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Pickup & Date Questions That Build Attraction

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Coach Corey Wayne discusses some great questions you can ask women when you first meet them or when you are out on dates that are interesting and fun to talk about to make you stand out from the rest of the crowd and create attraction at the same time. How to be an interesting and fun guy for women to talk to instead of being dull and boring. If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCW3Man Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3 You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCWMY Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to purchase Official Coach Corey Wayne branded merchandise (T-Shirts, Mugs, etc.): https://teespring.com/stores/coach-corey-wayne Click the link below to book phone/Skype (audio only) coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne
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Terry Tibbs (1 month ago)
I told the pee story on a date, of course I mixed it up a little, It didnt happen at school it happened at work last week.
Mason Mendez (1 month ago)
Thank you Corey you're fuckin awesome dude. I appreciate you.
Timothy Murphy (1 month ago)
What do you love in life?
Timothy Murphy (1 month ago)
What are you passionate about?
Sam Wagner (2 months ago)
It takes him over 6 minutes to get to the questions
Juan Calderon (3 months ago)
Minute 8:48 sometimes that's hard to really describe, don't do that move on
School Of Hard Knocks (3 months ago)
takes cherry from the bartender, exposed her lies, attraction = dead
Scott Simpsom (3 months ago)
I’ve asked women questions and that just said Why
WJ S (3 months ago)
Swear this won't work in Britian. You yanks are different. "What was your 1st day of school like?" You've got to be joking
Balraj Rai (3 months ago)
Lol pick and choose bro! Im from the U.K too!
cine mejillas (4 months ago)
waw I remember a girl was asking me lot of fun questions like: what is your favorite superpower if you can get one? and we were discussing about the power of time travelling and daydreaming about it in a looong fun conversation it was very fun!
cine mejillas (4 months ago)
waaaww a platonic love girl of mine once she told me about a story of her peeing in her pants in classroom hahaha
Nathan Toth (4 months ago)
Thank You for your insight.
Orgizo08 (5 months ago)
Ask open ended questions!
Corey Wayne is the best!!
Adrienne (6 months ago)
No to most of these questions. Just no.
Balraj Rai (3 months ago)
Adrienne why?
Roy Lopez (6 months ago)
1 question that works for me is what 1 guilty pleasure that you have that no one knows about?
MacLiveSimply (6 months ago)
This is a great addition to the Material in the book! Thanks Coach!
Gary Cameron (8 months ago)
Farting and blaming someone else is indeed "shitty" :) I remember doing this in a restaurant. My friend's Mom immediately blamed him so I just went with it. :)
Derek Norris (8 months ago)
Personal questions are key ! Wow, thanks cory
Derek Norris (8 months ago)
What if she is into sports?
Gabriel Macias (9 months ago)
great
Jacob Appel (9 months ago)
Hahahaha! I peed my pants a few times back in the day, talk about embarrassing. The nurse gave me some sweet cargo pants though.
Cass Cass (9 months ago)
lmao........aaaww being a kid...."hahah you peed your pants"...."no I didn't, what are you talking about".
THE BRAVADO SHOW (10 months ago)
LEGEND
Pils76 (1 year ago)
i was skeptical about videos while reading the book but it works well together in the end
L'NoLo Says (1 year ago)
LMAO, Homi I been stealing the PEE STORY.. Girls in South Africa love it!!
tubenachos (1 year ago)
Are you tired? You've been running in my mind all day
yoruel sanguillen (3 months ago)
Jeje!
1969atam (1 year ago)
You really have to be yourself. If you have to learn what to say then you're done! If you've nothing interesting to say then you're not going to do well. It's about confidence, ask her about herself, her ambitions and what makes her happy. Make her laugh. Don't spend the eve rapping on about yourself and how great you think you are. Confidence is the key. Just be confident of who you are. There's no magic formula with women so just be cool and if she likes you you'll get on. You can't make her like you or worry she won't like you. Too much focus on this will make you overthink things.
1blazery (1 year ago)
You never posted the link with the list of questions
Coach Corey Wayne (1 year ago)
https://understandingrelationships.com/pickup-date-questions-that-build-attraction/13871
Jhon John Jon Jon Doe (1 year ago)
Wow that side ways look and tilted head was something I did the other day and this bad Ass girl just went crazy with her flirts and she was with other men. This was at the gym.
whiteboybeats1 (1 year ago)
Great questions! Definitely have your own answers at the ready. On my last date, after about four questions in, the lady made a game out of it and asked me the same. Had to go back and answer the previous three. We had a blast, laughing at some of our answers. On the car ride home, she asked when our next date was. That really was easy!
Jay (1 year ago)
So Corey I've read your book 7 times now. Most of what you say feels like a natural instinct that has been locked away for so long. Me and my wife split have a 2 year old with her so I looked you up and man it helped. I used to get alot of attention from girls when I was with my ex and now I get double that. And the power to actually have to reject pussy is amazing. If that doesn't boast confidence I don't know what can. But to the point I was talking to this girl and I said hey I got a question, she said I may have an answer so I asked have you ever farted and successfully blamed it on someone? She died laughing and said yeah my kids. How bout you so I made up some BS story bout me doing it to my grandma. Needless to say I pulled my list out my wallet and this girl got 8 out of 10 on my traits. We've hung out a few times and this guy that likes her shows up sits next to her starts talking and she interrupts him turns to me and starts talking. I gave short playful answers went to leave and she bout fell out her seat to ask me where I was going. Bro all I got to say is Hook line and sinker in the dating game and in actual life.
Ivan Perdomo (1 year ago)
Corie than you so much! Very helpful
Andrea R (1 year ago)
I like your emphasis on keeping the conversation fun, playful and uplifting.
Chloroplast ✔ (1 year ago)
I cant wait to obtain this superpower of being a 3 percent man
Shivam Kapoor (5 months ago)
"Repetition is the mother of all habits" cw
Knock-Off Nerd (1 year ago)
There's a girl that I met a couple of days ago and I've started to have some banter with her back-and-forth (I'm gonna try for a date this Friday), and I'm gonna give a lot of these a try – thanks man
Robert Romero (1 year ago)
Knock-Off Nerd lol boyfriends suck if he dont blow it with her you can always ask if she has a sister lol
Knock-Off Nerd (1 year ago)
It went well until I found out she had a boyfriend :P Kinda downhill from there. lol. Thanks for asking :)
Robert Romero (1 year ago)
Knock-Off Nerd how did it go bro? You ask any n how she take like it
Robert Weaver Jr (1 year ago)
thanks Coach!!
Kimron G (1 year ago)
I do this to everyone. Practice is the mother of all skill.
00 CD (10 months ago)
Coach like to say, "repetition is the mother of all skill". What you said is correct as well.
Blimp Nova (1 year ago)
LOL the pee story happened to me too
Jacob Nordvoll (1 year ago)
1565 votes, 55 downvotes. 3 percent that doesn't get it
Zobek Guerrero (11 months ago)
3.5% to be exact
YOU HAVE TO KEEP IN MIND YOU CANNOT ASK THIS QUESTIONS ALL AT ONCE, OTHERWISE YOU SOUND ROBOTIC..FIRST THE CONVERSATION MUST FLOWS NATURALLY, THEN HIT HER WITH A QUESTION SO THAT SHE DOES MOST OF THE TALKING
Kimron G (1 year ago)
Guys, I tried out most of these and they worked a charm. She was at ease, really open and talkative. Obviously I had filtered her out by going out with a woman who was excited. I tried this on a 5-6 level attraction and I wish I could get that time and money back. Don't bother with women like that, a total waste of time. One question that really got her attraction up was 'what do you love most about your body?' We talked about this for over an hour. Thanks Coach!!!!
Jay O (22 days ago)
I think his book says a level 5 or above is worth going for anything below that is a no
Alex Mendoza (1 month ago)
Gonna try it out
ralroost einsnulldrei (1 month ago)
+Colts fan4 Life Assuming the question is serious: Yes! but you always keep it playful. Be like "really? I hadn't really noticed" (obviously you have). Stare at that body part for a moment with a contemplative look for a second then smile at her and be like "yeah they're/it's pretty ok!". Ask about why she loves that body part. You could say almost anything as long as it's fun and you don't lose your centre. Project your own assumption on to her in a playful way. "Cool" is a closed statement and doesn't lead to more fun or funny conversation.
Nathan Toth (4 months ago)
What a question. That's funny
Colts fan4 Life (1 year ago)
Just a question what if that girl were to say her butt or her boobs or something lol do you say really? Well show me haha or just say cool
Petar Kanchev (1 year ago)
These questions are awesome, but in my recent experience girls usually create a game out of it by asking me to answer the same question after they do (e.g. "Bla bla bla... Now you tell me what's the craziest thing you've ever done."). While this adds to the fun of the date, it uncovers a great chunk of the mystery about me and also gives some of the power to the girls (those tricky, tricky women). How can I play this, so that I keep the conversation going, without giving away too much info about me?
Kimron G (2 years ago)
Dude, you need a noble peace prize! I've recommended your book to all my friends and all are now reading your book and making happier homes!
DEADPRESIDENTS777 (2 years ago)
You know Corey bout to drop game on you when you like every video before it even starts haha am I the only one ?
Stevens Joseph (2 years ago)
Thank you Coach,you the man.
Marcus McCaskill (2 years ago)
Wow this advice really help me a LOT!! I'm in Highschool rn but Corey is right this shit works regardless of age! The women I asked, did 80% of the talking and that's all I had to do was listen. If there ever was a pause in our engagment, I'd say something like "So what else"? "Tell me more, i wanna know!😊" The trick is being really confident in what you say! So when you say it, it actually feels and sounds like you really thought about it out of geniune curiosity! I hope this helps and thanks a lot Coach C, for all your invaluable info! Peace&Blessings brother!✌
Rudy Tucker (2 years ago)
I am using this questions tonight wish me luck people
Blueis Notgreen (2 months ago)
I would bet he didn’t respond because it’s YouTube comments. I always miss them
AJ Triumph (8 months ago)
+Zobek Guerrero he got stood up probs
00 CD (10 months ago)
Hahaha, you right. These questions are best when a woman really likes you.
Zobek Guerrero (11 months ago)
+Jose Pineda he didn't reply for a year so it must of been bad
Jose Pineda (2 years ago)
Rudy Tucker how did the questions work out for you?
The Cowboy (2 years ago)
Hey Cory, may I ask you a question? How can you relate to others when you're parents over sheltered you as a child; never allowing you to experience the things others experience, and how can you relate to others when you two have completely different backgrounds, upbringings, and or interests?
will atkinson (2 years ago)
this is a bad question, everyone has a different upbringing. No one person was brought up the same way. However, people can relate to some things. Where his parents never showed him love and his parents never showed love to eachother. These types of things he can relate to others because it is quite common. And women are women no matter where you go, they respond the same way and work the same way.
joelchummel (2 years ago)
The cherry stem knot trick cracked me up! I had a chick do this to me when I was in college. She took this knotted cherry stem out of her mouth, and held it out to me, and I pretended to be amazed, then told her, I'll bet you a kiss that you can't untie it again! To which I promptly tossed it onto my tongue and held it in my mouth. I got the kiss, and I got the girl!
Monday Tuesday (2 years ago)
Make sure you only ask the questions you also have an answer for as they are very likely to ask you back the same question. Be prepared. Don't ask something you wouldn't want to answer because it may come back to you in a sec. I also rather avoid questions that if the answer is "no" it breaks the flow and doesn't develop a story.. like the "Do you remember your first day at school?".. if she says no, you either have to tell about your first day at school (which is better be good) or move onto the next question, which can be a bit robotic. I stick with the questions that I know there is an answer for like "What are you most passionate about?"... she can't say yes or no, she needs to elaborate and everyone can think for a moment and come up with something.
Brian Castillo (2 years ago)
You're a beast coach, appreciate all the information!!
aedryk (3 years ago)
Any guys call a girl to make the first date and get the answering machine? What do you do? Just hang up and assume she'll call you back?
aedryk (3 years ago)
Thanks, that seems like the best way to go.
Sinister Smile (3 years ago)
Can't give this video enough thumbs up! This is some good shit.
David Lee (3 years ago)
I'm sitting in a popular coffee place & listening to these doctors & nurses discuss their studies & writing down their social questions & statements?"I don't like everybody in our class as much as you guys. What's your (DJ) name DJ deez nuts? What's this one? I haven't seen it yet? So, this is a normal thing? Oh, there are different rules when you're drunk? So, in a parallel universe, you're an alcoholic? So it goes from in to out? Have you ever played Egyptian slap-stick (explains (apparently card) game in it's relativity to pain as follow-up to a "really hurt people question)yeah, I'm probably not going to use any of those although it's an interesting conversation
David Lee (3 years ago)
Also, I'm writing down many answers of my own to these questions as to know them inside-out! Corey, you make me proud to be here, brother!
Christopher Williams (3 years ago)
the key is to get her to do most of the talking... It is not so much about the venue or what you say but HOW YOU SAY IT... A woman who likes you will laugh at anything you say and will answer any question you ask her as long as you are confident when you ask or say it... Throughout my date i focus on teasing her lightly... This way i can be an asshole but a nice guy at the same time... It doesnt matter were you go as long as you both can experience the moment shared together... If you are going to dinner have fun and dont be so serious... Its that simple...
Jimmy Shaker (3 years ago)
Corey may look like Director Ron Howard but his techniques work! He knows female psychology really well!
Kemardo Hynes (3 years ago)
how about opening a conversatin with a statement? I've done this a lot of times
Temi Abimbola (3 years ago)
+asdfgoogle exactly bro
asdfgoogle (3 years ago)
+Kemardo Hynes Considering the goal is to get your partner to talk, that doesn't sound like an effective approach. You're setting yourself up so that your partner will have to follow up with a question, so you end up talking even more.
BMWg84 (3 years ago)
Good questions start at 6:05
MrVman202 (3 years ago)
Ok how u ask a lot of these questions on a dinner date?? Lol like her food might get cold and yours too.
Monday Tuesday (2 years ago)
You want a dinner date to go on for 2 hours at least.. the food getting cold should not be a concern.. neither of you are there for the food.
asdfgoogle (3 years ago)
+MrVman202 Most places give more than enough food. If you eat it all, you may not feel well enough to have sex (ever eaten too much and you just want to sit down and relax?). But a key thing to remember is it's about the experience, not how many questions you ask. Go at a reasonable pace.
MrVman202 (3 years ago)
Some of.these are.bold lol. Overall great questions!!
Roberto Masensi (3 years ago)
well I am a mountain of chocolate...
Simplesean (3 years ago)
The thing is these questions are great but if a girl asks me these questions back I won't know what to say
Roberto Masensi (3 years ago)
read the book 10-15 times cuz everything is explained in there
Amit kumar Dixit (4 years ago)
What to do. When girl is not so talkative ?? And even the person is shy kind ???
crazygamer190 (4 years ago)
these sound great for established back and forth question texting conversations
Lvl 5 Charmander (3 years ago)
never text
tank5617 (4 years ago)
Here's one to add "what's the one thing you can't say no to?, besides me
FANTOM x JAGGER (3 months ago)
That would work if you can read her attraction is decently high
D - Block (4 years ago)
Youre good!.....youre good! coach carter
E4 Alex (4 years ago)
AHAHAHAHA it makes me laugh seeing all of you unconfident mfs out there talking about "Forums" lol
Rommel Portante (4 years ago)
I got a poop story. I'll tell it to her during dinner and see if she would get turned off and if she does, I'll laugh my ass off.
opa burnisde (4 years ago)
Honestly my dude the world needs more guys like you thank you for your work when I become more successful I will show you how much I value you your work - Faris Beuller
Jose Reyes (4 years ago)
i don't feel comfortable asking these types of things. it feels rehearsed. can I tell your pee story when im on a date?
i Nerri (16 days ago)
😂😂😂
Terry Tibbs (1 month ago)
I told the pee story, except it wasnt at school it was at work last week
Colts fan4 Life (1 year ago)
Jose Reyes 😂😂
Jose Reyes (2 years ago)
I'm just joking,
shinviroz (5 years ago)
anyone try out these questions in a real date? how did it go? did she feel like she was being interviewed? i wish coach corey would have a forum set up for all of his followers to discuss together.
Ko Ma (6 months ago)
shinviroz you shouldnt interview. you just use these questions where the context is already there and it snatural to ask them cause conversations is going in that direction. communication isnt about the questions but about the flow.
Giannis Padis (1 year ago)
MY SUGGESTIONS: just be your self...act manly...speak less...look her in her eyes..make her smile with smart jokes...tell her something that will make you touch her little. Keep your voice low...go closer...look how she will act and boom if she gives you possitive feedback kiss her...then stop...smile and start talking again about 2 min...then look her lips, stop the concersation and pull her on you..kiss her again but this time touch her on her lower back ! works for me ever sigle time (with 15 girls and i am 20yo)...with 2 of those girls i had a big relatioships! if you read this i hope that i help you! ;)
Joseph Geromo (2 years ago)
Coach Corey Wayne I ask some of these question and I'm surprise she answered with excitement. I thought pageant questions are non sense but they are actually helpfull in a dating life. It's more exciting, fun and memorable. It makes me focus in the moment.
mashtee2003 (5 years ago)
This is an amazing video,... this is exactly what I lack.. asking good questions... thanks Coach.
ArwenMeow (5 years ago)
Really good video, imma watch this one like 10 times. I get it now, the questions need to stir up her emotions in a good way. Ask questions that allow her to tell you what kind of person she is deep down. brilliant.
slobomotion (5 years ago)
You are the one coach I would pay to consult. This is just great, good for you. My two burning issues, I think I am handling them okay BUT IT IS HARD. Over the decades I have really gotten some solid benefit from taking the time out to see someone who's objective & learn some strategies. I like that you emphasize things do not generally happen easily or overnight & a lot of discipline, character, commitment & effort are NEARLY ALWAYS REQUIRED, especially for it to have value for us.
slobomotion (5 years ago)
Yeah, that stinks. People don't consider the consequences of their actions! Thanks for telling this.
slobomotion (5 years ago)
Good for you! I am 56 now and one thing I did NOT understand was that nearly all the time, no relationship at all is better than a bad one!
slobomotion (5 years ago)
He gives a lot of really good advice for men. I am one of those females who actually doesn't hate men, so I think this is really great.
slobomotion (5 years ago)
I found out about this channel from a young male elsewhere in the world who happened to uprate it & I took note -- he's very open-minded & serious & is doing a lot of awesome stuff, has a pretty good life but is really living his dreams, including wife & family. I would definitely hire Corey for a phone counseling session. Meanwhile, these clips are very well done & he really is lucid & frank. My best to ya from over here in France.
slobomotion (5 years ago)
Females will choose mates & sex partners who are the most like their fathers genetically yet smell nothing like them. This is scientific fact & has to do with a built-in anti-incest thang. I'm in France now & have a heavy bg in the sciences & I laughed so hard when I found this out! :)
Nerville Logic (5 years ago)
These are some great topic
Ronald Clark (5 years ago)
Don't feel bad Coach...lol. I've got a kindergarten pee story as well!
MrTai (5 years ago)
Someone did the bubble fountain thing in my town too. They shut down the fountain permanently. Ruined it for everyone. It's been over 20 years and they haven't turned it back on again.
zefvalentine (5 years ago)
wassup corey '' i can't believe that a man from florida can make a person laid, who is actually in india with the power of his awesome mind i think its amazing dude keep up the great work ur fuckin inspirational never ever give up,and also thru you i got introduced to tony robbins and jim rohn online who are also very powerful and magnetic men like u who can transform people's life with there wisdom,over couple of months i been watching ur videos its been very helpful for me in the timesofordeal
Enfant Terrible (5 years ago)
Hey coach I've been watching your vids and I just got your book. It's helping a lot!! I'm new to the whole dating world, kept myself from dating due to lame excuses. I'm ready to start and I'm learning a lot from you. This is gonna change my life. Thanks!!!

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