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ben arellano (1 month ago)
Timing is everything. To be conscious about timing will destroy your game, but there is a place, a strategy wherewith you are always onpoint. This brings your words to the bedroom of her emotions.
adLer (1 month ago)
If he had Morgan Freeman’s voice this video would be 25 minutes long lol
Adams Omede (1 month ago)
adLer Lol I get it...he talks too fast.
gar y . (2 months ago)
this dweeb is the ultimate beta male A mangina who worships women
shepaderp dingo (2 months ago)
I've never heard this Pua stuff before but something happened last week that I can't stop thinking about what the hell even happened and the research has led me here. I'll do a quick version but feel free to ask any questions. I was at a party. I noticed a girl I know )I don't know her well but have known her for 10+ years, friend of a friend). She wasn't really involved in the conversation so I felt like including her. It wasnt an attempt to pick her up but just to be friendly. So I go up to her and I said "hey, anonette, you want to see a magic trick?" "Sure, ok" "Give me your hands". So I grab her hands and notice they're really cold. I said, "Jesus Christ, your hands are freezing". And I clasped her hands, around my chest level kind of a way to warm them up. She had eye contact with me for a second and then pulled her hands away and started fanning herself, got really flush in her face and she started to wobble and her friend who was standing there had to brace her from falling. Her boyfriend saw her reaction and got really pissed, which I won't get into to keep this post relatively short. Anyway she she started coming at me like she was obsessed, she kept latching on to me and her friends were trying to keep her from me because of her boyfriend being there and whatnot. She kept saying, right in front of her boyfriend, how sexy that was. Everyone who saw the exchange were completely shocked at what was happening. It was like she was a starving person and I was food. I even compared it to Jedi mind tricks to someone who was in awe of what he just witnessed. My friend, who is a known ladies man asked me "how did you do that? What the fuck just happened? You gotta show me how to do that"! Because her bf was there and I respect the guy I decided I'd leave her be and go to a different part of the house. Like 45 minutes later I go back to the room she was in and she is still in this state. I'm not even kidding it was like I broke her brain. When she saw me enter the room she started to get tears in her eyes and started fanning herself and just kept repeating "that was so hot....." Other people who were in the room that didn't see what caused her to enter that state or hysteria were like "w-what did you do, man"? I was just like "I don't even know". And everything that I was saying to anyone in the room seemed to get her more and more revved up. I was just having casual conversation with the people in the room asking me what happened. At this point her boyfriend actually left the place and she was basically saying in front of a bunch of people, who are all good friends with her boyfriend, how turned on she was and how I'm so hot (I'm relatively average looking). Anyway, I actually like her bf so I thought it was best that I don't stick around her for the rest of the night out of respect for him. Anyone know what the hell that was? It was literally like I broke her brain, it was some deep psychological shit and I want to know how to do that again, just not with my buddies girl. I feel like it may have been a lightning in a bottle moment that I'll never be able to repeat but it was a powerful moment for me and I can't stop thinking about it.
Cliff's List (2 months ago)
I have some experience with the type of thing that happened to you - please email me at [email protected]
Ashley Davis (3 months ago)
Clickbait title
christian primig (3 months ago)
for puas beginners he is ok! anyway he talks way to fast!!! ladys hate it bitches hate it girls hate it he wrote a book and thats it!!!!!!
Evil Evan (3 months ago)
Anybody else wanking to this?
Evil Evan (3 months ago)
This shit really works. After this, the two of them had bum sex.
d jjdnyc (3 months ago)
In response to the question "what thing/item -- tangible or not -- would make you happy in your life?" and that numbskull answers "integrity." Neil is then forced to riff off that idiotic response, rather than just saying "Really, dude? You retarded?" Ha!
John D. Dodson (4 months ago)
Neil is the conversation boss.
5ygn4 (4 months ago)
I like niel and his band of nerds but these questions are going to put chicks in their thoughts via thinking and not in their feelings. A female needs to feel the right feelings when she interacts with you
Ken Swanston Garrett (4 months ago)
Stsrts from 3.50
Cliff and Howie (4 months ago)
Get to the fucking point
Cash Money (4 months ago)
The girly voice guy
welshhibby (5 months ago)
"WANT SOME DICK' 'WANT SOME DICK' 'WANT SOME DICK'
Shawna Allison (5 months ago)
I'm sorry, what were the questions? This makes no sense. This sounds like a shallow guy's book for idiotic conversation starters. No true and good woman falls for this crap unless she has no clue what a real man is like.
Lijevi Desni (5 months ago)
this guy wears shoes that make him like 6 inch taller
PT b23 (5 months ago)
I'm reading The Game again, what a fun book.
Diction (6 months ago)
I'm currently reading "The Game," Neil Strauss' book, and it's incredible.
kev3d (6 months ago)
"Do you like money?" "Do you like my money?" "Would you like to have some of my money?" Works every time. Just ask Charlie Sheen.
Eney P (6 months ago)
style is a master level at this.dont talk about bullshits,because u dont know nothing about this.u dont even try the game,because you are scared of fallin down.if you wanna learn something,listen,look,and be concentrated on the video.this guy know how to do it
julian aventador (6 months ago)
1 sene önce izlemiştim videoyu ve anlamamıştım. Şimdi tekrar izledim yine anlamadım amk ya
Habit Prime (7 months ago)
Thanos need dating advice?
NathanaelB (7 months ago)
metamodel of nlp
MrTrollbaby (7 months ago)
really? this is for geeks and nerds who have never talked to the female gender before. zzzzzzzzz
Anita Hagen-Weise (7 months ago)
I had to check out what he looked and sounded like after reading his pick up artist book, lol. Its just like he said. He looks like Moby.
Jared Bellard (7 months ago)
He sounds like Eddie Bassmaster when he laughs
J (7 months ago)
Wtf. U trying to interview a girl? Fuckin weirdo
Cameron Bass (8 months ago)
Basically stop being a pussy and grow some balls. It’s called confidence. No secret formula for catching tail.
Vince Warren (8 months ago)
Life is about feeling ~
Brendan (8 months ago)
Why is the bald guy sitting there like this?
Poras Srivastava (8 months ago)
He Does talk fast. Mystery was right.
cesar91 (8 months ago)
Who the F dresses up like this???
tommy cane115 (8 months ago)
i remember this guy.... he got destroyed on howard stern... ralph was really getting under this guys skin lol... it made me realize how many hot girls richard roeper banged... he probably didnt do any of this shit.. but he probably had his own gimmicks
scott margerison (8 months ago)
Gays, make me sick
Attila RZA (9 months ago)
Sissy gave advice for talking to women
tube4digger (9 months ago)
this video gave me inspiration to launch my own fragrance that i'll name "integrity", i'll sell the fact that i can't be bought :o
kiskeacity (10 months ago)
Strauss is probably the least sexy man I’ve ever seen.
Tim O'dea (5 months ago)
,😂😂😂
Lazarussoul 82 (10 months ago)
What finger thing??? I would never hold a dude’s fingers together to paralyze them.......tf is this dude talking about??
Nacht Aktiv (10 months ago)
I'd just be weirded out by someone asking me this
uropy (10 months ago)
No idea what he is speaking. Totally rubbish. The whole pickup/dating is simply having the ball and interact with girl on man-to-woman frame. That's all. Have guts, trust gut feeling, go emotional and physical.
Open Season (11 months ago)
I thought that was Tim Ferris
quad comparator (11 months ago)
"Love me now or I'll kill myself" always works for me. lol
One Man On Fire (11 months ago)
Peacock shirt
David Kim (11 months ago)
One Man On Fire lol
j- the-isso (11 months ago)
I really feel sorry for self-described PUAs. Their whole sense of inner value is based on female validation. There's a whole world of adventure and self-discovery out there to explore.
Arijate (1 month ago)
If you look at pua’s the ones who made an actual career out of it. They explored the world way more than you just assume
LL NN (1 year ago)
Anyone who thinks the word "integrity" is a good selling point when it comes to attracting women is doomed to fap for life.
Pat Brennan (3 months ago)
Dumbass. The entire video is basically elicit feeling and link it to myself. Its NLP (Ross Jeffries) and a beginning stage of OMS (October Man Sequence)
Juice (1 year ago)
why is this guy talking about emotions lol this is very feminine
JaVaughn McGregor (1 year ago)
Fulfillment
David Stojadinovic (1 year ago)
This is just superb, been searching for "how to get girls books" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Diyamma Magnify Manukau - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my mate got great results with it.
Nirvana One (1 year ago)
Wow never seen a Neil Strauss seminar techniques are so so but he is a better communicator than Tyler
ActiveHybrid (1 year ago)
Neil, My whole life has change since I've started reading your book. But please stop speaking so fast (which you mentioned in your book)
Pedro Freitas (1 year ago)
Which is better?? RSD or this old school pickup??
Antonio Colín (1 year ago)
What kind of technology is that? NLP?
Dr. Michael Hecker (10 months ago)
Antonio Colín correct
What happens when you ask the first question and she says "It's you?" 0.0
Rashid Belk (11 months ago)
Aihtel, Angel of Light she wont
chourobidou (1 year ago)
All I heard was a boring monotone voice.
Danny Rogers (1 year ago)
How far should I drive to meet woman? I live in Connecticut and everything is like fairly far. About 20 minutes or more. Should I do the drive everyday?
Qauvo Mottola (5 months ago)
Danny Rogers go as far as New Jersey
Suzo Phizer (1 year ago)
What does Neil want? I wish skilled people like this talked to me
Shlug life (1 year ago)
reading the truth at the moment, such a good book, I bought the game so I'll finish the truth first
Christian Moreno (2 years ago)
dammit style your the shit facts
Ryan R (2 years ago)
I'm studying get a date and discovered a fantastic website at Shawthing Dating Advice (google it if you're interested)
Kevin L (2 years ago)
Gay. Guys who try to pickup women are pathetic. Women should pick up men. Just be good looking and rich. You're welcome.
African MusicGenuis (2 months ago)
If you're so rich, why did you come watch this?
Brian Dang (2 years ago)
2017 here and this is fucking lame.
MrFourkinghell (2 years ago)
The most magic question is how soon before I can slip you one?
Zane Mc (2 years ago)
ive been looking for help to get my ex back can you or anyone else help
Marco Thoma (2 months ago)
Get with ten other women use the things you learned about women to get her back. Don't try to get her until after the tenth one
Xemnin (2 years ago)
It's like that movie Hitch, at the end they realize his tips were all garbage. It just comes down to the person having a conversation.
Flash Banger (2 years ago)
Tyler Durden gonna whoop ur ass
Zes (2 years ago)
wrong, fools
Asger Storgaard-Larsen (2 years ago)
Well obviously Neil Strauss has an issue with integrity and feeling comfortable himself, since he thinks he has to plan what to say to people beforehand instead of just enjoying the moment. Also he must feel threatened if he thinks the only and best advice to give people on how to develop themselves, depend solely on the results of how others react to them, instead of what they experience or feel themselves. That's is no way to be free or live above the shadows, least of all, that is to have integrity and feel comfortable with yourself..
Tristan Roodt (9 months ago)
Have you read "The Game"? It's the saddest shit ever
sros6 (11 months ago)
Yeah i agree if you have to plan this stuff...then what you going to do the next day? Or next week? You going to have to put a whopping amount of effort. Its more about become comfortable with yourself and then just say anything.
One Man On Fire (11 months ago)
I have the audio book to the game and so far half way through it. From what he says in the book he's still had doubt in himself. But when picking up women it was just a simple routine over and over again that it was automatic. Yes he said that in the book.
TheObserver (2 years ago)
Well congratulations, you fucking wannabe psychoanalyst. And FYI, Neil Strauss is way past all this stuff as of today, 2017, he's more mature.
rayan Rayan (2 years ago)
Please can someone write what he says ?
Farrakhan Wolcott (4 months ago)
What is One quality that makes life worthwhile? What does quality allow you to do? How do you feel if that quality and consequences came together perfectly
Matt Redman (2 years ago)
First time watching anything from Neil Strauss. This guy has nothing on RSD. See ya!
Fev Ola (2 years ago)
Matt Redman your very naive you moron
integrity? wtf
M3NTAL MAGIC (2 years ago)
Strauss is the man.....this guy rocks, breaking it down for a decade.
Ferenc Krasznai (2 years ago)
In my opinion he is one of the kind of person who is just talk & talk but saying absolutely nothing at all!
DowntownLAKid (7 months ago)
I think it’s interesting how our brains are wired, because I’ve gotten a lot of information from this video itself. He isn’t just telling you what these things are about he’s also showing you how to do it how works and how to handle certain situations like somebody who is closed This guy is incredibly gifted with speaking to women, but only because he’s doing it for years. Would he just drop right now is an amazing way to be able to bond with somebody and it may not even be a girl and you can be a family member or a friend I think you’re looking for a very quick fix, but when he’s teaching is the long game which is going to help you in all of your life and not just picking women But pic of women, he does it amazingly well.
R V (9 months ago)
Ferenc Krasznai because you hear Instead of listen like the majority of people....he is on a different level than you so you do not resonate with the message, you only hear noise.
shawarmageddonit (1 year ago)
In my opinion he's gotten laid more times than you and I combined. Read The Game.
Jonathan Lewis (2 years ago)
I got a couple minutes in before I started skipping it forward until he would say something. I finally just gave up.
Matias Catalan Vega (2 years ago)
0:34 WTF dude, i expected a Barry White voice. What the hell is this, Princess Leia?
Man Like B (2 months ago)
lmao
cruhg (1 year ago)
i used to buck hay for a burly farmer that looked grizzly adams and spoke like the hippie teacher in beavis and butthead
david Ela (2 years ago)
pathetic... i feel sorry for guys following this garbage spending time and money to learn this stuff which doesn't work.. also it's manipulative in spirit. go with Coach Corey Wayne instead guys
Max Zelkcovik (2 years ago)
david Ela Sorry for u man, that can't respect other ways than not yours... do u at least know someone that use this line of pua?
Fev Ola (2 years ago)
david Ela go with this guy go with that fuck off the lot of ya
t dw (2 years ago)
4:02 Wat heb je nodig i/h leven, opdat het leven de moeite waard wordt? (backup question: Wat doe je graag?) 4:27 Als 'x' dan wat kan je ermee doen? (backup question: beschrijf het perfecte scenario van 'x') 5:13 Als 'x' en 'y', hoe doet je dat voelen? <- na antwoord 'Dat is het echte dat je zoekt, niet het eerste antwoord'
IDK IDC (2 years ago)
Oh ok thank you...
Revit UpNow (2 years ago)
what girl in their right mind would ant to fuck this short bald dweeb.. oh I know, a good digger who knows he makes six figures and writes for the NY times and Rolling Stones which is all he has going for him which has nothing to do with PUA. PUA doesn't work beyond having an opener and faking a conversation be it goes stale.
gnik (1 year ago)
Revit UpNow, it's not about pickup lines, it's about taking action and trying. I can tell you think looks and social circles are everything. I have a few friends and i'm not eye candy, but i pull. I don't use pickup lines, i go and talk to girls. I get rejected a lot, but i also get successful. Watch Tom Torero and see how he debunks the whole looks are everything theory. Also, these PUA know what they're talking about. Implement it in real life and you'll see results. At least i know i have.
Max Zelkcovik (2 years ago)
Revit UpNow what a small mind? did u read his pua books? do u know what he lived and achieved? his last two girls are better than any girl u got in yr life man, I bet... open yr mind. its not just about openings, routines, its just 1% of the whole thing... go reading pls
Łukasz Denisiuk (2 years ago)
it means that you didn't read the book man. Neil changed a lot also in his appearance
Revit UpNow (2 years ago)
+Łukasz Denisiuk yeah if the shop assistant looks like Justin Bieber or any other flavor of the month otherwise why would a cute girl give up their snatch for free to a poor dweeb with bad hygiene who's only social value is memorizing pick up lines
Dan Halliday (2 years ago)
i think wat it is, is tha sometime people end up in long relationships we spend along time with one person ....then you break up....it take along time to get over it...then you find you lost your mojo.....you dont need neil...just need to get back out there.
Dan Halliday (2 years ago)
if your to sexy my friend you should give neil some lessons!!
Dan Halliday (2 years ago)
I think it worked for ian2sexy.
Bill Preston (2 years ago)
Glad to see Cliff's list is still active.
C C (2 years ago)
Very interesting, sir! I learned much of myself, well it is now in words since I wrote it down. now if only I could be interested in other people's nonsense :D
IDK IDC (2 years ago)
Correct me if I'm wrong, plz I'd like to know how this is fair...
CASY WARNER (2 years ago)
gaby is ghost mcdonalds sfsu
Dillon (2 years ago)
da fuck is he wearing around his neck
Łukasz Denisiuk (2 years ago)
peacock theory man :D
visceral fate (2 years ago)
lol its dumb right
pec5ekt (2 years ago)
and what about those shoes? :D
The Oracle (2 years ago)
hahaha
Riia Luhtanen (2 years ago)
well, I rarely have a desire to ask further.
Riia Luhtanen (2 years ago)
Come on, the questions still have to be with a 'prelude' and THEN get to longer questions :-)
Zes (2 years ago)
wrr
Riia Luhtanen (2 years ago)
question # 1 is too long.
Blama Toscope (2 years ago)
The secret here, unsaid, is PNL technique. 1) Strauss make him feel good feelings 2) With his bodylanguage he's associating these feels to him (look at his hands always pointing towards himself while speaking about good emotions) 3) After some repetition with the same gestures, you can use them again at any moment to make him feel them again. But he can't talk about it :-P
Donny Rickles Jr. (8 months ago)
Peter Alvin NLP for retards.
Peter Alvin (9 months ago)
What is PNL?
tom kumar (11 months ago)
PNL or NLP?
koby va (1 year ago)
Blama Toscope J
Zes (2 years ago)
wrg
ian2sexy (2 years ago)
what is the full DVD called ?
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ian2sexy (2 years ago)
thanks
Cliff's List (2 years ago)
http://www.cliffslistconvention.com/
AQGOAT24 (2 years ago)
I feel these work better on a first date type of thing vs picking someone up.
HeadshooterGTAS (10 months ago)
trump was handsome younger
Juan Guaido (2 years ago)
Dude the problem is that the more you are into game the more you can spot players, I have spotted some diamonds in the rough, and I have also found out there is unbelievably good naturals all over, I know guys who are ugly as fuck by social standards and they be having three somes and whatnot. Women are attracted by looks of course, but they aren't as visual as men, do your homework. Men and women have different goals in terms of finding partners. With women is all about fulfilling their fantasies, for example I live in a tourist destination.. European women travel through here, and some Mexican players who are short, and aren't good looking pick up all these women, why? Because when the women come here they want to go back to their countries and brag on how the banged a dude on the beach. And basically there's is fantasies of all types it's up to you to identify them and cater to those "needs". But if you were born a natural you must hate on those dudes that want to learn game because you obviously don't want to share I have also lied about being Italian to certain women just to take them to bed since that's what they were looking for, or lied about other shit just to make them feel at ease or comfortable, to set myself at a high value, or whatever. So it's not that simple dude. lol 😁 good luck
Max Zelkcovik (2 years ago)
StrosB4Hos God forgive u. Straus taught how to build attraction, and it works fella ;)
Łukasz Denisiuk (2 years ago)
not quite, even an ugly can find something attractive about themselves and then use it during a contact with a girl. Success is then you get attention and then talking and persuading skills are essential. For example, Trump isn't handsome but he won hearts of millions and millions of Amercans. How? because he can communicate
Nicholas Robinson (2 years ago)
absolutely shite
Nicholas Robinson (1 year ago)
+Yo Mama It's pronounced "shi - te" as in the same way you pronounce the "i" of the word "tight". You would say "crap", to mean the same thing. Which was from describing something as being low and repulsive like dog crap. But in general day use crap means of very poor quality not actually dog crap. Same with the word shite accept it has a more humorous tone.
Rob Gravelle (1 year ago)
Love that word: Shite!
Yo Mama (2 years ago)
Shite ?
Lil Toto (2 years ago)
i'm thinking of pulling this off....
Seán O'Brien (5 months ago)
That's what she said last night
Zes (2 years ago)
wrg
Yo Mama (2 years ago)
Do it
Phil Adams (2 years ago)
Sounds like a job interview/therapy session. Don't think this will attract.
Marcus Goodyear (1 month ago)
+Danial Howe believe it or not young people also have a deepness to them you just have to search for it. i am 17 and interested in philosophy and psychology. its all individuals man
Danial Howe (6 months ago)
its certaily BOREING... i cant IMAGINE using this on some pin head 19yo whos whole life is about selfies and instagram.... try talking values with THAT.... thanks ill just go over here in the corner and smash my dick with a hammer....id enjoy it more
DowntownLAKid (7 months ago)
lol this guy is questioning Neil Strauss. Haha c’mon Phil. Think before you post.
Alain Lozada (1 year ago)
Max Zelkcovik it does actually I tried it last week, one of the stuff that got me laid.
Max Zelkcovik (2 years ago)
Phil Adams u should try at least, before put any comments
wwbenee (3 years ago)
Did not expect the little girl's voice on the big guy
Don't Complain (14 days ago)
intedrity👶👶😂😂😂😂😂
K Strohl (8 months ago)
LOL
Jon Italia (11 months ago)
don't say that to his face lol he looks stone cold
Alex Santana (11 months ago)
😂 read your comment just as he began speaking, perfect timing.
Ajna Su (1 year ago)
This is just superb, been searching for "pick up on the street" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Cebaarvel Feminine Flirter - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my colleague got great results with it.
Arsalon Amini (3 years ago)
This video is misslabeled. It says attraction but this is emotional connection not attraction.
Troy Tulloch (10 months ago)
Emotional connection is a part of attraction ya goof
Temporary (2 years ago)
+Arsalon Amini someone knows the structure.
Arsalon Amini (3 years ago)
no. after this will be emotional connection. Fundamentals of building attraction is a whole different video.Cocky-funny, push-pull, role reversal, etc. #designofapersonality  
adrian bruce (3 years ago)
+Arsalon Amini at first yeah u r right But after while is will be an a attraction.....
Antanas Novickis (3 years ago)
dont think so
Style is Cool!! Bottom line is you got to get out there and start approaching, otherwise all these tips and tricks are worthless.
Victor HR (3 years ago)
This is so lame and nerdy compared to the modern day stuff RSD puts out.
Gourav chakraborty (4 months ago)
Why you guys fighting founder of rsd is also student of mystery do what works best for you this or rsd stuff who cares
Jo Gauthier (4 months ago)
+TrialsOfWar huh really ? Another arash fanboy
Shawna Allison (5 months ago)
+Razz Diamond No I didnt skip it, I actually replayed the whole thing 3 times really trying to understand. I like to give ppl the benefit of the doubt that they know what they're talking about but this makes no sense. Did he skip communications class? His voice, his tone, his mannerisms. And the interview at the beginning, he couldnt get his point across so he pinned his guest with an obscure question. Ultimately making his guest feel quite uncomfortable and embarrassed. The title was not appropriately labeled. I'm saying this with an attitude of constructive criticism and in no way am I attacking his character. But after listening and watching to this I now know why I question most men's motives when they approach me. It's because most men are as shallow as this man's thought process of women of how to get in their pants. I wish there were more men out there that knew how to respect a woman's thought process instead of trying to break it down to a low testosterone level little Weiner syndrome. Give women more respect than that.
Razz Diamond (5 months ago)
+Shawna Allison Did you skip the last half of the video? lol
Shawna Allison (5 months ago)
I'm sorry, what were the questions? This makes no sense. This sounds like a shallow guy's book for idiotic conversation starters. No true and good woman falls for this crap unless she has no clue what a real man is like.

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