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10 Perfect Questions to Ask on a First Date

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Ever wondered what to ask a guy on the first date? Here are 10 fun questions. For more videos like this, head on over to http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret To grab Adam's book, go to http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com 1. Who is your greatest hero? 2. What kind of things really make you laugh? 3. What's your favorite place in the entire world? 4. What's your favorite movie of all-time? Why so? 5. What's your biggest goal in life? 6. What's your favorite way to spend a Saturday? 7. Do you have any pet peeves? 8. What should I know about you that I never thought to ask about? 9. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? 10. If you were given a million dollars, what would you do with it and why?
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Annika Orne (16 days ago)
I hate all of these questions. God, it feels like a job interview.
Jack Black (19 days ago)
Fucking airheads.
True Colors (1 month ago)
TheArtOfLove. I met this girl online and I felt that she is interested in meeting through her text and she even went on 2 weeks vacation and first thing she did after coming back is contacting me. So I felt very comfortable seeing her. On my way over I got stuck in traffic so I texted her and apologized for being few minutes late. I got there exactly 6 minutes late. I was a little nervous because of this situation. She had suggested that we go to beach after our coffee date, but we did not go. So I waited for a couple of days and I texted her asking her if would like to have a glass of wine cause we talked about that on our date.. So she replied that she would pass on the wine and she told me that I am very sweet guy, but she doesn’t feel connection! So I was honest and told her that I was a little nervous and I would love to have more relaxed meeting maybe at the beach. I can’t contact her again, but I really wanna hear back from her and I do not know what to do.
Jack Black (1 month ago)
Where do you live? Jack, the Japan Alps Brit
Supernatural Explorer (1 month ago)
For men: When you ask questions and she responds, talk about what she said and make the conversation go into detail. Don't ask a question, one after the other like this video..she will think its like an interview and get turned off. Do 5 questions within a period of an hour, or slip one in if you're doing an activity like pool or bowling. Too many questions and you'll scare her away. The best first date activities to break the ice is: mini putting, bowling, petting zoo, apple picking, corn field mazes, and scavenger hunts. If you want to stand out, those are great places that will land you a 2nd and 3rd date.
Meggan Lanahan (3 months ago)
He DOES look like Seth MacFarlane!! 😲
OfftoShambala (4 months ago)
I have no idea what good questions are or even how to find a good person or have a good relationship... but, I am an expert on what not to ask a woman... first, don't ask her what her bra size is when you first start dating... seriously, don't ask this question. Do not suggest to a woman that you plan to take her to Dubai when you have some upcoming business... this is "plan" vs "ask" if she would like to go and defitely don't suggest this on a 2nd date. Super creepy things guys have actually said or asked me on 1st and 2nd dates. But, it was good that they revealed how douchey they were, earlier rather than later.
Keletso Makgoga (5 months ago)
Eyyyyyy huge shout out from South Africa ; )
Alto Modilwane (2 months ago)
Hy SA right...
maria mistretta (6 months ago)
I love this type of question. Sounds like fun. Question Why do most guys on dating sites start with boring question. How come guys online never asks fun questions?
Mark Zaney (6 months ago)
A question that I like to ask is: "As a child growing up, what was your family structure?" If it WASN'T a traditional Biological Father AND Biological Mother living together in ONE Primary household than the man may NOT have learned the necessary Adulting Skills, have attained the Self Esteem Needs, etc... to be a "Man". For example if a man was raised by MOSTLY a Single/Divorced/Widowed Mother he only sees the world from a woman's point of view because no male role model around because he was either 100% absent OR only there part-time. Say weekends only. The biological father will understand a male child BEST because 50% of him was pass down to him genetically I.e., personality, disposition, intelligence, etc.... Bottom Line: What is the point of a woman being with a man that was NEVER shown how to be a MAN!
ArtFull Boutique (6 months ago)
NOW, This Guy Knows "What's Going On!"
zazo zeez (6 months ago)
Thanks for every thing really And I wish the best for your channel it's amazing .:)
bubbah rakena (7 months ago)
Love this video good work
Aashish Hamal (7 months ago)
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Deanna Williams (8 months ago)
Sure was!
Connie Shafto (9 months ago)
Adriana Veliz (9 months ago)
He never included a female companion in any of those fun travels and sports, if he gets money all he's going to buy are toys and play...if you are looking for a serious going somewhere relationship, someone to marry it seems like he is not the one to provide you with that. 🤔 but he can be a cool friend.
WhoCares ImWhite (10 months ago)
"Can I leave?"
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Tanya Mans (10 months ago)
Megan Yates (11 months ago)
"Dumb and Dumber...." 😳😳😳
Renata Mahmud (11 months ago)
I would never have this kind of a first date. It looks uncomfortable. Some things you will learn about the guy in time. And that's more exciting than asking a list of ten questions
OfftoShambala (4 months ago)
You probably should not shoot out question after question... just wait for a the right moment to insert one into the conversation every now and then... but, some people are just happy that someone is interested, so it might not be too uncomfortable for people, as you might think. But, if you were to use all of these in a row, it sort of screams, "I am socially awkward and went online to get questions because I know how socially awkward I am".
Timothy Cochran (9 months ago)
I like asking these questions randomly through text, gives them time to think about them....... but not on a first date. first dates are for seeing if you click and are comfortable together
Cassandrah (11 months ago)
Sounds like an interview
Helena Cipher (1 year ago)
I'm a huge fan of family guy! And yeah... If someone doesn't like family guy it's an absolute turn-off to me XD
Sexy Confidence (1 year ago)
Lind95 MG (1 year ago)
Wrong! not all of us have heros, how about asking if they have a hero. Dang! Now I know why I hate breaking the ice on a first date, too much like doing a job interview. I rather just have them fill out a dam application because trying to ask all these dam questions and then try remember all the answers. Yeah right.
Melanie Aldershoff (1 year ago)
Sexy confidence please help me I need help
Calida (1 year ago)
You do look like Seth! Like Seth & Mark Ruffalo!
Neazy Army (1 year ago)
Jayna Sponseller (1 year ago)
SoCal! Whoop Whooooooop!
roxana vali shariat (1 year ago)
Thanks alott, Your awesome.
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Attuahene Mensah (1 year ago)
You really do look like Macfarlane.
Rahyan Evenson (1 year ago)
I want to work for this dude lol
george prout (1 year ago)
Goddamn that was some scripted bullshit! Reminded me of the old tried and true "my faith defines me" line that douches pull when trying to impress religious girls. Lol
Naomi dearden (1 year ago)
I near be on a date be married meet all man move stright to relationships
Jane (1 year ago)
he has such a kindness and sweetness to him. Hot.
Lucciano Moodley (1 year ago)
you can to South Africa which part did you Visit?
Chirs Vargas (1 year ago)
Why is dude the biggest tool, yet the biggest cliche I have ever heard ...
Randi Stults (1 year ago)
That was boring
Kelley ONeal (1 year ago)
Great questions. I'm in the flirting stage with this guy at work (he's a regular customer), so slowly trying to hint at interest in him without saying it. Making short conversation when possible. He seems to be slowly picking up on it and upping the contact (how often he comes in, touching my hand or shoulder) I would love to get a chance to ask him these questions on a date soon. Been watching your videos and implementing the advice to test the interest level. Great questions and love your advice. He's really easy to talk to.
Stephanie Ovalle (1 year ago)
He totally didn't answer the third question ...The question wasn't "what's your favorite place you've ever traveled to" proves men don't listen for... they listen to ... themselves.
márk fehér (1 year ago)
Well, he didnt answered the question, but he kept the conversation going in an interesting way. If he would've said a place, then done, question is answered. he was avoiding the so called" interview mode". There is nothing more awkward on a date than asking questions after questions in a spree.(and one word answers make it even worse)
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Fariba Fereidony (1 year ago)
You are cute :-*
Nancy Figueroa (2 years ago)
I think this sounds like a job interview and I would tell the person if he did this. Mathew Boggs has a video on this subject and he says not to ask too much the first time.
kirvyk (2 years ago)
Loved this video Adam! Hell yeah Cali native right huuur we da best!
pfunk26 (2 years ago)
This vid was actually very useful, succinct, and to the point! Thanks.
Rachael Silva (2 years ago)
Wait. Adam. Is Sexy Confidence filmed in Boston???? 😱
Teevee (2 years ago)
These are so cute and helpful! Thank you!
korikori116 (2 years ago)
Adam you are amazing! I watched your videos since 2014. Really helpful! and most importantly, you are a very genuine person and funny :) Thank you so much and all the best in 2017
Corné Smit (2 years ago)
I live in South Africa 🙌🙌 It's amazing here 💜
ImSemtex (2 years ago)
Corné Smit (2 years ago)
+ImSeMteX no not that I know of 😊
ImSemtex (2 years ago)
Do you know someone named kyran?
Charleen Hopkins (2 years ago)
i like the line from office space , i did nothing and it was every thing i through it could be , it never stops being funny
Nicole Wangler (2 years ago)
I find your videos very helpful. I'm in a relationship for almost 4 months, and I always look at your videos for advice to be a more understandable person
I wanna date this guy, and I ain't even gay lol
Dominic Kelley (1 year ago)
Respect bro
Your fukcing gay you hommo
Mariam Darchia Yeah um pretty sure
Mariam Darchia (2 years ago)
DEnis Toranzos are you sure about that ? 😂
Mai Pham (2 years ago)
this was aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawesome - love your videos, thank you from germany, can you make a pratical video on how to flirt with guys at the gym or anywhere beside clubs etc...i find it very hard, i smile - but guys sometimes seems not to get it - so sad
Eponine Thenardier (2 years ago)
Dumb And Dumber.... it's in the title. It kills millions of brain cells per viewer per minute. Braveheart, though....awesome.
Jamila Atiya LLC (2 years ago)
Eponine Thenardier . I am a
Cake Kyo (2 years ago)
he is a little kid 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
SrgCuddlez (2 years ago)
I would like tips. not to go on a date with a guy
lilian lele (2 years ago)
I felt as if i am really dating you! ;D
Jeweled By Jesus (3 years ago)
Pet peeve: when guys don't think I'm funny. Haha. I am secure about my looks, personality, but that is the one thing that makes me feel unsexy. Or more like my sexiness is not noticed. LOL
Rose Gholson (6 months ago)
I agree with this. I've been with guys who I feel like were too insecure to laugh at my jokes or funny stuff I said. Like it diminished them in some way to laugh, even though I laughed at their jokes. Stay far away from a guy who won't laugh with you to things you find funny!
Jeweled By Jesus (3 years ago)
Still haven't seen Bravheart. Haha
Jeweled By Jesus (3 years ago)
And I'm 28. Haha
VeggieLife (3 years ago)
donate? his eyes said the contrary
D Pagne (3 months ago)
Yup he looked uncertain and looked to the left meaning it was a thought out answer most probably a lie lol
gift deborah aghatise (3 years ago)
Hey Adam my crush asked me what is my favorite song, and I said crazy in love by beyonce. Do you think is weird?
Elizabeth O (3 years ago)
OMG I'm from Lynn I didn't know you were from Boston!! So cool!
Michelle Crouse (3 years ago)
would you really say ''shit'' in a response answer, on a fist date, is that not rude/disrespectful...what if the female said that, i texted the word ''crap'' recently, is that unladylike
Kai Konokara (3 years ago)
It really depends on the guy. I think it's only unladylike if you swear too much, where you're adding "shit" or "fuck" to everything lol but again, it also kinda depends on the guy. If he's a little more old fashioned, I'd assume he wouldn't like that too much ://
Michelle Crouse (3 years ago)
''...recently my brother and I'' sorry i had to correct
Michelle Crouse (3 years ago)
<3, too - but for myself. you can get a half <3; < or 3, your choice.
Drone everyone (3 years ago)
+Michelle Crouse (MRLCrouse) <3
Gail Taylor (3 years ago)
Yawn, Boring
Sandie Castaneda (3 years ago)
Come to LA! You will love it :-)
Sarfraz Momin (3 years ago)
hey I m 32 m, i want to ask you beautiful girls what is the hook that attract girls in a guy and can't say no to him.?
Queen_of_Diamonds (5 months ago)
See him put in hard work to be or spend time with her lol he must smell great n be himself
Sonya Erxn (3 years ago)
your neighbour is probably afraid of you))
Nasra BENDAOUD (3 years ago)
"Sexy Confidence" already answered all my questions, i'm so pleased watching your videos. Keep going :) a fan from Morocco
ahh no question about what is a biggest turn off for u when it comes to women?
Carlota Amaral Dias (3 years ago)
Omg we're soul mates
Kat S. (3 years ago)
Adam i follow your channel and i love all the videos!! Please please do a video on signs that a guy you never talked to is into you like body language signs a man is attracted without talking... Thanks <3
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Sexy Confidence (3 years ago)
+Carlota Silva Sounds good! Thanks for your feedback!
CraftsAndMore315 (3 years ago)
This was great. Thank you. :-)
njgamer69 (3 years ago)
i did see some of your videos as a man i say good job keep doing it man
Shell B (3 years ago)
How old are you? :)
Kal Smith (3 years ago)
Why your face is soo red?
Tuliah Jean (3 years ago)
Ahhh thankyou for making it happen for us<33
Šejla Oštraković (3 years ago)
Great video! I actually ask my dates some of those questions hehehe :)
Sumaiya Chowdhury (3 years ago)
Adam .. you are sooooooooooooo Cute ....you know that!!!! xoxoxo
Sjudit84 (3 years ago)
OMG finally someone who answers Braveheart like me! i have never heard anyone say this film as a fave although its so epic!
imstacey666 (3 years ago)
Wow, that almost felt like a date with you lol.
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lilian lele (2 years ago)
Yeah that's how it felt to me too. :D
Lee D (3 years ago)
You're from Boston too??!!
Sexy Confidence (3 years ago)
+Lee D I am :) North End!

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