questions.. I mean "If you were on death row what would be your LAST MEAL" like... way to kill the mood... I mean... I don't really think anyone would ask this to people whom they just met... and even in a "Hypothetical situation" where we were with our group of friends with whom you already share stuff in common and have somewhat a bit more confidence to talk about other topics more openly... Not even in this situation I would use any of these questions... These would just make people very uncomfortable!
Earth Walker (8 months ago)
Sounds like I am going to have an interview with someone
Gary Mitchell (8 months ago)
I get your point, but I'm not sure these are good date questions.
paulyoungck (8 months ago)
Yeah, just how the hell am I supposed to slip these questions into a regular conversation? Like "Hello there, I'm Paul." "Hi I'm Emily" "So, Emily, which animal best describes you?" "Huh? 😳" Is this for a date or a job interview? 😂
punkpoetry (9 months ago)
The only thing you'll learn by asking most people these questions is how much patience for unbearably earnest & cliched bs they have.
Sarah Granados (9 months ago)
You should ask what thier passion is when you ask that their face just lights up I may be a kid but I love that question
Zaki_ ounoughi (5 months ago)
MantelligenceDating (9 months ago)
That's a great question, man! Thanks for joining the conversation!
sidharth pm (9 months ago)
The answer for 3rd Question is --"house "
Julie Finkelstein (9 months ago)
milk t a e (9 months ago)
im a girl.....oh welp
hatsune wendy (2 months ago)
Me too
Sean Jr (8 months ago)
Lemel Covington (10 months ago)
I can live without smell. Mostly everything smell like shit anyways.
Fornite Girl (5 months ago)
Lemel Covington i love smell of my children.. But ya if i didnt.. Id agree
Curtis Erecacho (10 months ago)
That's really cool. I like the what tv show book or movie would they live in. Interesting.
The Unicorn of Power (10 months ago)
7. Laser eyes
Seppo (10 months ago)
Lol these questions so cringy
kevin klarskov (10 months ago)
This works to well, i did habe to back to each question because i started to think
liyon316 (10 months ago)
An addendum to question #5: What would you be on Death Row for?!?!? lol
Tony Hill (10 months ago)
load of bollocks
Nitty Gritty (11 months ago)
Gut Feelings (11 months ago)
Awesome deep inspiration​, thank you! Great video style with text and b-roll, love it! ​I think I'll try asking some of these even to my clients... curious what happens. :-)
zak Sarwari (11 months ago)
Number 10 ~>- a photo of the one I love (for jerking off)😉😉😘😂😂 ~>- a 🔪 ~>- And my favorite instrument maybe finally I learn how to play music... 😂😍😉😘 ... You like to know all my answers ?
Are these something what can be used on dates?
MantelligenceDating (11 months ago)
Definitely, bro. If you can, work them into the context of your conversation. Even if you can't, dates are about getting to know another person. There's no shame in asking a question just because you want to get to know her better.
Sean O (1 year ago)
The lack of social skills these questions demonstrate would have me walking towards the door or at least far away from what ever moron asked these.
Sean O (1 year ago)
Dark Jolt (1 year ago)
Wanna get a girlfriend with no effort? Listen carefully! What you have to do is say to the girl " Hi how is your day going." They say what they have to say then what you do is say " Hey sexy you like my ninty trillion dollar car outside?"
Ivo Brick (1 year ago)
Quite good questions, atleast for those blaming it, from my pov, they will show you are not braindead. Im not payed by thich channell or whatever btw.
Yours First (1 year ago)
LAME QUESTIONS !!! Number 3 and number 2 are alright questions even number 1 that was actually a good one but mostly lame video those questions are things you get to learn about someone as you really get to know them later if there is any later ?
Jewish Cultist (1 year ago)
Question number 10 is a dumb question to ask a girl .
Bala kishore (1 year ago)
Thanks for awesome information.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Of course my man! Glad you liked it!
Varun Shridhar (1 year ago)
They'll feel like being interviewed :-D
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Dude, that's a great observation. Interviewers ask questions that are meant to reveal a lot of info, and these questions do the same thing.
Jamie Dough (1 year ago)
Question 9: Answer: all of my senses so i don't have to hear your shit anymore lol.
ferkemall (1 year ago)
Like do you fk on first dates ,does your dad own a brewery !
Tom (1 year ago)
question 10 is good because you get to know if they are stupid and not educated and know nothing about history(does not necessarily mean they are stupid but more often than not)
Jack Lincoln (1 year ago)
I always ask one question that has gotten me through. “Do you have herpes?”
joshua smith (1 year ago)
A real question: if you had six months to live what would you do? Answer: go live my mother in law, because it will be the longest six months of my life. Haha.
Butterfly Queen (10 months ago)
joshua smith 🤣
RequiemBeatz (1 year ago)
On that last one, can I choose to not go back at all? xD
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Sure! There are no wrong answers - only bad explanations...
Christopher Ellis (1 year ago)
Taste is the least useful Save my bug out bag! George Orwell
Mainline2U (1 year ago)
STRONGLY DISAGREE! Since this channels name is "Mantelligence", and most videos are related to dating girls, I would ask these dating related questions: 1. Political perspective? 2. Age? 3. Wedding ring - price she would expect you to pay? Bonus Question (If you make it through the first 3): 4. How much debt do you have?
Daryl B (1 year ago)
Those questions are not going to get you laid.
Nathan Bryan (1 year ago)
Wages, "ETC" and so on…
Kiwi AustEcon (1 year ago)
This is sooo stupid!
Ronn Sethman (1 year ago)
if you had to take a sit, and there was no toilet paper, what would you do
rigidfinger (1 year ago)
If anyone resorted to asking me these kinds of questions, I would ask myself;  " WTF am I doing here?"
Vasquez (11 months ago)
rigidfinger lol
John Schaefer (1 year ago)
Wow, you're really going to to remember all these questions and then retain his or her answers?
Y CT (1 year ago)
John Schaefer
Mainline2U (1 year ago)
John Schaefer Most guys don't think in these terms. These questions may be suitable for several dates down the road when/if you really want to get serious and know each other at a deeper level for a long term relationship / marriage.
Martin Kaufmann (1 year ago)
Ca I get my 36 seconds back?
Geoffrey Mongella (1 year ago)
Jared Mease (1 year ago)
Great! 😀
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Thanks, man! We're working hard to keep the good stuff coming.
Luziel A. D ugart (1 year ago)
I don’t think that is good for knowing the core of a human being this is just silly cuz u never know their real self
thenewjord50 (1 year ago)
Luziel A. D ugart what you suggest I'm just wondering
반공전사 (1 year ago)
My answers to some of these questions would be more like my fantasy (which I'm not at all so I could imagine only in this kind of hypothetical situation) than what I exactly am (because it'd boring to regurgitate what I already know very well). For instance, I (don't have a pet because a pet keeps away from much else. but I) would definately bring one to a no man's island because there is not much else.
Ron Miller (1 year ago)
I found these questions pedestrian
Adam Butts (1 year ago)
Doesn’t question 7 reveal an insecurity
Tb Tb (1 year ago)
Nice video. But lol If someone asks me those questions I do feel like I’m getting job interview.
mark jones (1 year ago)
1: A large role of tear resistant, thick mill plastic, long-lasting firestarter and a machete 2: Taste, there are few really good cooks in the world 3: Crow, inquisitive/adventurous/territorial/loyal 4: Teleportation, I could travel and acquire needed supplies easily 5: Avatar, far too many humans suck 6: A glass of hemlock juice on the rocks, One must rage against the machine 7: I'm not telling 8: USB drive with my passwords on it. Enough said. 9: Nikola Tesla, provided that he was talkative and the meal was light 10: I wouldn't…
Annika Hintsala (1 year ago)
Or simply ask: What do you wanna do before you die? But very good video anyways!😊
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Yoo my dude! Thank you! Stoked that you liked this! Glad to have you on the channel + community!
mrihavegot (1 year ago)
These may be the stupidest Qs ever!
Bugumir (1 year ago)
This is a two-sided situation. If you're cool and she likes you, these'll help. If you're awkward and weird (the very sub-species that needs these tips) you'll just come off as creepy.
DoubleAIV (1 year ago)
Question 1 is a white ppl only kinda thing ..
T3XR KEM (7 months ago)
Fvck up
Pawan Sehrawat (7 months ago)
Andre Darden (9 months ago)
Mayank Mishra (10 months ago)
Robert White (1 year ago)
Honestly these videos have helped a lot. I hope to see more😊.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Robert! More videos coming soon brother!!!
The K-man (1 year ago)
All women are SJW feminazis. GO MGTOW.
Alex Rosage (1 year ago)
Sooo... basically ask lots of hypothetical questions. Gotcha
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Some are. They lead to fun conversations... others on there aren't
MBO TAS Official (1 year ago)
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Thank you brother!!! Welcome to the channel/community!!!
Tahero (1 year ago)
this could never work in my country (Tunisia)
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Brother! TBH, we made some of these vids with US in mind... but since our vids are already reaching guy worldwide, we're working to improve that. Stay tuned big man!!!
George Kolotouros (1 year ago)
What is your credit card limit ?
A.I. (1 year ago)
@MantelligenceDating Super rich and plenty of successful people have an advice on the matter: Never marry someone who is in debt. Never marry someone who is financially incompetent. You can marry them if you want at your own risk/demise. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkbWBDeLrJ4
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Hahahah, I ldon't think that's gonna go that well my dude
Robert Howland (1 year ago)
That was another great, practical video.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Thank you big man!
Chopinfan R (1 year ago)
Mainline2U (1 year ago)
MantelligenceDating Scolding is not helpful.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
That's like your thing on YT, huh big guy? Be negative and not helpful? If you actually think it's horrible, you gotta say WHY and you gotta be able to back it up.
Ivan Faul Play (1 year ago)
These people should have more Subscribers
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
I mean, I wouldn't say no to that..... 🙂 thanks for the support Ivan!
MAURIFICO (1 year ago)
This is not typical of what a real human being would ask.these questions are a cliche. These questions would be asked by a serial killer to get to know you before turning you into a lampshade. I would be suspicious of a person asking these questions.
Jack Lopresti (9 days ago)
MAURIFICO that’s why serial killers get everyone to love them
all motor (4 months ago)
+MantelligenceDating they are still awkward questions. and the format your supplying feels like a therapist, i used one on a girl i was getting to now and got ghosted real quick. thanks for nothing.
Melissa Lawrence (10 months ago)
MAURIFICO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lol for real. These questions r too much to consider to answer. 😂😂😂 o my goodness gracious
Mayank Mishra (10 months ago)
Then, what questions would you want one to ask to start a fun conversation?
Amandeep Kaur (1 year ago)
absolutely correct .. I wl never ask these to NY1
Thomas Keady (1 year ago)
Death row meal = Would love to get fresh pesto sauce to put on chicken or some veggies (tomatoes) from my garden!
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Much healthier than what I would do... but love it!
DrDonkey (1 year ago)
It is awesome. Good work.
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Thank you brother! So glad that you like it!
Lindsey Boureston (1 year ago)
Love this!! Such great questions to ask!
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
Glad you like them Lindsey!
Gonna Want Seconds (1 year ago)
I love this video! These questions are super thought provoking.
David Garcia (11 months ago)
They are to a certain degree, but instead of asking these questions and having to "decode" their replies. Why not just ask the question directly?
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
So glad that you liked it!
MantelligenceDating (1 year ago)
I LOVE these questions! Each tells you something insightful, and different, about a person... and helps you get to know them better QUICKLY! Which is your favorite? What other questions to you ask to get to know someone? ...My favorite is #7 (2:14)
Cosmopolitan (1 year ago)
Ahh, that superpower thing. Well on a second thought, not gonna ask it. I'm gonna ask it to MYSELF!
rigidfinger (1 year ago)
1. Do you have any spare change?2. Can you get some spare change?.........that is typically enough to at least get me a different interviewer.

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