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7 Questions You Should Ask On A First Date

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First dates can be awkward and nerve-racking, especially if you don't know what to talk about. So how can you avoid that dreaded awkward silence? Before you head out with your new sweetheart-to-be, prepare yourself with these 7 questions you should ask on a first date. What is the most awkward first date you ever had? How do you usually prepare for a first date? Let us know in the comments! Don't forget guys, if you like this video please "Like," "Favorite," and "Share" it with your friends to show your support - it really helps us out! If there's something you'd like to see John or Lisa discuss on the show, tweet us about it! See you tomorrow :) ***************************************************** TYTU is here every day to challenge your preconceptions, expose you to amazing new facts and scientific discoveries, motivate you to see things from new perspectives, and inspire you to learn more about the world and the people around you. Feed your brain with new videos every day at 12pm Eastern/9am Pacific! SUBSCRIBE or you'll miss out! http://tinyurl.com/9o8kpf4 Keep up to date with John Iadarola, Lisa Ferguson, and Lissette Padilla! ON FACEBOOK: http://facebook.com/TYTUniversity ON TWITTER: http://twitter.com/tytuniversity JOHN: http://twitter.com/jiadarola LISA: http://twitter.com/lisa_ferg LISSETTE: http://twitter.com/lizzette ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/jiadarola ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/user/johniadarola https://www.youtube.com/user/lisafergusontv
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Rav Hirani (8 days ago)
Tbh like I know these videos are trying to help but it doesn't. Imagine putting a girl on the spot with "tell me about yourself?" Like it's a job interview lol. I'd say just be yourself have a normal conversation keep it flowing. Simple. Worked for me ;)
Ryan M (24 days ago)
Girl: Whats your favorite way to spend a Saturday ? Me: watching porn,, you want some fuk
Jack Black (1 month ago)
Religious? God, is that the time I`ll miss my bus.
Jack Black (1 month ago)
Brit chicks; so thick they literally don`t know what they don`t know.
Mark (2 months ago)
Every first date ever: Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah (look are we going to screw or not?)
Otsile Modiselle (2 months ago)
Feels like John's little side answers are him kind of pretend dating his guest.
Commenter (2 months ago)
“Tell me a little bit about yourself” is a statement, not a question
ali sedghi (2 months ago)
Its like a IELTS interview that i had before 🤣
Duke of Norfolk (2 months ago)
I wish pretty girl whould stop using the word LIKE as often as she does. I am tired of people over using LIKE as a preposition, it’s not good grammar, and it makes one sound unintelligent. But that’s just me.
Ana Montana (3 months ago)
I hate questions like that. It feels like interview and my dating spirit IS DOWN !!!
Amin Rasekh (3 months ago)
What if you have asked all of them already via social media then you don’t have too much things to ask on the first date 🤔🤔😀😀
Josh R (4 months ago)
It's so ironic that TYT is talking about being open-minded. Because they are everything but that.
Tom Reedy (5 months ago)
1st question for women: are you certified nuts??? saves time...
Moroccanluv88 (5 months ago)
They seem like a cute couple lol !! Their connecting ha
Lilleelolly (5 months ago)
im 13 and have my first date this weekend and I have no idea what to do so these question are for like when your older what do you ask when your young
Bucky (5 months ago)
I told a woman that I spent 12 years in prison because I killed a whole family. But that it was a mistake. She fell madly in love with me. We dated for a while. Then she left me...I was forced to strangle her, too. .
coffeeman (7 months ago)
I see so many people complaining about this being similar to an interview. It IS similar to an interview i am trying to figure out if this person is worth my time not the other way around!
Marcus O'Conner (7 months ago)
Is this a job interview?
New Thought (7 months ago)
'What do you do?' is a nasty, testing, unnecessary question. It is a huge turn off and painfully unoriginal.
Jon908584 (8 months ago)
Following the lunatic advice thrown out in this vid in the UK would ensure that coming together for what should be a social occasion metamorphs into a disaster. It would be considered a gross impertinence and an unwarranted invasion of privacy. She : Tell me about yourself. He : What is this? The Spanish inquisition revisited? My blood group is O+ and my inside leg measurement is 31 inches, or I am a convicted rapist and therefore on the sexual offenders list and have to report to the local police every three days.
calvan candy (8 months ago)
I’m a nervous wreck. Neither of you are helping that.
gerald828 (8 months ago)
How about....What are some of your favorite movies ? And........do you know how to pole dance ?
Miniks plays (8 months ago)
hello felow virgins
demongo2007 (8 months ago)
How about just some discussion related to the original circumstances that resulted in the date? Ie, unless this is some sort of blind date there must be *some* reason the two people decided to go on a date; start there.
Orlando X (8 months ago)
thank you...
James Luckhurst (8 months ago)
Shes in to him
Sergio Moreno (9 months ago)
Theses questions suck I thought I was on a date not an interview
A A (9 months ago)
Too much "like" Wow its so annoying people that keep saying like like
Bryan Hughes (9 months ago)
This is pissing me off. First of all relax your date is as nervous as you are, don’t overthink it. Ask questions, first dates are all about questions there really isn’t a dumb one, be open and honest (maybe not too honest) but you get the idea. Ask yourself “what do I really want to know about this person?” That in itself will make the date go smoothly. Don’t anticipate getting them into bed maybe this person will make a really good friend. Breath and have fun 👍
Bryan Hughes (9 months ago)
She sucks....
NephilimM15 (9 months ago)
I just tell a girl enough about her let's talk about me...Lmao
Jonathan Walker (11 months ago)
Terrible information her question so more like a job interview not a date
Alex Bautista (1 year ago)
PPLLEEAAASEEE!!!
Hunter Fletcher (1 year ago)
“Tell me a little about yourself” is not a question.
Victor Fanai (1 year ago)
Should you really take dating advice from a Muslim?
JF Franco (1 year ago)
tell me about yourselft🤣 what is it a job interview?
NIck Cross (1 year ago)
Me: "Tell me a bit about yourself." Her: "Well I come from a pretty big family. I have 4 brothers and a sister." Me: **panicking** Me: "How long have you known your family?"
Dallas Doorn Cozma (1 year ago)
date question: ask there about their hobbies or what they enjoy I think a minority of people like to talk stuff they enjoy right! P.S i honestly don't advise you to straight out ask these question like mix it in with a topic you guys have in common with or rephrase the question that you think is right. To NOT make it seem like a interrogation
maria mistretta (1 year ago)
Asking question is important, on a date its a good way to get to know a person.
Angus Reynolds (1 year ago)
Expert questions NOT
Fluffmeow * (1 year ago)
Like tell Me a little bit about yourself would not work for Me. Im in school and My crush that also want to go on a date with Me goes in My class and i´ve known this person in like My hole life. I´ve known him from i been i think like 2 years until today and we are 12 now so we have known another for like 10 years so i know really mutch about him😐
bissereth junior (1 year ago)
Here is something that I do I think its may work for you so my best friend we known each other for two years but we always talking to each other always see each other twice a week but when I decided to actually dated her I take my time to plan for a date find out somethings that she like you my surprise her with and things or the best version of you the part of you that she don’t know and whenever it come to sting and sharing feeling with someone, everything change no mater where your relationships is with that person if you take your time to plan to share something new with that person it will be different and it’s worth it I promise. Find out the things that he like and a plan make a date out of it and I give you tree week because your are a women you know him enough and if you can go out with him he’s yours be more attractive show action little by little.
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Benbot (1 year ago)
I get all my dating advice from John. That’s why I will die alone.
cynthia pamela (1 year ago)
Why is the lady so annoying , she makes it all look like it’s an Interview
jumexsuave501 (1 year ago)
What if you like to talk about anime
LooseBoltsYT (1 year ago)
The “tell me about yourself” isn’t a good questions anymore. Most first dates now are from people who meet online/ dating sites and this was mostly likely talked about.
Julie Holmes (1 year ago)
I like "What is something about you people wouldn't know just to look at you,"
Daniel Gunit (1 year ago)
The Guy should never give advice again !
cymaddux31 (1 year ago)
Do not start off with tell me a little bit about yourself that sounds far too much like an interview question
Orbritblue (1 year ago)
I have a date on Wednesday, and Ive never met the person. I came in on youtube so i can pick out some good questions to ask, but after hearing the girl suggest to ask 'tell me a little bit about yourself', i totally lost credit in this video. Im not a love expert, but that question is ridiculous to ask on a first date lol. I ask that question when I interview people for my restaurant lmao
Justin Mccarter (1 year ago)
Oh my god, I only heard two questions and then started feeling my mind to start to melt
LoveMe,com (1 year ago)
This video is helpful, it gives us some ideas on some question we could ask the person we’re dating for the first time, especially if we don’t know what to talk about.
epicfrog0 (1 year ago)
These are terrible questions lmao it's not an interview got dam
ALeXbLAdE (1 year ago)
Tell me about yourself? Are you kidding me? Is this an interview?
Blue (1 year ago)
I disagree, it's not less pressure to ask someone "tell me about yourself". It puts people on the spot and can make them nervous, this question is something you would hear asked at a job interview. The guy had better/fun questions to ask on a date. You want to be comfortable and have a good time just as much as you want to know the person.
Jackie Turner (1 year ago)
What do you say when a guy asks when was the last time you had sex ?
Julie Holmes (1 year ago)
With a smile of course...:)
Julie Holmes (1 year ago)
You say "That's not really any of your business."
varnishvarnish (1 year ago)
Stopped watching at "tell me a little about yourself". As someone that's been the the receiving end of this question I can tell you it's awkward as fuck being put on the spot like that. It's a lazy ass basic bitch question that screams 'I'm not serious about this date'. This ain't a job interview, if you want to know something ask it. At least show a little interest!
Ronimau santi (1 year ago)
"tell me about yourself".....and the standard response to that is "ehm what do you want to know exactly?"....so it's a big waste of time to ask that. I've had girls telling me that and I'm thinking like "why can't you just ask specific questions, why should I tell you my life story......where should I begin". That would just ruin a tiny bit of the vibe if you ask me. "dating expert" my ass. Fucking common sense to ask more specific questions.
Frowntown (1 year ago)
Ask about their parents and their upbringing. This question allows you to divulge into so many other things but more importantly gives you their foundation right off the bat. Stay away from Daddy issues.
Charlotte Nalumansi (1 year ago)
LOL. What do you do can't be mostly an L.A thing.
kairon156 (1 year ago)
Context is very important for some of these questions. I don't want to feel like I'm being interviewed for how big my wallet is if that's all they seem to be interested in.
GodricThe (1 year ago)
Tell me a little about yourself is THE worst question
Jason Light (1 year ago)
What about asking them what do they like to do in their spare time? draw, watch movies, go to the gym, etc.
Shawn Ravenfire (1 year ago)
I hate it when people ask me about my job. I don't like thinking about work even when I'm at work, so the last thing I want is to think about work on my off time.
gnryushi (1 year ago)
"Tell me about yourself". If a guy asks that question on the first date he doesn't know what the fuck he's doing. I don't even ask that question on job interviews. This is really bad.
gavin Reid (1 year ago)
When someone answers that first question they will probably end up answering most of the others. Some of these questions seem more like interview questions. The supposed expert is a woman. Are these the type of questions she likes a man to use when he is chattering her up.
jackfavvv (1 year ago)
"How old are you?" I absolutely hate this one the most. Am I even obligated to answer this?
Don Man (1 year ago)
Wtf....these are job interview questions
thejasonbischoff (1 year ago)
Open minded. Lol. Can I shove this nail into your eye?! No! What? Aren't you OPEN MINDED?! Open minded means accept the LIES. You are being fed. Nothing more. Hate these channel, btw, and these two boneheads.
Lightning XIII (1 year ago)
I'm a good looking guy, but my first dates are so fking boring bcuz I don't know what to say! After like 10 minutes, I feel like I said everything about my boring life. They don't care about video games, drawing, manga...etc, things that I like, so it's so hard to keep talking to them :/
Sachin Panwar (1 year ago)
Tomorrow, i'm going to my first date... lets see how much it help me..;)
elibigman bigman (1 year ago)
Personally I would specific on the questions I want to know than just saying tell me little bit about yourself.
Unbiased Logic (2 years ago)
Save 6:40 1. Tell me a little about yourself 2. What was your day like yesterday 3. What are you passionate about 4. What is something that touched you recently 5. What is something people wouldn't know about you 6. What is something you like about your job 7. What is your favorite way to spend a Saturday
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Jeff The Man (2 years ago)
when did you have your last period?
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Dallas Cowboys Fan (2 years ago)
Men who support Bernie are pussies!
Dallas Cowboys Fan (2 years ago)
Didn't you kill like 1.5 million Armenians?
well just three are good do you have real teeth, beer, and a good tv remote ;)
s m (2 years ago)
I wanna kiss my girl end of date what should I do , means what is my last conversation with her that she understand my point
Quaint Deliveries (2 years ago)
so many comments and none about her great assets...appreciate a lady guys...
JE ENN (2 years ago)
can some just write down these questions please?
Saga lone (2 years ago)
now i know they are talkin bullshit..... "tell me about yourself" this statement is alrite in this video and is a nono in another video..... WTF ..... SMH
ahmed assaad (2 years ago)
instead of asking them stupid questions like: "tell me something about you", "what are you passionate about" sort of questions.... all these stupid questions make you look very stupid, idle person who doesn't want to do his homework. how about if you generate more fun dialogue and listen thoroughly and do your homework work during the conversation and find out in smart way about the other person interests and start to talk about it. it feels more fun, natural and above all the other person won't feel being interviewed...enough said
ahmed assaad (2 years ago)
I give you ten thumbs down 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎
ahmed assaad (2 years ago)
very stupid, very childish
ESSJ333 (2 years ago)
Whats your favorite sexual position?
Moriah Babb (2 years ago)
right
UNDFTDGordon (2 years ago)
Great questions. I would ask how a woman and her closest friend became friends. Friends are a huge window into the true nature of a person.
Victor Bastidas (2 years ago)
thx for the first date at my new school and in in 8
johnny07652 (2 years ago)
Here's a good question - "Do you believe that the Armenian Genocide happened, or do you deny it like the racist Cenk Uygur?" Or another one: "Do you find the name Redskins offensive while hypocritically having a name like the Young Turks for your employer?" Wow, so many great questions you can ask about Turks!
Judy (2 years ago)
My son has a girlfriend
HT T (2 years ago)
"tell me a lil about yourself" god everybody hates that question.
Dee Jay (2 years ago)
"Tell me about yourself" is the worst anyone could ask. I feel put on the spot, like an interview.
denis dralec (2 years ago)
Avoid asking people what they hate about their jobs ??  Congrats snowflake, you just eliminated the topic that has endless possibilities.  I bet the guy is still a virgin.
Robin VB (2 years ago)
well, im Robin, like to play football and I got 2 Jobs, 1 at a restaurant and one at a Hotel, I am really passionate about cars, I love how everything works together in the engine and that kind of stuff, yesterday I worked at the hotel, I had breakfast shift and there were like 370 teachers there on a meeting. what really touched me lately was a little boy who is ill and would die eventually, but he got on the national tv and radio raising money for a charity and got a total of +1 million euros!! that really touched me. the weirdest thing about me, I honestly don't know that one. i love the social contacts of my Jobs but i hate when its really overflowing with people and I can't properly do my job. so... who wants to skip to second date? :) that's gonna be it I got to get up early so ima go to sleep. ciao
Luke Pape (2 years ago)
This women is full of horse shit. Guaranteed to make sure your date thinks you're a loser and won't talk to you again.
fornavn Efternavn (2 years ago)
how do I build on a conversation because it always end up in silence for me
Badia (2 years ago)
look up matthew hussey's conversation tips ;) He's on YouTube..
trollie polie olie (2 years ago)
I think Johns questions are better and more natural . not so much like an interview. talking about nerdy interests is fun .

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