Have you ever been “into” a guy, but wondered whether or not he’s “into” you? In my experience, what most women do is spend 1,287,907 hours talking about it with their friends, family, colleagues, neighbors, roommates…you name it, they’ve all heard about this guy. I'll teach you how to meet the right guy - watch this video: http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret And lesson #1 is the following: if you’re spending this much time analyzing where a guy likes you, then chances are…he probably doesn’t. The harsh reality of dating is that most women waste so much of their emotional energy on men who are really just not that into them. And you know what? That’s OK. It’s a mismatch. You two aren’t meant to be. So move on and find a guy that meets all of your standards and IS REALLY into you. Watch the video below to learn the 6 signs a guy’s just not that into you:
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Let me teach you how to get him to like you - download this ebook: http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret. So you're getting the "feeling" that he's digging your style, but is he just being friendly or does he actually like you? This is an age old question that women have spent many hours on Sunday afternoon's trying to decode. Well now you can make your Sunday's slightly more productive, because this video will teach you exactly how to know if a guy likes you more than just a friend. Hey there this is Adam LoDolce founder of SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st century woman create a love life she loves and today I'm going to teach you exactly how to tell if a guy really likes you more than just a friend. So let's start with the basic 6 clear signs that a guy is interested in you #1 He'll approach you and continue conversation with you #2 He'll touch you -- he'll break the touch barrier #3 He's got positive up beat body language -- he's smiling, laughing #4 You catch him looking at you #5 He compliments you #6 He's playfully teasing or sarcastically teasing you. But here is the biggest problem with all of this -- A guy is only going to display these signs if he's experienced with women -- or straight up, if the dudes got game. Me dancing to Ice T in ridiculous glasses But let me tell you something about men -- most of us are not smooth (me playing with the purple wrist band), most of us don't know what we're doing out there -- and when we really like a girl, we sometimes do the opposite of these six signs I just mentioned I'm convinced that there are millions of potential cuples out there right now, who both like each other -- but neither of them are sure of it - and they don't end up together, cause no one's willing to make a move. So let's start with a basic three step system to figuring it out For starters Take Notice if he treats you differently than other girls Maybe he treats you worse, maybe he treats you better -- regardless, he treats you differently. Maybe he's awkward with you -- and not with other girls, maybe he's smooth around you -- and not other girls Take the gut check quiz Most women seriously over analyze whether or not a guy likes them -- and the reality is that you probably know the answer to this video before even watching it. So I want you to imagine You're taking a multiple choice quiz, and you have to choose yes or no -- Does he like me. there's no maybe, there's no analyzing. You are graded on the correct answer -- what would you choose? Chances are = you're gut reaction is probably right. Next time you see him -- give him a little indicator of interest by smile, give him a compliment and break the touch barrier when you compliment him. See how he responds. If he's indifferent, maybe he's not interested. If he recipricoates flirtatiously, then he probably is interested. So if you enjoyed this video, please start off by giving it a like on youtube, it really helps me out a lot, don't forget to subscribe on youtube for more videos just like this -- and lastly, head on over to sexy confidence.com to take your free dating training course where I'll teach you how to create a love life that you love.
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Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce Your worst enemy when it comes to creating white hot attraction with a man might be gut level impulse. If you routinely trust your first "feeling" when you start dating a new guy… you could be making a critical mistake. Here's a simple technique you should be doing instead. Don't get me wrong. Trusting your gut definitely has its place in a new relationship. BUT… When it comes to creating attraction, your gut will usually betray you faster than a final four alliance on an episode of Big Brother. Check out the video now, and let me know what you think in the comments. Your Coach, Adam P.S. If you'd like to get your hands on a proven blueprint for creating blistering hot attraction with any man, follow this link to my most popular program: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/ Summary – What I'm about to share with you is so counterintuitive, yet powerful, that it will forever change how it is that you interact with men. You may already do this naturally, or it may be one of the most challenging shifts you'll ever make in your dating life. But I'll tell you this… Make this shift, and men will start emotionally bonding with you in ways you've never known possible before. Here's the thing: When a woman begins to get emotionally involved in a man, her first instinct is to give, give, give whatever it is that she can to the man. This is because women are innately very compassionate, caring, and giving. If you find that you fall into this trap, you probably notice that many times the more you give, especially early on and especially before a relationship even begins, the less that he responds. You might bake him cookies or buy him a t-shirt that you saw that made you think of him. Although these things are really nice to do, they aren't making him bond with you any further. Here's the simple shift to help you emotionally bond with a man. The best way to bond with someone is not by doing them a favor, but instead by asking them for a favor. Maybe you need some advice on how to deal with something at work. Maybe you just need some help fixing your washing machine that just broke at your home. Maybe you need him to pick you up after work because your car is in the shop. Making him invest his time, energy, and resources into you first, by asking for some type of favor is an incredibly potent way to emotionally bond with you. Why? Because it's part of human nature. Science supports this. In fact, in a research study where participants could either receive a lump sum of money or donate the money to a charity, they discovered surprising differences in neural activity for decisions that involve receiving money or donating money. While receiving money, activated the rewards system in our brain as would be accepted for something that gives us a positive reward. On the other hand, when people donated to charity, the same network showed even greater activity and the activity actually spread to the subgenual area, which is implicated in a social attachment. This suggests that our brains actually enjoy being a gift giver over being a recipient. By making him help you in some way, he's going to start emotionally bonding with you even further. Now, like I said, you can't force him to give you a gift, but you can definitely ask him for small favors. The easiest way to do this is by simply asking for some advice on something. Get him to invest his time and energy into you first, and watch as he continues to fall deeper for you. Have you ever tried doing this with a guy that you're dating, without even thinking about it? If so, comment below. I'd love to know how it went. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/]
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It's time to wake up from that dead end relationship and realize when to cut your losses. Here are 15 telltale signs that he's just not that into you. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce My mind is telling me no, but my boddddyyy is telling me yesss!! Ok, I'll never sing to you through email again… … unless it helps me make a point. Like right now. So many women know they are in bad relationships that aren't going anywhere… … but they don't do anything about it. They convince themselves that it's just in their head and that things will get better. Time to wake up! This video has 15 telltale signs that it's time to move on because he's just not into you. Not every man has the same tells, which is why this video has a list of 15 different potential signs. Keep an eye out for these, and you'll know if it's time to double down on the relationship… … or hit the eject button. Watch it now, and wake up from the delusion. You'll be glad you did. Your Coach, Adam P.S. In the Emotional Attraction Formula (https://emotionalattractionformula.com/) I teach you EXACTLY what to do if you're seeing any of these signs. And more importantly, I'll teach you how to trigger emotional attraction so that you never have to deal with these signs again. Summary - 1. You Know He's Not Into You If your gut is telling you "no," then it's no. When it's "yes," you're gonna know it. 2. You're Always the One Initiating to See Him When a man is into you, he's gonna be initiating to want to see you as well. 3. He's Not Interested in the Things that You Do ... or the things that you like, or, quite frankly, in anything about you, other than sex. If that's the case, then stop this dating mistake, say goodbye, move on, find the next guy. 4. He'd Rather Spend Time with Other Women That's an obvious one. 5. He doesn't really look at you. I mean, when a man really likes a woman or has an interest in a woman, science has proven that literally, he can't take his eyes away. 6. He's Asking You About Dating Advice For Another Women Huge deal-breaker. He just doesn't like you like that. 7. He's Never Done anything Nice For You, Whatsoever Now if you've known each other for more than three months, and he's never gone out of his way for you, then you know what? He sucks. 8. He Actively Flirts With Other Women And not to make you jealous, but because he's just flirting with other women. 9. He Doesn't Care When You Are In Crisis Men are natural providers, and a man who's interested in you as a person, if he sees that you're in a crisis, or knows that there is something wrong, he's going to want to come and help you fix it. 10. He's Never Trying to Impress You Now men can sometimes go overboard on this, and that gets annoying, but if he's not being a little bit douchey every once in a while, showing off his cool car, or whatever it is that he does, then he's probably not interested in you. 11. He Never Opens Up Emotionally Everything that he talks about is just very like factual-based. 12. He's Only Hearing You, He's Not Really Listening to You When a man's heart is really open to a woman, he doesn't just hear the words that she's saying, he really listens because he actually cares what she's saying, and what she's feeling. 13. He Doesn't Seem to Care About Your Relationship With Other Men, Even the Slightest If a man is really interested in a woman, he is not going to like seeing her with other men, and he's usually going to show at least small signs of jealousy. 14. He Treats You Like Everyone Else He's basically indifferent towards you. You need to realize that you're an amazingly unique woman, and if he doesn't see that, then he is done. 15. He's "Always Busy" He's using the classic excuse that men use when they're not interested… "he's always busy". And that's just his excuse for never being there. Now I get it, some guys are just legitimately busy. They got work stuff, they got stuff with their families, whatever it is. But if he is always busy and can't put in the time to be with you, then why would you want to be with him? He's out. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/] bad relationship commitment dating mistakes
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Learn the 3 strategies to make any man want you. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com So you’re single and looking for a relationship, and now you’re probably trying to understand the male mind. Well in this week’s video I’m going to dive into 3 powerful strategies that will melt any man’s heart. I know you’re gonna love it. Have you ever tried any of these strategies? Comment below. Your coach, Adam PS. If you want a little more advanced training how to emotionally attract men, go here: http://www.emotionalattractionformula.com SUMMARY - If this is what you want… Mm, come to Daddy. Maybe you don’t want that, maybe something like that. Or you just want a man to really want you, or you want to learn how men fall in love, then you are in the right place. My name is Adam LoDolce, founder of SexyConfidence.com, where I help the 21st century woman create a love life that she absolutely loves. I’m gonna teach you exactly how to make any man want you. Keep watching. Now, desire is a really trick thing and sometimes you really want a man so badly but you aren’t sure how to make him really want you. You probably want to learn how to get a guy to like you. So here are 3 very potent and powerful strategies that will make any man’s heart melt, including mine. 1. The first one is the use of physical contact. By touching someone you’re creating actually a lot of sexual anticipation as well as it carries with it an added level of emotional connection in a relationship. Little fun fact, but non human primates such as monkeys actually spend as much as 10 to 20% of their entire day just grooming each other, just touching each other. So to put this into perspective, we spend an average of 20% of our day texting, email, browsing the web, going on Facebook. What about YouTube? Leave YouTube outta this. My point is, imagine if we spent even a fraction of that time through physical contact. Guys would be pretty pumped, I think you’d probably be pretty pumped yourself. Listen, men are simply primates. We’re all just primates. And we crave having that touch of a woman, so put down your ******* phone and go touch a dude. But not his **** unless you’re in a committed relationship. Make him work to get that type of touch. 2. Number two is be social. And if you’re not in a committed relationship, be out there meeting other guys. There’s a lot of research out there that shows that the fear of loss of losing something is greater than the desire to gain something. So if he feels that he might lose you to someone else, he’ll be much more likely to want you. In economics this is actually called loss aversion. Basically what it’s saying is that if I lost 100 dollars I’d be much more upset than I would be psyched if someone gave me 100 dollars. So what does this mean for your dating life? No, don’t pay men to be your boyfriend. No matter how lonely you get, don’t ever hire a gigolo. Just learn how to get a man to want you. What I’m actually saying is that there needs to be a potential to lose you. If he knows that you’ll always want him, you’ll always be there for him no matter what, through thick and thin, no matter what he does, even if he treats you like crap, then he’s not going to act. He’s not going to want to commit to you, he’s gonna go find someone who he needs to work for, who he needs to invest his emotion and his energy and his resources into. That’s the type of person he’s really gonna want to commit to because he’s not going to want to lose that person. If he knows that you’re out there dating, maybe meeting other people, he’ll be so much more likely to lock that shit down And I’m not telling you to play games. You should actually get out there, meet other people as well, because you’re not in a committed relationship. So go out there, meet other guys. Because who knows, you might just find someone better anyways who really wants to commit to you. 3. Finally, be a little mysterious If you’re on a first date, you do not have to tell him your life story. “So then, oh my God, when I turned 9 you won’t believe what happened.” A little mystery will keep him engaged and interested in the conversation, and he’s gonna wanna solve that mysterious puzzle that is you. And, as always, don’t forget to exude that incredible happiness in your life whether you’re with him or without him. Because if you’re fun, if you’re happy, if you’re positive without him being in your life, he’s going to want to bring you into his life because being around you will always be an incredible experience. So if you’re really ready to make a man want you and to connect with him on a deep level, go ahead and head on over to http://SexyConfidence.com
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So you've been hooking up or dating a guy casually for a few months, and now you're starting to actually FEEL something for him. Watch this video to find out how to get a guy to commit. For more videos like this, visit http://www.sexyconfidence.com Want More Than a Hook up? How to Get Him to Commit to ONLY You SO you've met a guy and maybe you've started seeing each other and you've just started hooking up. But you're thinking to yourself, damn I wanna lock that shit down (Me with a gag and handcuffs screaming) ..Cough for a relationship. And you want this guy to be your boyfriend so bad because he's just perfect (Dream weaver -- me shaking my head) but he doesn't seem like he wants to take this to the next level. He only wants to see you during the week and just for sex, you haven't met any of his friends or family, he doesn't show any depth of emotion to you...but he's perfect. Well, for starters, he's not the clearly not the perfect guy if he doesn't give you what you need. So many women forget that a man's current relationship values are a core criteria to defining the perfect guy. There's nothing wrong with a guy not wanting a serious relationship long as he's upfront about it. Just the same with women -- there's nothing wrong with you not being in a place in your life to find a committed relationship. Maybe you've dated a guy in the past who you didn't really want anything too serious with. That's OK, nothing to feel guilty about so long as you're not leading someone on. But if you're seeing a guy who's clearly not looking for anything serious, but you're in a phase in your life where you are, then he is NOT perfect. His current relationship values are not in line with yours. So when your faced with this situation, you have two choices. Either give in to his demands, keep sleeping with him, then call him a male shovenistic pig to your girlfriends when you learn that he's also hooking up with another girl. OR, you can also be upfront with him. After you've been seeing a guy for at least month or two, it's totally acceptable to simply explain to him that it's important for you to be with someone who values being in relationship. Assure him that you're not trying to put pressure on him, but you cannot keep seeing him casually. Then finalize the conversation that for now, maybe it's best that you just be friends. A man will go home, sit down, and have quite the conversation with himself. Devil: Keep getting out there, having fun and see if you can do better. Angel: Just comitt to her. She's so cool, and fun, and clearly she's girlfriend material because she stood up for herself and refused to just being my fuck buddy. Oops, are angels supposed to say fuck. Then after that he'll decide -- and because you showed this inner strength, your value as a woman to him will rise exponentially. And no matter what he decides, you win. If he's ready, he'll agree to your current relationship values, and if he's just not ready for a relationship, then you'll be able to stop wasting emotional energy him and focus it on meeting guys who are ready. So if you enjoyed this video, please start out by giving it a like on youtube, that helps me out a lot, and also if you'd like to transform your dating life today to meet the man you've always desired, click here or head on over to SexyConfidence.com to enter your first name and email to take your free dating training course Thanks for watching.
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It's frustrating when the man you really care about starts to pull away or says he needs space. Discover why he needs the space & what you can do about it. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce It can be incredibly confusing. He's texting you less, seems unhappy all the time, and then suddenly tells you he "needs space" … What does that mean? … is he trying to end things? … are you doing something wrong? … does he really just need space? When women hear a guy needs space, they typically rush in to try and fix things. In this video, I explain why a guy might say he needs space and what you can do about it. This might just be one of those guy things, but it always sends women into panic mode. After you watch this video, you'll know how to handle it when a guy tells you he needs space, and why he's saying it in the first place. Your Coach, Adam P.S. If you want to learn how to be the confident woman who can give a man the space he needs, then go here: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/book/ Summary – There's nothing more frustrating than when someone you really care about starts to slip away. When something feels like it's breaking or slipping away, people naturally want to fix that problem. But as you probably realized, interpersonal relationships are much different. If a man needs some space, you can't just go over there and say three magical words to get him back. Love doesn't work that way. Relationships don't work that way. You need to learn how to understand where he's at and where he's coming from. A common reason why men need space or start to pull away is because they're really stressed out. There's something stressful in their lives like their family, or maybe it's something with work. Interestingly enough, men and women react quite differently to stress. For example, men who are stressed out become more self-centered, want to get back into their own space and deal with it on their own. Whereas for women, the exact opposite is true. Women want to feel closer to the people in their lives when they're feeling stressed out. When he asks for space, I recommend you give him a gap week. If you start feeling him pulling away or creating space for himself, give him a week to figure it out on his own. Of course, when you talk to him or text him, let him know that you're there for him but don't push him to see you or do anything for you. Let him know that you're there for him, but give him time to work out things on his end. Give him his gap week. If after a week the problem continues to persist, it's time to have a real conversation. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/book/]
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Sometime's guys pull away...and it's not ALWAYS a bad thing. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com This is a re-post because of copyright issues in a previous video and YouTube didn't like it! Here it is!
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Curious how men fall in love? Find out the 5 steps to his heart… No BS. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Have you ever wondered how men fall in love? Or if it’s a different “process” than women go through when they fall in love? If so, you’re in luck. This week’s video is a special one. It dives into the five steps most men go through when they are falling in love. It’ll help you “see the signs” when it’s happening… or when it isn’t happening. Have you ever noticed these signs? Let me know in the comments below. Your Coach, Adam PS. If you’d like to learn how to spark attraction in your man with a few simple texts, click here → http://lovetexting.com/book/ Summary- I'm going be talking about how it is that men fall in love and the 5 steps to capturing his heart. Finding your way to a man's heart is kind of like solving a Law and Order crime. You need to follow the clues each step of the way in order to make it happen. The only difference is that you're looking for love, not murder. So I'm gonna show you the map to a man's heart and this map includes the 5 stages men go through as they fall in love. 1. Physical Attraction Listen, it's true. Men are very visual creatures. We fall for a woman initially just based on physical attraction. When we first see that person, if that physical attraction Isn't there it's unlikely that we're going to pursue that woman. Now, this doesn’t, I cannot emphasize this enough… It doesn’t mean you have to be perfect looking in any way, shape, or form, I promise you. And I've coached a lot of men over the years. No matter what you look like, there are guys who will be attracted to you and your type. So that's the first stage. If he's physically into you, then you can move on to the next stage: chemistry. 2. Chemistry Does the conversation flow? Do you have things in common? Does it feel like you can just talk for hours and hours? Do you have a similar sense of humor? Do you just have great banter? Are you likable? Is he likable? Are you guys playful? Do you have an intellectual curiosity with one another? These are the types of things that make up chemistry, and these things really matter. Now, the good news is that you can really improve your chemistry with men through what you say, but also your body language. Make sure you're smiling, be open, be animated as you're talking, and make sure you have great posture. Most importantly, have a great attitude. Men love women who are incredibly positive, and have a great attitude & vibe. I assure you, you can really start bonding with men and creating that great chemistry you really want. So now that he's physically attracted to you and he likes you, this brings me to stage 3: the trust phase. 3. The Trust Phase Now, believe it or not, us men, we have feelings too. And if we're going to get emotionally involved with a woman, we want to know that we can really trust you. So now he's attracted to you, you have great chemistry, and he trusts you. On to the fourth stage: long-term compatibility. 4. Long Term Compatibility Do you share the same values? Will this relationship logistically work? I mean… do you guys live near each other? Do you want to live in the same places? Do you want the same things out of life whether it's children, where you want to live, and the things that you want to achieve in your life? Now, you don’t necessarily have to have the same hobbies and interests. Those things aren't necessary. But you do need to share the same basic values of how you live your life and what it is that you want out of life. Otherwise there’s just going to be way too much friction between the two of you. So now let's say that you pass all of these stages of love, you get to the final stage: the comfort stage. 5. The Comfort Stage This is when you finally meet the real person you've been dating. You end up becoming really comfortable with the type of person they are and as you get to know that person you really become best friends. You always wanna spend time with that person, that person supports you, wants to make you happy and works hard every single day to make you happy. And once you reach the comfort stage, you know, that's when the love becomes very real and very awesome.
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If you're looking for a relationship, watch out for these signs and avoid these men like the plague. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Truth: Men are much more capable of having a purely sexual relationship than women. Do some women just want sex? Yes, of course, but it's much more rare than with men - even in the 21st century. There are some guys out there that ONLY want to hook up, and have zero interest in a relationship. They don't want to meet your Dad. They don't want to give you flowers. And they definitely don't want to snuggle for hours on end. So what can you do? Watch out for the signs in this new video and if you're looking for a relationship, avoid these men like the plague. I'd love to hear from you, leave a comment below with any other signs a man only wants to hook up. Your Coach, Adam Here are the 9 Signs he ONLY wants to hook up 1. He's hinted that he doesn't want any type of relationship. 2. You never meet his friends or family 3. He disappears for days with no notice, only to come back and want to...you know 4. He won't meet up with you anywhere where you can't have sex. 5. He never wants to spend time with you the morning after you hook up. 6. He makes sure you don't forget anything before you leave his home 7. You've never been on a date 8. Every conversation turns sexual 9. He only compliments you on your looks
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#2 - He makes you feel INCREDIBLE about yourself. Find out the rest in this video Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com You're friends say, "I'm not so sure about your boyfriend, you could do a lot better." You're mom says, "Trust me, run as fast as you can in the other direction and don't look back!" But you think to yourself, "I'm just not sure...he seems OK to me." Well today's video is all about looking for the signs that he's not the right guy for you (or that he IS the right guy for you). I have a feeling you're going to like this one. Watch 7 signs you're dating the wrong guy Are you dating the wrong guy or the right guy? Let me know in the comments below. Your coach, Adam
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You might think you're winning him over, but this 1 thing is the biggest reason why men stop pursuing you. If you want to keep his interest stop doing this. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Discover the Male Mind Map here: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce It's not your sense of humor… It's not your physical appearance… And it's not your sense of style… In fact, the number one reason men stop pursuing women… might actually shock you. The worst part is that you might think doing THIS is actually helping you win him over… It's not. If you want to get and hold a man's interest, you need to STOP making this brutal mistake right now… And… … ironically… You'll start giving him what he REALLY wants by default. So many women are guilty of doing this one thing that I'd venture to guess it's the biggest reason why new relationships fail before they even get started. This week's video might be short, but it's powerful. Watch it now and join the conversation in the comments below. Your Coach, Adam P.S. Wouldn't dating and relationships be so much easier if you knew precisely what a man was thinking? Here's exactly what's happening inside of his head right now: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/ Summary – Here's the deal: Imagine you go to a local pub… A craft beer drinkin' hipster dude strolls up, plants himself next to you, and delivers a cheesy, but strangely endearing pick up line. You push him away, even though he's pretty attractive, but he seems eager, and he keeps persisting… So you finally give in. You start talking to him and eventually give him your number. He follows up with you, and you end up going out on a date. Lo and behold, you start to actually really like this guy. Fast forward three months later and he suddenly breaks it off… To avoid giving up on men altogether, here's the number one reason why men stop pursuing you in situations like these. The number one reason is that you've given him everything that he wanted. You gave him your time, your emotions, your feelings, your commitment. All of this without expecting the same from him in return. If this seems to happen to you a lot… Men start pursuing you, and then out of nowhere they stop the pursuit. You're a very good person, so when someone's inside your inner circle you want nothing more than to share your everything with that person. Unfortunately, to be successful in the area of men and dating, it doesn't really work that way. In order to keep a man pursuing you, he needs something to continually pursue. It means that you need to make sure you're moving slowly at the beginning. Not only should you hold off on giving him your time, but also hold off on giving him your emotions. Not because you're playing games or anything, but instead because you're not going to give all that up to someone you don't know very well yet. Remember: until you're in that committed relationship and you've known him for long enough, he's still a stranger. Make sure you move slowly at the beginning and that you don't give up everything at first. This will keep him pursuing you. You'll automatically position yourself as that special person who deserves to be pursued. Have you ever made this mistake? Giving him your all without expecting anything in return? Comment below and tell me how you dealt with the situation. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/]
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Shy guys are hard to read sometimes… but there are some clues to look for if you’re wondering whether or not he’s into you. Check them out! Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com
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Have you ever wondered if a guy is emotionally unavailable? In this video, Adam explains the 11 core signs that he's NOT ready for a relationship. To grab a copy of Adam's new book, head on over to http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Or check out http://www.SexyConfidence.com Feelings. They are REALLY scary to us men, and sometime's we're just not ready to open up to them. And it's critical for you to learn the signs of an emotionally unavailable man so that you don't invest too much time into a guy who's just not ready for a relationship. The best part? Usually it's pretty clear when he's emotionally unavailable. The hardest part is actually taking ACTION and moving on from the relationship. Have you ever invested too much time into an emotionally unavailable man? Did I miss any signs? Please share in the comments section. Your coach, Adam
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For more videos, check out http://www.sexyconfidence.com Hi Adam, I've been hooking up with this guy for the past month and I get the feeling that it's all physical, and no emotional connection with him. The worst part is, I'm starting to develop feelings for him but I'm scared to let my guard down, how do I know whether or not he feels the same way? Ah, so he wants the sex, but he doesn't want to make it complex. Men feel stuff, too OK. The hars reality is though that men can have sex with a girl with literally ZERO emotional connection (Rip a shot, turn around, who wants to bone). We're pigs, I get it. But it does make sense. Evolutionarily, Men are designed to spread their seed with as many women as possible to have as many offspring as possible. While women have very limited resources. Sex means more to you, because historically, AKA pre-condoms, (black and white - what the hell is this thing) it MEANT more to you, AKA getting preggers (Pillow in my stock "what the hell is this thing?). So if you're looking for more than a just hook up (Wig, rip a shot, who wants to bone?), you're probably trying to figure out whether or not a dude is just trying to bone or if he's also feeling emotionally connected. Now here are the signs he's emotionally connected (aka likes you more than just in the sack) * He'll introduce you to his friends * He's willing to hang out with you during the day * He'll talk on the phone for extended periods of time * He'll do something more on a second/third date than just "go out for drinks" * He is just generally willing to hang out without sex always being at the forefront of the activity But beyond those things, there's one thing you need to realize - Actions speak louder than words. What he DOES means so much more than what he says If he keeps telling you that he likes you, but won't actually act on it, ask him simply "Should I be dating other people?" He'll be forced to come respond. And if it's not the response your looking for, then move on. Actually move on! If you don't stick to the boundaries you've laid out for him, then he'll never follow them anyways.
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To go from casual dating to a relationship, you must be willing to lose him along the way. For more videos like this, head on over to http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret Imagine this scenario... You meet a guy that you think is "OK", but you don't have much going on so you go out with him. Before you know it, you're sleeping together and you think to yourself, "It's all good, let's keep it 'casual' until I find someone I really click with." Then some time passes, you keep seeing each other, and it's allllll good. Until one morning you suddenly wake up and realize you're falling in love with him and want something more. If this has happened to you, and you want to learn how to go from casual dating to a committed relationship, then this video is for you. Watch "How to Turn Casual Dating into a Committed Relationship" Have you ever been in the "casual dating" situation and wanted to make it more serious? Share your story in the comment below. I'd love to hear from you. See you next week. Your coach, Adam
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For more videos like this, head on over to http://www.sexyconfidence.com Have you ever dated a guy and then he suddenly disappears? So many women ask "Why men disappear" so I thought I'd give you the 7 REAL Reasons. There is nothing more frustrating than meeting someone you like, going out with them for a while, and then they suddenly disappear. So many of my female clients have been asking me this question, "Why Do Men Suddenly Disappear?" So I figured it was time for a video on this subject. Sometimes it just seems so out of the blue that it's totally inexplicable when men disappear. But other times, there's a bit more of an explanation. In this video I provide the 7 REAL reasons why men suddenly vanish into thin air. Watch the video. Here are the 7 reasons First off, Men are cowards and we avoid confrontation like the plague. Think of it this way, It's a lot easier to start something with someone, than to end it with someone. So more guys will just disappear than take the manly way out and end it like a gentleman. 2. He's a Player and Doesn't Want to Play You If a guy is in a phase where he wants to date or sleep around, sometimes he'll meet a girl he's afraid of hurting because he can really sense that you like him for a lot more than just casual. So he peaces out to avoid hurting your feelings. If this is the case, and he disappeared, it's probably for the better -- assuming you're looking for something a little more serious. 3. He Likes you, but doesn't love you Dating is tough sometimes, and sometimes we like someone, but then we realize shortly thereafter that we're just not in LOVE with that person. Maybe he likes you a lot, but realizes that there's no future portential, which leads me to the next point and that is that. Moving on. 4. You haven't been dating long enough to warrant a break up If you've only gone out with a guy for 1, 2 or even 3 dates, Don't expect him to end it. (I enjoyed meeting, and I just want to say, You're great, it's not you, it's me -- but it's over) -- Even if you slept with him, don't expect that he'll have the guts to straight up break it off or if it's even socially normal for him to break it off. If you can't handle that, then don't sleep with him until he's showing more signs of relationship potential. Realistically, don't expect a true breakup unless he's your boyfriend. 5. Maybe you're not listening to him Maybe he's tried to make it clear this isn't going anywhere, but you wanted it to go somewhere so badly that you ignored all of these signs that he's not interested, and kept trying to push it forward -- texting him, trying to date him, sleeping with him casually. Then he realizes that his only out is to (then screen goes to me disappearing) 6. An external circumstance that has NOTHING to do with you If you can't pinpoint WHY a guy has disappeared on you, then just assume that something has come up in his life. Maybe he got back together with an ex, maybe he just got fired from his job, maybe he's moving -- who knows. Don't agonize for weeks over one guy -- and just assume that something came up, and it wasn't the right time in his life to be with you. 7. Is that it just wasn't meant to be. Heal your wounds, vent it out, go for a run, then pick your head up and get back out there. And moving forward, just realize this -- don't put all of your eggs in one basket. The best way to move forward is to continue socializing and dating other guys until you are in a committed relationship. This way, if a guy does decide to peace out on you, you'll have other options available to you. So long as you keep getting out there and don't give up, you will find a guy that you're attracted to and can connect with -- and who is in the right time in his life, to want commitment with you. I'm not going to pretend that there's an easy way around all of this, and dating can be really hard and frustrating sometimes But don't give up, and just realize, if a guy does disappear on you, it's his loss. If you enjoyed this video, please give it a like on youtube, and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE on youtube. Also, I've reopened my Sexy Confidence premium course, and provide 4 free training videos you can watch to learn these critical dating skills. Head on over to SexyConfidence.com to enter your first name and email to get instant access to this course. I'll see you there in a minute. Thanks for watching.
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For more videos like this, head on over to http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret To ask Adam Any question, go to http://www.UnityMember.com Attraction is a crazy emotion. It comes seemingly out of no where – and once you feel it, it’s almost impossible to ignore. Attraction is not a choice. And believe it or not, there are 3 female mindsets that will make him as addicted to you, as I am to cookies. In this week’s video I’ll teach you the 3 irresistible female mindsets that attract men. 1. Positivity 2. Sensuality 3. Mystery Do you find these same mindsets to be irresistible when you meet a man? Let me know in the comments section. Your bud, Adam
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Is he relationship focused or just sex focused? Discover the 3 signs that he wants a serious relationship with you. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com Turn your relationship from casual to committed: https://casualtocommitted.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce Dating has changed a whole lot over the past 100 years. In decades past if a man was pursuing you it was meant he was courting you for marriage. Dating in the 21st century just isn’t that simple… and it can be down right messy. Is he relationship focused or just sex focused? Dating has changed a whole lot over the past 100 years. In decades past if a man was pursuing you it was meant he was courting you for marriage. Dating in the 21st century just isn’t that simple… and it can be down right messy. Is he relationship focused or just sex focused? In this video discover the 3 signs he wants a serious relationship with you. You can use these signs to decipher the intentions of any man. … and save yourself the uncomfortable moment when you have “the talk.” So tell me, have you ever dated a guy who wasn’t interested in a relationship but you kept seeing him? Your Coach, Adam P.S. – Is he still teetering on the edge of commitment? Don’t accept a causal relationship when you’re looking for commitment. Inside my Casual to Committed program (https://casualtocommitted.com) I show you specific steps to make him see you as THE woman he’s been waiting for. Summary – 1. He wants to get to know you as a person, not just your body. So you are seeing this guy you have amazing sexual chemistry with. You start seeing each other, but time passes and he still doesn’t know what makes you tick. He doesn’t show any interest in finding out what your hobbies are, what your goals are, or the intricacies of your life. Great chemistry can lead you to justify staying with this man, but the reality is he just doesn’t care to learn more about you. I know it’s a harsh reality, but it’s important to decipher his intentions. You want a guy who is interested in getting to know you as a person, rather than just in the bedroom. 2. He uses the “R” word… Relationship Years ago when I was single and not looking for a serious relationship, I would avoid the “R” word at all possible costs. When men are in their single guy stage, they are going to avoid any chance of having “the talk” and or using the “R” word. On the other hand, when a man is open and looking for a serious relationship they will talk about having a relationship in a positive way. 3. He stops trying to live the single guy lifestyle and is willing to grow up. If during the week he’s willing to spend time with you, but on the weekends he’s going out and getting wasted with his single buddies… then he’s not ready for anything serious. A guy who really wants a serious relationship is willing to commit his life to that woman. He’s not teetering on the edge of being a single guy, but willing to put the single lifestyle aside and invest his weekdays and weekends spending time with you. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://casualtocommitted.com]
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Is he "not sure" what he wants? Is he being flaky? Here's what to do. For more dating and love tips, go to https://sexyconfidence.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce It's not easy to have "the conversation". You know the one I'm talking about… … "what are we?" Maybe it takes you weeks of courage to have the conversation… … or maybe it spontaneously bursts out at what seems like the worst moment. Either way, if his response is… "I don't know what I want right now"… … it can be devastating, infuriating, and completely confusing. What does that even mean? You feel confident in what you want… … why doesn't he? Let me tell you… … there are 3 reasons why I guy might tell you he's not sure what he's looking for. How you respond to him depends on what's going on behind the scenes. Check out this video to find out why he tells you he "doesn't know what he wants". Your coach, Adam P.S. If you're looking for a serious, committed relationship and you're tired of casually "hanging out," you should check out my program, Casual To Committed. https://casualtocommitted.com/ It contains the blueprint for taking things from casual and uncertain to committed and secure. SUMMARY Dating Advice 3 Reasons He Says He Doesn't Know What He Wants 1. He's manipulating you He knows what he wants and it isn't you. He wants to have sex with you, while having the option to do the same thing with many other women. He's stringing you along telling you that he's figuring it out, or that he needs more time, when it's been figured out from the very beginning. The surest sign that he is using this as a manipulative tactic, is that he's shown absolutely no interest in you beyond sex. He hasn't tried to spend time with you to get to know you as a friend. If he's a manipulator, then the best thing to do is protect your heart and move on. 2. He's legitimately confused about what he wants in a relationship In this case, there's probably something else in his life that's actually stopping him from jumping in head first. Maybe he wants you, but his ex keeps texting him and is completely playing with his head. Maybe he loves you, but he's moving across the country in two weeks and doesn't think that it makes sense. The surest sign that he's just legitimately confused is that when you're with him, it feels like there's a real emotional connection, but when you're not… …he seems to always be pulling back. The best thing to do is just to be open with him about what it is that you're noticing and see if you can get to the heart of the problem. This way you'll have the information and understand why he's acting this way… … so that you can act accordingly and see if it makes sense to pursue the relationship any further. 3. He's delaying the decision until he knows you better Sometimes people just have different timings when it comes to relationships. For you it might take you three weeks before you want to dive head first. For him, it might take him three months before he really knows whether or not it's a fit. The sure sign that he's delaying to see if you guys are actually a fit, is if you haven't known each other for very long. The best case here is to use your best common sense. If you haven't known someone for that long, there's no reason to push commitment. It's really only once you've known someone for two, maybe three months when you can start having those types of discussions. When he doesn't want a relationship yet, think about these three situations. You don't have to end things just because he's unsure. Have you ever been in a situation when a guy didn't really know what we wanted, but then it ultimately worked out? I'd love to hear your story in the comment below and join in this community.
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3 phrases you can say to make him feel crazy in love with you, without looking crazy yourself. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ Have you ever said something to a man that just seemed to “trigger” a strong, loving emotional response? Maybe it was unintentional, or maybe you were using some of the scripts from my various premium programs. Regardless, words can be an incredibly powerful way to build a connection with any man. And in this week’s video, I’m going to share with you 3 phrases that women have said to me that have made me feel crazy in love with them. Have you ever said something to a man that just seemed to “trigger” a strong, loving emotional response? Maybe it was unintentional, or maybe you were using some of the scripts from my various premium programs. Regardless, words can be an incredibly powerful way to build a connection with any man. And in this week’s video, I’m going to share with you 3 phrases that women have said to me that have made me feel crazy in love with them. Have you ever used these phrases on a man? Comment below. Your coach, Adam P.S. These phrases are just the beginning… go further by discovering the secrets of Emotional Attraction: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/ Summary – 1. “I feel like I’ve known you forever.” This is going to trigger Emotional attraction in your man that is the heart melting sh*t that life is made of. He’ll understand that you’re kindred spirits. 2. “You’re going to have to work a little harder than that if you want to win me over.” That is that challenge that guys want to work for. Say that to a guy and he’ll begging to win you over. By creating push and pull tension you are showing him your interest while telling him that he is going to have to put in some real effort… because you are a High Value Woman. 3. “I’ll always support you with anything you really want in life.” I am convinced that one of the key evolutionary reasons why we pair bond is to have someone to encourage you when you’re in need. This is the nurturing and comfort part. By offering this type of support and guidance your bond with strengthen. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/]
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Put any guy through "The Love Test" and you'll know right away whether or not he's a TRUE keeper. Learn the 3 ways to know if he's THE ONE! Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce Let me ask you a question: How AMAZING would it be if you and a guy could go on a date… … both of you fill out a questionnaire… … and know instantly whether or not you're right for each other? Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way, does it? Well, here's the good news: In today's video, you're going to find out about my proven "Love Test" – including 3 ways to know if he's THE ONE! If you REALLY want to find the right guy for you, then you need to know how to filter out the guys who SEEM like Mr. Right but are actually Mr. Wrong… Put any guy through "The Love Test" and I guarantee you'll know right away whether or not he's a TRUE keeper. Until next time, Adam P.S. This is NOT about being rude, inconsiderate, or shallow – it's simply a proven way to know whether or not you should be investing your time in a man or not. Find out how HERE: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/ Summary – This has nothing to do with sex, amazing conversational chemistry, and whether or not the dude has a six pack or not. These are much deeper. If you're looking for the man you can spend the rest of your life with, you need to realize that these are the things that matter the most in the long term. Here are the three ways to know if he's THE ONE: 1. You Mutually Respect Each Other When you're looking for the one, you want to make sure you test whether or not he really respects you, because you can't force someone to respect you. 2. You Have a Similar Life Vision as you begin to explore one another, if you've met the one, you're going to see that your life visions really start to come together – almost as if it were just meant to be. When that doesn't happen, there's going to be constant friction in the relationship. 3. You Want to Ask Yourself, "Do you like him, not just love him?" After six months of any new relationship, your friendship with each other is going to be far more important than any romantic chemistry. What makes things even worse when it comes to love and relationships is that you can love someone but not really like that person. If that happens, no amount of physical passion or chemistry is going to hold the relationship together. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/]
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Some men avoid relationships at all costs...others are much more open to one. Learn the 7 signs he wants you to be his girlfriend.Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com It’s pretty rare to meet a guy who’s DYING to find a girlfriend. Sure, he might be open to it, but it’s unlikely that you’ll find a guy who’s on the “hunt for a bae”. But they do exist, I promise you - you just need to watch out for a few key behaviors. So in this week’s video I decode the signs to look for in a man you’ve recently started dating to avoid a bad situation. These signs will tell you that he’s interested in being your boyfriend. Have you ever seen these signs in a guy? Do you have any more signs to add to the list? Comment below the video. I’ll speak to you next week. Adam
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Learn the 3 Steps to Getting The Right Man To Pursue You And Only You: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract In this video and article, I’m going to give you some definite signs that he’s attracted to you, even if he’s trying to keep it a secret. P.S. Let there be no question that he’s attracted to you! Sign up for my Emotional Attraction Formula, and I’ll have high-quality men flock to you like bees to a flower: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/open-cart-limited/ Let’s dive into some signs he’s secretly attracted to you so that you can plan your next move. 1:31 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #1. He Gets Nervous In Your Company I don’t think women ever realize how completely intimidating it is for a man to approach them. He worries you’ll reject him or laugh at him. Now, I know you wouldn’t, but he has that in his head. So cut him some slack. If this guy is fidgety around you (and no one else), that’s a pretty good sign he’s secretly attracted to you. Reassure him that you’re interested too with a nice flirty smile or a hand on his arm. 2:17 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #2. He Smiles and Opens His Body Language His body language will also communicate his interest. Rather than crossing his arms or turning away from you (which communicates the very opposite), he will face toward you and even lean in when you talk (it’s especially cute if you’re short and he’s tall and does this!). 3:15 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #3. He’s Mean to You or Teases You If he teases you, tease him back! Instead of you running and crying in the bathroom, knowing that this actually means he likes you should help you be a little confident, and maybe get you to tease him back. 3:57 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #4. You Get the Feeling He’s Into You I’m always telling you Sexy Confident women to trust your gut. If you get the feeling that he’s attracted to you, don’t let your brain overthink it and convince your gut otherwise. There’s a reason scientists call the gut The Second Brain: it has an eerie ability to “know” things that sometimes your brain gets wrong. So give it a try. The next time you think a guy is showing signs he’s secretly attracted to you, find out and see if your gut was right. 4:06 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #5. He Works On Appearing Well-Groomed If this man is someone you’ve spent time with platonically, pay attention to whether he seems to be putting in extra effort these days into his appearance. Any change in his appearance for the better may indicate that he’s trying to subtly get your attention. Make sure you praise his efforts…and put in your own. Shopping time! 4:14 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #6. He Has A Helpful Attitude Towards You Is he going out of his way to be helpful? He’s definitely interested! Men are natural providers. When we are attracted to a woman, we want to help her however we can. He might offer you a ride when your car’s in the shop… He might help with that TPS report you’ve been stressing about at work… He might bring you chicken noodle soup when you’re sick. Realize that the average dude is not going to put this effort into helping a female friend. If he’s going above and beyond, he wants to provide value to you, the same way cavemen wanted to get the approval of their caveladies when they brought home a nice juicy dinosaur steak! 4:44 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #7. He’s Constantly Grooming Himself Men don’t even realize that they’re doing this. They may run their fingers through their hair (wishing they were running them through your hair). Or comb their beards with their fingers (hoping there are no crumbs lingering!). However he’s grooming himself, he’s trying to make sure that he’s looking his best in front of a lady he is absolutely smitten with. Now that you've identified the signs he's secretly attracted to you, figure out how to communicate your interest back. I give you three easy tips to implement in Part 2 of this article, but you've got to be a Sexy Confidence member to get access. Sign up now and get exclusive content, a super-supportive community, and tons of resources designed to help you find true love: https://sexyconfidence.com/club/
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Have you ever trusted a man too quickly and ended up disappointed? In this short video, LoDolce explains the 7 clear signs that you can trust a man. To download your free ebook about Men, go to: http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret/ebook2/ The first few months of dating someone is like walking through an old landmine. With each and every step you take, you wonder, "Is this the moment when everything ends?" But as you continue on through the relationship, you start to trust one another. You become comfortable sharing who you REALLY are. You tell that person things that almost no one else knows about you. You let your guard down. And all of this is a wonderful experience, except for that moment when the "bomb" goes off and you realize that you trust that you let your guard down too quickly. Well in this video I'm going to share with you the 7 signs that you're really able to trust a man. Have you ever let your guard down too soon? Are there any signs I missed? Please share in the comments section.
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Things have been good with the guy you're dating. You've got chemistry. Conversations flow. Then one day, he doesn't text you for 24 hours. https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/flirting-workshop/ ►►Subscribe here to learn more of my dating tips for women: http://bit.ly/2p50Jpw Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1 Find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ Read more relationship advice articles on our blog: https://sexyconfidence.com/blog/ Learn how to attract "the one": https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ WTF? What does it mean when a guy ignores you like that? Did you misread the signs? Was he not really into you? Feeling ignored has always sucked throughout human history. But now, when a guy ignores you, you know for a fact that he's read every one of your 12 text messages...and he's just not responding. Understandable. It's just common courtesy to respond to a text, even if he's not into you. But is that the case? Does he not like you? Is he playing games? Is he out with another woman? What does it mean when a guy ignores you?? As your coach, I take the role of letting you into the male mind very seriously. But be warned: it's not always a pretty sight. Men do dumb things, especially with women they're attracted to. Sometimes you overthink what they're thinking. Either way, I'm going to help you figure out what's on his mind when he ignores you, and what you should do about it. Your Coach, P.S. If you're ready to amp up your game so you don't get ignored by a man, check out my free Flirting Workshop training: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/flirting-workshop/ You waste precious time trying to figure out: why do men ignore women? 1. What Does It Mean When a Guy Ignores You...to Play the Game? Sad but true: there's no more effective way to make a woman want you than to ignore her just a little bit. This guy that you're into might take several hours to respond to your text. Some guys take this "ignore her so she'll want you" thing a little too far. If he's meticulously planning how long he'll wait until he responds to you, he most definitely is playing games to try to get you to chase him. What To Do When He Ignores You Like This Don't chase him: when you chase him, he's winning. If you text him and he takes forever, you have two choices: play the game back and take twice as long to respond... Or move on. If he's playing games this early in the relationship, he's probably not suddenly going to be authentic a few months down the road. 2. What Does It Mean When a Guy Ignores You...to Slow Things Down? He may need to slow things down. You may be perfectly willing to let things flow and see where they go, but he might panic if things move too quickly at the start of something new. If these conversations are happening early in the relationship, yea, he might freak out: He may feel like he's getting ahead of himself. And so he pulls away. What To Do When He Ignores You Like This Take your time to get to know one another and wait until you're out of that honeymoon phase and you know how you really feel about him before you start talking about the future. 3. What Does It Mean When a Guy Ignores You...Because You Hurt His Feelings? He may be sulking because you upset him. The male ego can be fragile. One big reason men pull away is that their feelings get hurt by women. What To Do When He Ignores You Like This I'm going to give you one simple word to make this better: Sorry. Don't be afraid to apologize. So many relationships would have less friction if both parties were willing to say they were sorry from time to time. 4. What Does It Mean When a Guy Ignores You...Because It's Over? He may be too chicken to tell you it's over. I truly think one of the biggest drawbacks of modern dating is that people aren't always upfront about how they're feeling...or as upfront about breaking up with someone as they were in the past. But if you're on the receiving end of ghosting, it can hurt and tick you off to no end. What To Do When He Ignores You Like This If you get the sense that this is why he's ignoring you, look at it as a blessing in disguise. In no way do you want to waste time on a man who isn't emotionally mature enough to be honest with you about his feelings. When he ignores you, there can be many reasons. It's up to you to put on your detective hat and figure out exactly what the situation is. Give it a few days in case he just needs some space. If it gets to a point where you can't take it, nothing good is going to come of him ignoring you. If he needs time to think about what he wants, he'll tell you. If he is a coward and can't be honest about it being over, then it's time to move on. And take advantage of my newest free training: my Flirting Workshop teaches you how to attract a man, show him you're interested and keep his attention: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/flirting-workshop/
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Have you ever slept with a guy too soon and regretted it? In this video Adam reveals WHEN a woman should have sex with a new guy she's been dating. To get on the notifications list for my new book "Men Love Confident Women", just visit http://www.menloveconfidentwomen.com Should you wait 3 or 5 dates to have sex with a new guy you've been seeing? Or should you just "go for it" and sleep with him on the first date? These are questions thousands of women have asked me over the years, and the unfortunate reality is that there's no "rule" that will answer it concretely. However, there are some key principles that will help you figure it out. In this brand new video I'll reveal exactly when to have sex with a new guy and when you should WAIT to jump in the sack. Check it out below. Have you ever slept with a guy too soon and regretted it? Do you think it's important to wait to have sex with a new guy you're seeing? I want to hear your thoughts! Let me know in the comments section. Your bud, Adam
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You SHOULD NEVER do this when you start falling for a guy. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ What do you do when you REALLY like a guy? How do you flirt, keep him interested and show him the engaging parts of your personality? Well if you’ve been following my emails then you’ve already learned some key “tips and tricks” based on sexy confidence. This means you already have an idea of what you SHOULD be doing in the beginning… Now we’re going to talk about the OTHER side of that same coin. In today’s video you’re going to discover what you SHOULD NEVER do (and why) when you start dating a guy you REALLY like. It’s easy to get caught up in the beginning--with all the feel-good butterflies and positive vibes in the air, who wouldn’t get a little swept away? But that’s exactly why it’s so important to be AWARE of what you’re doing in the beginning! Avoid making the critical mistakes I discuss in today’s video and you’ll still be open to love--only NOW you’ll be protected no matter what comes your way. Has that butterfly feeling ever swept you away? Tell me in the comments below. Your Coach, Adam PS: If you’re tired of the drama and frustration that comes with dating “Mr. Wrong” then it’s time to figure out how to attract “Mr. Right” (Hint: it has almost nothing to do with physical attraction, but EVERYTHING to do with emotional attraction). To discover the secret behind the Emotional Attraction Formula go here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ SUMMARY - Imagine this scenario. You met a guy at a work event a few weeks ago. He’s funny, cool, and asked you lots of questions about yourself. He really made you think things were going really well, and then he asked for your number. He started texting you. The dude clearly likes you. And then you’re at this point where, wow, this guy’s really into me and I’m really into him. You start envisioning yourself together, what it’d be like to introduce him to your parents, how much better and cooler this dude is than your ex. You start to feel the warm and fuzzies. But the warm and fuzzies are not necessarily about him. They’re about the idea of him and you together. You’re falling in love with the idea of love, which is a big no-no. Don’t get too excited and don’t get too eager. You think you know him, but you don’t know shit about him. The dude might kick dogs. He might chew tobacco. He might even be a Giants fan. You don’t know yet. You know nothing yet. Now, you might say, “Adam, you’re wrong. I do know this guy.” But you don’t. I mean, remember that last guy you got involved with? Yeah, that guy… Didn’t work out so well, did it? Nope. So if you find yourself falling in love with the idea of love, take a step back mentally. From this point forward, you are not allowed to think of the future with a guy until you’ve created a present with him. In my opinion, you really need six months in a committed relationship with someone before you even start thinking about any type of real future with them. Because if you start thinking of that future ahead of that, you are setting yourself up for potential heartbreak. Just see where it goes. The first month you start dating a guy, he’s a stranger. Do you remember when your mom told you not to talk to strangers? Well, I’m here to tell you not to fall in love with a stranger. Then for the next two months after that, he gets upgraded to an acquaintance. He’s in your orbit and that’s great, but he doesn’t make a massive impact in your life quite yet. Then finally for the next three months after that, he can become a good friend. This is where you can see if you actually like the real person behind all the dopamine and norepinephrine and all that stuff that went into your initial feelings for the guy. Become friends with him. See if you actually enjoy spending time with that person before really investing all of your emotions in him. Then after those six months, you can start falling in love with the idea of the relationship and, of course, falling in love with him. Fantastic. Now, I know it’s not easy to stop love from happening. I know it’s not easy to hold back your emotions. The best thing you can do is maintain an incredible life, maintain all those things that are going great in your life. And if you don’t have great things going on in your life, keep working to make that happen. The worst thing you can do is change your entire life and change everything around you just for a guy you recently met — a stranger. I’m here to protect you, support you and guide you. So please, take this advice very seriously. Don’t lose yourself when you first meet a guy.
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There are two reasons why men flake. The reason he tells you, & the REAL reason. Here are the 3 biggest reasons why men flake & what to text when he does. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce You're excited… You've been texting back and forth with him all week… You know exactly what you're going to wear and your confidence is high… Then… He cancels. There are two reasons why men bail on you. The reason he tells you, and the REAL reason. Here are the three biggest reasons why men flake. Now… When a guy flakes on you for one of these reasons, it doesn't have to be "game over." In today's video, I give you a tiny word-for-word text you can immediately send to regain the upper hand and take control of the situation. If you're tired of men ditching you at the very last minute, check out the video and leave a comment below. Your Coach, Adam P.S. When you know how to trigger a man's unconscious desires… he'll crawl across a desert of broken glass, while fighting a pack of wild dogs, just to see you… flaking on you doesn't even enter his mind. Discover how here: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/ Summary – Prefer to read? Here are the cliff notes for why men flake: 1. He's Seeing Other Women … and he's debating his best option. Unless you're in a committed relationship with a guy, you have to assume that he's at least talking to other women. Unless you're in a committed relationship with a guy, you have to assume that he's at least talking to other women. In the spirit of transparency, I used to be very flakey myself until I was ready for a real relationship. I personally found that when I was dating a bit more casually, I'd be as flakey as I could possibly get away with. Then… I met Jessica. She was so incredibly unaccepting of me being a flake, that I wouldn't even dare to pull a stunt like that with her. So remember: unless you're in a committed relationship with a guy, keep your options open. 2. He's Pursuing Another Woman Because She Seems Easier I was definitely never that bad, but I know plenty of guys who are. Some guys, who are only looking to sleep around, will often bail on a woman like you. He knows that you're a sexy, confident woman, who isn't going to deal with his shenanigans, so he pursues an easier "target." Once you start positioning yourself as a high-value woman, some guys you'll meet will simply flake on you for a woman he thinks will put out more quickly. This is actually a good thing. It might not feel like it at the time, but it really is. When a guy flakes on you because he's pursuing easier women to sleep with, he's freeing up your time and your emotional energy to be with an actual high-value man. Guys who are only going for easy women are the bottom feeders of the dating world. They're like crabs… scurrying around… looking for the easiest women to sink their claws into. But you… my sexy lady… are a glorious swordfish. You're waiting to be snatched up by a caring, respectful man, and you're not to be messed with. 3. You Always Flake On Guys, and Karma is a Bitch I personally believe in karma, and I believe in the law of attraction, especially with dating. Many times, what you're putting out into the universe comes right back to bite you in the ass tenfold. If you find that you're flaking on guys that maybe you're not that interested in… and you're constantly flaking on them for other guys… then you kind of deserve to be flaked on yourself by the guy that you really want. Stop that behavior immediately and start treating men the way you want them to treat you. The Super Awesome Magic Text That Turns The Tables: Here it is… If you ever get a text last minute and the guy is flaking on you, then go ahead and send him this text: "Hey, I'm actually super busy this weekend. I might be around later next week. Give me a call then and let me know what you were thinking." Make him reinvest his time and energy to call you, and if he won't call you, he's not worth your time. You are a high-value woman who doesn't deal with any of this bullshit. Let me ask you, have you ever been flaked on, and did any of these reasons hit home with you? [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/]
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Learn how to find a committed relationship: ►► https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/commit/ ►►Subscribe here to learn more of my dating tips for women: http://bit.ly/2p50Jpw Find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ Read more relationship advice articles on our blog: https://sexyconfidence.com/blog/ Learn how to attract "the one": https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ The fact is: you're not unbiased when it comes to gauging those signs he will never commit to you. Your heart is involved, so that inherently makes it more challenging to see the situation without prejudice. I make my living helping women just like you get clear on what they want, and to see the signs if the relationship (or...non-relationship, as it were) they're in isn't the best one for them. So allow me to take you on this journey as we explore those signs he will never commit to you. Your Coach, While I'm throwing my gender under the bus, I should tell you about the Male Mind Map I created: it deciphers men's actions and helps you understand what they're looking for. Download it here: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/ You can't figure out why he can't commit to you. Commitment means different things to different people. Waste not another second on this guy if he's not right for you. Here's an overview of the signs he will never commit, followed by a more in-depth look at each sign. Sign He Won't Commit #1: You Feel Like You Have to Trick Him into Commitment Commitment is not about tricking someone or casting some ridiculous spell on them to make them want to be with you. It's about finding someone that you not only want to commit your time, your energy, and your resources to but also someone who wants to do the same to you. And if you have to trick them into that, it's not going to happen. Sign He Won't Commit #2: You Just Know Your gut can tell you those signs he will never commit. Sometimes your body knows better than your heart that something's not right in a relationship. Pay attention to it! Sign He Won't Commit #3: He Told You So If you are dating a guy who is telling you that he doesn't want a relationship, listen to him. He is never going to commit to you no matter how badly you want it. You only have yourself to blame if you continue down that path, thinking you can change his mind. You can't and won't. Sign He Won't Commit #4: He Doesn't Let You Into His Life His life is a locked door to you. If he's not letting you into his life, or he's not doing anything extra to keep you happy, or he's not making an effort to be in your life as well, then that should be a major red flag as one of the signs he will never commit. Sign He Won't Commit #5: He Avoids All Emotion When I say this guy avoids emotion, I mean both positive and negative. I think it's obvious to you ladies that if a guy is not going to commit to you, he will avoid showing any positive emotion towards you. Any time you start an argument, he just walks away. He has no interest in engaging with you, either positively or negatively, and that is a red flag. Sign He Won't Commit #6: His Life is Scattered If his life is scattered, do you think he's ready to commit? One day he says he's ready to commit his life to skydiving. Another day he's going vegan. One day he's ready to go back to school in a completely different field. Another day he's trying to move to Thailand. So, if you're meeting guys who are completely all over the place in their lives, realize that they're probably going to be that same way in a relationship, and they're probably not ready for a true, committed long-term relationship. Sign He Won't Commit #7: It Will Always Be About The Physical Relationship If the bulk of the time you spend together revolves around being physical, this is one of those big glaring signs he will never commit to you. Why would he? He's getting exactly what he wants. Conclusion: You can't force a man to commit. Be true to what YOU need! So there you have it. There are the seven signs that he is never going to commit to you, no matter how badly you want it. I want you to avoid that heartbreak of investing your time, emotion, and energy into a man who's never going to invest in you in return. You deserve better. Go ahead and leave a comment below that just says never again. And that means that you promise me - right here in public - to never again settle for a man who's not going to give you what you want and deserve. Now is the time for you to start setting those standards in your life. And once you've set those standards for what you want from a man, men will start to meet them in return. Set the bar high, and I promise, men who fit the bill will start showing up in your world. And finally, I have a great free "commitment" training that I want you to take advantage of. It's going to help you avoid the "casual trap," and find a great relationship. Sign up for free here.
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Do you want to learn "how to be less shy around guys" AND "be more outgoing with men"? If you haven't joined the Sexy Confidence Movement to receive free videos just like this in your inbox, you're CRAZY. Check it out here: http://www.SexyConfidence.com For exclusive facebook bites, check out our fanpage: http://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1 To follow Adam on twitter: http://www.twitter.com/adamlodolce.com Do you get really shy around guys you like? Do you absolutely dread going to social events? Maybe you're a little shy, or you're just lacking a little confidence, regardless, what if I were to tell you that starting today, you can be the most outgoing woman in a room. Watch this video to find out how. Something I hear from my clients all the time is, Adam, once I get to know someone, Im' really comfortable, but when I meet someone for the first time, I get really nervous. And what do I say back? Of Course you do! Everyone does - this is what as known as a truism - it means that it's true for everyone. So stop thinking that you're alone here and that there's something wrong with you, there isn't. These four tips will enable you to drop your shy mentality and allow you to be the life of the party starting today. http://www.sexyconfidence.com
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Is he flirting or is he just being nice to you? Learn the 3 biggest signs that a man is flirting with you so that you don't miss out! Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Discover the Male Mind Map here: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce Quick quiz, pick the answer that definitely means a guy is flirting with you: A. A guy tells you he thinks you're funny. B. A guy tells you he likes your eyes. C. A guy speaks to you with a calm, quiet confidence. All of these can feel like flirting, but only one of them definitely is. It can be hard to tell sometimes. Cosmo likes to give you advice that makes it seem like flirting is always obvious, but the truth is… … well … … it's more complicated. Watch this video to find out 3 clear signs he's flirting with you (and not just being nice). When you can clearly pick up the signs that he's flirting, you'll have the confidence to flirt back… … and from there you're off to the races. Your Coach, Adam P.S. The answer was B. P.P.S. If you want to go even deeper into understanding the inner workings of men, check out my program The Male Mind Map: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/ It will teach you how to think like a man… helping you interpret, react to, and even (shhh…) control how he acts. Summary - One of the most difficult components of finding love is knowing how someone actually feels about you… … especially early on when you're meeting new people. There's a ton of evidence out there that shows men tend to over-perceive sexual interest from women… … while women tend to under-perceive sexual interest from men. This is why a lot of women ask me if I can help them figure out, "Is he flirting with me?" Well yes. Yes I can. 3 Signs He's Flirting With You: 1. If You're a Woman, and You Think a Guy's Flirting, Then He's Probably Flirting When you're getting out there and meeting new people, it's important to start listening to your gut more. Your brain will play tricks on you. It has a way of inserting your insecurities into a situation that shouldn't be there. When you meet someone and you get that feeling that he's flirting with you, then it's probably true. Be confident that he would want a woman like you, and don't doubt yourself. 2. He Compliments You on Something Physical This might be tough advice for some of you women to stomach, but it's true. Men are almost always initially drawn to a woman physically. Then, as time goes on, the emotional attraction develops and we decide that we want something more than just sex. So often, when a guy's initially interested in you, he has nothing else to say or to think about other than how beautiful you are. It's less of a problem of men being disgusting pigs and more of a problem of men being unoriginal. 3. He Acts Nervous or Awkward When He's Talking to You I think a lot of women give men way too much credit when it comes to flirting. Most guys suck at flirting. And when we do it, we usually fumble around a lot, especially when we really like you. It's frustrating because so much dating advice out there for women assumes that men are actually good at flirting. I hear so many dating experts say things like, "If he likes you, he'll confidently approach you, lightly touch your hair, and ask you out as if you were the only woman in the room." But the reality is, 90% of guys are not that smooth. If a guy is being friendly, he's not going to be nervous or fumbling around, he's just being friendly with you. But if he is flirting, he'll usually be fumbling around with his words, or being awkward… … and that's okay. Have you ever seen any of these signs of men flirting? How'd it go? Comment below to share with this amazing community. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/]
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Is he flirting with you? Discover the definite signs that he is interested and flirting. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce There are so many situations today that can be difficult to navigate. Men can be hard to read (both in person and online) and they may be a little skittish about showing real interest in you – yes, really! You see, we don’t talk about this too often, but it’s difficult for men to approach and flirt with women. We are putting ourselves out there and it can be a shot to our ego if we get rejected! But, if you keep a close eye out for these 5 signs, you will know if a man is even *subtly* showing interest in you, and you can help move the interaction forward if you’re interested in return! Tell me in the comments , have you ever had a hard time reading if a guy was interested in you? Which of these signs have YOU experienced before? Talk to you soon! James Summary – 1. He keeps eye contact. When he’s not looking around the room, not checking his phone, not looking at other women, but has his eye peeled on you… then he’s definitely flirting. If a man is focused on you and is actively listening to what you’re saying then he’s interested and flirting with you. 2. He gets excited. It’s a good sign he’s flirting when he becomes energetic and animated. Men tend to get into a groove and build momentum when they’re enjoying themselves. When things are going well and he’s really flirting with you, he will become more enthusiastic and excited. 3. He leans in. Men communicate with body language. If he’s leaning in or moving closer to you, then he’s attracted and flirting with you. How you mirror, or don’t mirror, his movements and distance will signal back to him your interest level. 4. He remembers what you say. Interested men will remember the details of your previous conversations and will ask follow-up questions. He talks to you to learn about you and he makes sure there is depth in the conversation. Not only that, but he doesn’t talk over you or ask questions until it’s his turn to speak. These are all signs that he’s flirting with you. 5. He touches you. Maybe the most obvious sign of all, but still the most important. Touch comes in many forms… if he puts his arm around you, touches you on the shoulder, puts his hand on your lower back while he’s listening to you, puts his hand on your leg when you’re laughing together, etc. These are all strong signs that he’s flirting and wants you.
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It's shocking and confusing when the new man your dating suddenly disappears. Want to know why he ghosted you? Find out now! Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Turn your relationship from casual to committed: https://casualtocommitted.com ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce It’s the poster child for everything that’s wrong with modern dating. It drives women (and men) freakin’ crazy. You go on one, two, or even four dates and things seem to be going really well… You’ve been sharing appetizers and bar hopping and maybe you even have an inside joke… And then, without warning, he’s gone… … radio silence… … never to be heard from again. What happened??? Turns out there are some telltale signs that predict when he’s going to ghost you. If you’re tired of worrying about whether you’ll ever get a reply to your last text… … or desperate to know how to identify the ghost before it happens (it’s like having a dating crystal ball)… Check out this video to learn why men ghost, and what you can do about it. Your Coach, Adam P.S. If you’re sick of guys only wanting casual and are ready to find a committed and loving relationship, it’s time to start the casual to committed program: https://casualtocommitted.com In it, you’ll learn exactly how to transition any casual situation into a loving, committed one. Summary - 1. He's Dating For Sport This means, essentially, he’s dating because it's his hobby and he has very little interest in pursuing anything more. He doesn't really want a real relationship. Now, I understand women are getting more and more frustrated with this and I think men are doing this more and more as actually are women. People are just getting married later. So that means a lot of people, especially in their early even late 20's, are not really dating with any serious intentions. The best way to avoid this if you're looking for something a little bit more serious is to get an idea of his dating history. It doesn't mean that you need to stop seeing him. It just means that you want to be very aware of his behavior and don't invest too much in him before he starts investing in you. 2. You Were Just Incompatible The reality of dating and finding love is that the vast majority of the people you meet won’t be right for you. And sometimes you'll meet someone that you really like but they're not interested in you. Incompatibility happens. And sometimes when that happens, and he doesn't want to pursue anything more, he just disappears. And he does this, in many ways, because he doesn't want to face the music. Or he doesn't feel like you've been dating long enough that it really warrants a straight up break up. So sometimes this just happens in life and in dating, and the worst thing you can do is give up. The best think you can do is take that time to heal and find yourself again and then get back out there! You’ll find that person who DOES want to stick it out with you - and who enjoys time with you. 3. The Relationship Was Founded On Superficial Reasons Focusing on short-term attributes will get you short-term relationships. If you meet a guy and sparks are flying everywhere but you know nothing about him except the fact that he's tall and handsome, I guarantee that it's going to be a short-term relationship because you're focusing on short-term attributes. Give it a little time for you guys to get to know each other. Become friends first before it turns into something that flames up and then dies out quickly. 4. He Gave Up On You Because You Showed No Interest in Him Now, us guys, we just need a little bit of reassurance that you're into us. For every 100 articles of dating advice for women out there telling you to play hard to get there's maybe one article telling you to be authentic and open about the way that you feel about a guy. The sexy confidence way is very different. Don't play hard to get. Be hard to get because you have an amazing life to go live and you're not going to waste all of your energy on a guy that you barely know. But there's a caveat to this. As a guy continues to invest his time, resources, energy into you, you have to reciprocate! You need to be vulnerable and be willing to share with him that you think he's an amazing guy and you look forward to continuing to get to know him further. Being able to open up and share those feelings with him is going to make you feel so much more connected to one another, and it's going to be far less likely that he just gives up and moves on with his life. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://casualtocommitted.com]
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There's a reason why people are talking about the no contact rule: http://winninghimback.com/ It works. The more time you have away from the guy that broke your heart, the more you can get your head straight and figure out what you really want. I know you're trapped in heartbreak right now, but the first thing you've got to do is heal yourself. Learn how with my Winning Him Back program: http://winninghimback.com/ With the no contact rule, you go 21 days without interacting with that guy that broke your heart.Let's look at a few other benefits of following the no contact rule. 1:36 No Contact Rule #1. You Win Your Power Back Following the no contact rule puts the power back in your hands. Following the no contact rule allows you to busy your mind with other things so that you're not focused on him and what he's doing. You're not wondering if he wants you back. 2:10 No Contact Rule #2. You Allow Yourself Time to Heal Your first and foremost goal right now should be to heal that heartbreak. You can't do that if you're still talking to him or scrolling through his Facebook feed. Don't rush it. Take this time for you. Journal. Talk to friends. Cry. It's all part of the healing process. 2:30 No Contact Rule #3. You Let New Energy In Create positive energy simply by taking your focus off your relationship. You can get back to activities you enjoyed before your relationship and spend time with friends you maybe have been neglecting a bit. 3:00 No Contact Rule #4. You Get Rid Of The Fantasy of a The Perfect Relationship The reality is that this guy isn't perfect. He may, in fact, not be the guy for you. It probably won't look the way you want it to, but at least you're not seeing love through rose-colored glasses anymore. 3:40 No Contact Rule #5. You Stop Reliving Your Mistakes Over and Over Again Following the no contact rule helps you step out of that self-critical hamster wheel to see the bigger picture. Whether you made mistakes or not, the plain and simple truth just might be that you weren't meant to be. 4:05 No Contact Rule #6. You Give Yourself Time to Grieve You will start to see the sun again. And yes, eventually, you will accept the breakup. I can't tell you how long it will take you to work through all of this. But I can tell you that you absolutely will have to work through the grieving process. There's no getting around it. Whether you get back together or not, you have to first grieve what is no more. 4:30 No Contact Rule #7. It Stops You From Looking Desperate Have a little dignity. Respect yourself. Do whatever it takes to not contact him for those three weeks so that you don't reek of desperation. 5:07 No Contact Rule #8. You Remember: Life is Good, Even Without Your Ex Yes, it will take a while to get back into the groove of your old hobbies and habits, but following that no contact rule can expedite the process and remind you that you don't need a man in your life. 5:21 No Contact Rule #9. You Can Find Yourself Again You can't find yourself unless you give yourself space. The truth is: the right man will want you to be authentic. He won't want the watered-down version of you. He'll want you on full-blast. So if you haven't been turning up the volume of Radio You, look at this no contact period as the perfect opportunity to do just that. I don't want you to think of this no contact rule as a game to win him back. The purpose of taking this time away from your ex is totally and completely for you. You might need more than three weeks, and that's fine. Take as long as you need. Because it's your heart, and only you can determine what it wants. My 3-step system, Winning Him Back, will help you shut down feelings of panic (the no contact rule is in there) so you can rebuild your personal identity and make yourself a better partner this time around. Get instant access today: http://winninghimback.com/
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Are you currently in an abusive relationship? Have you dated someone in the past who was abusive? Watch the 7 Signs of An Abusive Relationship to learn what to do. For more videos like this, please visit http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret RESOURCES FOR ENDING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org State by state legal info: http://www.womenslaw.org Men Stopping Violence: www.MenStoppingViolence.org Here are the 7 signs: 1. He’s a psycho saddist – he literally feels better about himself the more than he puts you down. Maybe he constantly humiliates you, criticizes you, or embarrasses you. 2. You’re forced to always put his needs in front of your own needs because you’re scared of how he might react. 3. He makes you believe that you are the reason why the relationship is struggling – or that you’re the crazy one. 4. He cheats on you or intentionally tries to make you jealous. 5. He treats you like a pet, not like a person. Does he control where you go, what you do? Does he keep you from seeing friends or family, or limit your access to money, the phone or the car? 6. He makes you feel inferior by negatively comparing you to other people or other women.
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Ever had a guy ignore you and your texts? If so, then I'll teach you EXACTLY what to do and how to reel him back in. Send him these 3 texts tonight: https://lovetexting.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce Maybe you sent him a text saying "I had fun last night,"… … or you sent a flirty emoji… … or a ridiculous gif… … bit he didn't respond back. It's an icy dagger through the heart, causing panic, confusion, and desperation. What should you do in this situation? Do you call him to see if he's alive - maybe he was in a freak gasoline fight accident? (Extra points if you get the movie reference…) Do you send him 5 more texts (maybe he didn't notice the first message)? Do you send him a bitmoji (maybe your text needed more expression)? Check out this video to find out what to do if he isn't responding to your texts. If he isn't responding to your texts, don't panic, and don't freak out. Watch this video, and you'll know what to do. Your coach, Adam P.S. Even though it's such a big part of dating, no one ever taught us how to actually text our romantic partners to get the right responses. That's why I created Love Texting, a program that teaches everything you need to know about how to attract men and ignite their passion, all through text. Check out Love Texting here. Summary Let's rip off the bandaid. If he isn't responding to your texts, he's probably ignoring them. How do I know? Because no one, and I mean no one, in the First World can go longer than two hours without checking their phone. So if you've sent him a text and he hasn't responded in anywhere from two to three days, he's ignoring you. Here's the reality: Guys usually don't ignore texts from women that they actually like. We're actually pretty bad at playing hard to get… … so when you do send out a text or you follow up with a guy and he is ignoring you… The first question to ask is - is he ignoring you or was it never a thing? Maybe you don't know him very well, or you only went on one date with him If that's all it was, then he's probably not ignoring you. It just wasn't a relationship in the first place. The second question to ask is - do you even know this guy? If not, don't allow your emotions to take over. Don't allow this to ruin your week or your month. All you gotta do is say that magical four-letter word… … "next." It's not worth your time. Where I come from, you don't spend your energy on strangers who don't spend their energy on you. Your next step is to go off and do something amazing with your life Do something that you can really put your time and your energy into that doesn't have anything to do with men or relationships. Once you create an awesome life outside of relationships, a guy will often magically appear and want to be a part of your awesome life. If you feel that you need closure, and nothing will stop you from getting it.. … send this one text. If he doesn't respond, it's over. Here it is: I just saw something that reminded me of you. If he responds, tell him you drove by the place you had your first date, or another place that reminds you of him. It doesn't really matter. But if he doesn't respond, it's over. No more analyzing, no more wishing that it could change. Now on the other side of the spectrum, if you are dating a guy and he is ignoring you… … it's time to have a very real conversation with him to get to the heart of what's happening. Don't attack him. Be open and say, "Look, I want to get to the heart of this. How can we work this out?" Have you ever been ignored and how did you respond? I want to hear from you in the comments right there below. Perhaps you can share your story, and help the other women in the community
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Are you WAY to available with men? Find out if you are showing one of the signs. Watch more videos like this and discover why Men Love Confident Women: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret I want you to remember this ONE thing: Scarcity creates value. When something is scarce then it’s hard to come by, and that means it’s worth more. This is just as true for dating as it is for diamonds or gold. A prime example: If you show yourself as too available then men won’t value your time or attention. Available women are everywhere... but the woman who must be chased? She must be worth something. Here’s the problem: You might be giving off signs that you’re too available... without even knowing it! Today’s video will help you find out. It’s all about the 3 signs you’re way too available with men. Dating--especially in the beginning--is very much a dance. If you don’t know the right steps then you can trip up (or fall flat on your face!) and end up missing out on an opportunity for something truly special. I know that you’re a diamond that’s worth hunting for...and if you avoid making these 3 critical mistakes then he will too. Are there any signs I missed? Tell me in the comments below. Your Friend, Adam PS: Want to learn how to become the sexy confident woman that High Value Men find irresistible? It’s easy to do when you have a step-by-step, proven system to follow. Find out more here: http://www.menloveconfidentwomen.com/ SUMMARY - 1. Suggesting multiple days to meet up. If he asked you when you might be available to go on a date, don’t say, “I’m wide open. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and/or Saturday would be amazing. Any time next week works as well.” If you respond like that, he’s gonna look at that text and want to respond with, “Sorry, none of those times are going to work for me.” 2. Moving venues to come and see him when he could have easily moved venues to come see you. I don’t care if the dude’s with 10 of his friends. If he wants to come see you, let him come to you. Let him make that investment in you. There are obvious exceptions. Like if he’s hanging out with his parents or he’s with his grandma and he wants you to come, then obviously go to him. Use your best judgment. 3. Telling him that you’ll cancel on your other friends to come meet up with him. If you try to get out of plans with your girlfriends, not only should your girlfriends slap you, but you should also slap yourself for being way too easy. The moral of this story is not for you to play hard to get. I want you to be hard to get. Maintain your life and don’t overly invest in a guy until he really starts to invest in you. Like this episode? Make sure you check out: http://www.menloveconfidentwomen.com/
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Want to become the most attractive woman he's ever met? Join this free training: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ What does it take to be attractive to the object of your desires? Body like Beyoncé? Bootie like J. Lo? Wrong. So wrong. Here's a clue: it's not about the physical. In this video, I share four little tidbits that can make you the most attractive woman this guy has ever laid eyes on. They're totally doable. No Botox or implants needed. Don't believe me? Watch the video. Your Coach, Adam P.S. After watching this video, you'll be ready for my Emotional Attraction Formula, which will teach you five emotional attraction triggers guaranteed to make you more appealing to the guy of your dreams. Summary – When I say the words "attractive woman," what comes to your mind first? Beautiful hair. Perfect butt. Nice boobs. Sexy lips? You went physical on me, didn't you? You thought of physical attraction first, rather than the other type of attraction. I get it. You've been told by society that physical qualities are really what attracts men. Well, I'm here to tell you that this is completely wrong. All those physical attributes may make men pursue you, and certainly may make men want to sleep with you. But they definitely don't help you find a great relationship. And as a matter of fact, a lot of very physically attractive women have a lot of dating troubles themselves. So let's get away from the physical while I help you harness this concept that I call emotional attraction. So...What's Emotional Attraction? Emotional attraction is basically where a man truly cares about you on an emotional level. He wants to spend more time with you. He wants to be around you because he loves your personality and loves who you are. There's not so much a focus on your physical attraction once he's gotten to know you and sees there is so much more inside to love. I've been talking about emotional attraction for the past five years. I've been teaching this to millions of women all across the world. That's a testament to the fact that this stuff works. Today let's talk about just one emotional attraction trigger that you really want to focus on when you first meet men. The way to be the most attractive woman a man has ever met? Be fun. Yep. Simple, right? Let's play another word association here. What do you think of when I say, "you and a guy should go have some fun." You thought of sex, didn't you? Having sex with a guy in order to attract him is what boring girls do in order to attract men. But you're not boring. You're unique. So you can do better than luring a man in with your superficial beauty and your body. I want you to be the type of woman who is playful and who can have fun and can enjoy herself when you're on a first date, or a second date, or a third date. Being a really attractive person in general and in life - and by the way, the same thing goes for men - is all about being playful and fun. Really enjoying your time together. Dating is all about the interactions that you have with one another, and if that experience isn't playful and fun - and most of all, enjoyable - he's not going to ask you out on another date. So for starters, tease him a little bit (and no, not the sexual kind of tease!). It's okay to have a little bit of fun. If he says something a little ridiculous, poke fun of him. It's okay. I first met my girlfriend, Jessica, about three years ago. One of the first things I remember about her is that she was completely willing to call me out on my bullshit. She had no problem making fun of me if I said something a little bit outrageous or if I went a little bit over the top trying to impress her. And I found this incredibly attractive. On that same note, feel free to be a little sarcastic sometimes. Now if you use sarcasm too much, yes, it can be definitely overwhelming. I'm sure you've met that guy who was just way too sarcastic and it was a turnoff. But at the same time, if you find that you're not being playful on dates or you're not having a good time, feel free to use a little bit of sarcasm. You'll spice up the conversation a little bit. Note: It's harder to discern sarcasm via text, so save it for face-to-face interactions so he doesn't mistake your sarcasm for something else. Next, be somewhat impulsive. If you're on date with a guy and the conversation's getting dull, grab his hand, tell him to come with you, and go play basketball. Or walk barefoot in the grass. Do something unexpected and unplanned. And finally, don't be afraid to have some inside jokes. Inside jokes are a great way to really bond with a man because these jokes are something that only you two know about. It's like this secret that no one else knows, and once you start to develop inside jokes together as you get to know a guy, it's amazing how much it brings you two together.
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Don't scare him off with questions about marrying you. Instead, look for these 3 signs. You won't spook him & you'll learn if he wants to marry you someday. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Turn your relationship from casual to committed: https://casualtocommitted.com ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce First comes love, then comes marr… Actually, let me pause there. So many women want to know if a guy is serious about committing for the long haul, but they don't know how to bring it up. That's because they know it's a dangerous topic. Bring it up at the wrong time, or in the wrong way, and guys get spooked. That's why today's video is all about how you can find out if he wants to marry you someday, without directly asking him the question. I've got a few signs in there that show you he's making progress in the right direction… … plus a sneaky question that will help you gauge how serious he is without setting off his marriage alarms. Check out the video and discover the 3 signs he wants to marry you someday. Your Coach, Adam P.S. If you're sick of men only wanting "casual relationships" and are ready to start finding more marriage-focused men, then go here to try the Casual to Committed Blueprint: https://casualtocommitted.com Summary – 1. He Says That He Wants to Have a Family in the Near Future After you've been dating a guy for about three months or more and you're in a committed relationship, then you can casually ask him a question that kind of sounds like this: "I want you to imagine that you have your perfect life, everything you'd ever want. In five years, what would that life look like?" The reason why I like the wording in this question so much and the reason why it works so well is that it turns a serious question into a more fun hypothetical question. Instead of point blank asking him, "So do you plan on getting married in five years or what?" … "Well, not to you." Instead of doing that, use the question I gave you. You'll be more subtle about your information gathering. 2. He's Committed to You and Only You I know this seems like an obvious one but it happens too often where a woman will make too many assumptions about a guy who she's seeing casually and isn't explicitly in a committed relationship. This brings other assumptions about the future. It's really important to be in a committed relationship before you start thinking about any type of the serious marriage stuff. 3. There's Future Progression in the Relationship Sometimes this might be slower than you'd like, but there's always some type of progression. There's always some type of moving forward, whether it's that he starts out by sleeping over once a week, then it goes to twice a week, then you go on a vacation together, then you move in together. This is the type of progression you want to be looking for and if a relationship stalls for way too long, then it's important to start having the "What's going on" conversation. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://casualtocommitted.com]
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We all know love is totally irrational. Why? Because attraction is NOT a choice. You cannot CHOOSE who you are attracted to. Instead, you can only CHOOSE who you date (and ultimately marry). For more videos like this, head on over to http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret And weirdly enough, sometime's the very fact that a guy doesn't treat you well (because he's a #[email protected]!), makes you even more attracted to him. I've seen it over and over again. This is based on so many years of experience coaching men, as well as, admittedly, my own experience of being a #[email protected]! at one point in time in my life. Well, this has to stop today. I want you to be aware of the 3 types of guys you should avoid, EVEN IF these traits are wildly attractive to you. Hey there, my name's Adam LoDolce and I'm the founder of SexyConfidence.com where I teach the 21st century woman how to create a love life that she loves. And today, I'm going to make you aware of the 3 types of men that you shouldn't be attracted to..but are. Attraction is a crazy emotion. And unfortunately, you cannot choose who you are attracted to. Attraction is not a logical choice, it's a feeling. The only thing you can choose, is who you date. Who you date, and wind up in a relatinoship with is a choice. So I've put together a list of 3 different types of men that I've found women are HIGHLY attracted to based on my experience of also coaching men. But the reason you're attracted to this type of guy will be the very reason why he drives you a little insane. First one is The Challenging Chad From the moment you met him, he'd be interested then uninterested, he'd be hot and then cold (He's hot and he's cold. Should I involved Katie Perry in this video? Nah, would be too obvious. But I do love this song) He'll tell you he's never felt this way about a girl before, but then doesn't text you. You just don't get him. And that's why you're so attracted to him. We as humans value people or things, that we work hard for. Unfortunately, when it comes to dating, usually the people we are most attracted to, aren't that into us. And that's why we're so into them! But if you're looking for a happy fulfilling relationship, you'll realize that you want you don't want to be with someone who is a challenge to be with, but instead just to be with someone who challenges you intellectually, who challenges you to be a better person, and who makes you a better person when you're around them. The Second is Stimulation Seeking Stan This is the guy that always wants the next best thing. He probably loves adrenaline sports, he's probably super competitive, he just loves stimulation -- Stimulation stan just hates sitting still (Chugging a red bull. -Man, I may or may not fit in this category..Oh well, at least my name's not Stan) He probably loves to go out a lot, loves to party -- loves to do anything that gets him moving. And that's why you like him, because he's exciting. He's impulsive and each day is a new adventure. He's probably super passionate about whatever he's doing. But if you're looking for some real relationship security, Stimulation Stan might not be your best bet. He's the dude to have a vacation weekend fling with...not to bet your future on. The last type of guy is the Guy Who's Always Surrounded by All the Girls...Gary Back when I was coaching men on how to approach you, I would teach them how to be the guy who's always surrounded by all the girls...Gary. Why? Because women are psychologically more attracted to men who are surrounded by other attractive girls, rather than a group of dudes sitting in the corner (Me in the corner looking creepy) This concept is known as social proof.
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If you never stop being interesting, he won’t lose interest. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Have you ever met a guy and it seems to be going REALLY well, but then suddenly he loses interest? Or maybe you've made it passed the honey moon phase, and suddenly you feel him slipping away... If you've ever struggled with keeping a man interested, then this week's video is perfect for you. In it, I describe the secret to holding a man's attention forever. Watch The Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in You Have you ever struggled keeping a man's interest? Have you found any simple ways to reengage him and re-spark the flame in the relationship? Leave a comment below the video and share with the community. Speak next week. Your coach, Adam
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Do you want to learn how to attract your man? Give him a compliment...and here's how to make his heart melt :) To learn how to attract "the one" go to https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce Let me ask you a question… … the last time someone complimented you - on your outfit, or maybe on something you did - did you like that person more or less? You instinctively felt like you liked them more, right? It's a natural human response. So why do so many people say the way to get a man to like you is to never compliment him? Never say nice things, never acknowledge his efforts. It's crazy! If you want someone to like you, say nice things that make them like you! I don't mean say nice things that aren't true (because this will backfire)… I mean being honest and authentic in praising people when they do something worth praise. There are 3 specific moments where I think complimenting a guy will make him like you way more. We like people who make us feel good. Give your guy authentic compliments at the right time, in the right way, and he'll fall for you fast. Learn the three types of compliments that will melt his heart and make him yours. Your coach, Adam P.S. Part of what makes a compliment so effective is that it shows you're secure enough in yourself to say nice things about other people. It projects confidence, and there are few things more attractive to a man than a confident woman. If you want to learn how to develop irresistible confidence, check out my program Men Love Confident Women. 3 Compliments That Make a Man's Heart Melt Summary Has anyone ever given you the advice that you're not supposed to compliment a guy, because the moment you show interest is the moment he loses interest? That by ignoring him, you're secretly transmitting energy that you want him to come to you? Well let me tell you, whoever says this has no idea they're talking about. It turns out a great compliment is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal of charm. But a lot of women don't know how to compliment a man. The key to a good compliment is giving them out authentically and when they're earned. Here's the deal… The 3 Best Compliments for a Guy The Positive reinforcement compliment Reinforcing good behavior is a great way to compliment a guy. Did he call you instead of text you after a date? Say something like: I really appreciate a guy who's willing to call instead of text. Did he go out of his way and fix your stove when you told him it was broken? Say something like: Wow, you're so handy. You can fix just about anything, can't you? Did he listen to you vent for 20 minutes about your boss? Tell him Thank you for being such a great listener. You really know how to be there for someone. You believe in him and support him and that he's generally doing a good job (if he's doing a good job) It's really nice to receive praise from just people in our lives… … but when we receive it from a woman that we're really into, it charges us to succeed in ways we never knew possible. The classic physical compliment You don't want to overuse this, but it's certainly useful if you don't have any other compliments to give and you're just feeling it in the moment. It will make him feel great. What are some compliments that you've received from men that have made your heart melt? I love to hear from you in the comments right below.
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Since the dawn of time, women have tried to figure out why men fight their feelings. Learn how to get him to open up ►► https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/commit/ ►►Subscribe here to learn more of my dating tips for women: http://bit.ly/2p50Jpw Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1 Find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ Read more relationship advice articles on our blog: https://sexyconfidence.com/blog/ Learn how to attract “the one”: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ Men act one way and say something else entirely. Here's an example of a classic male internal dialogue: Emotionally Open Him: Oh God! She’s so wonderful. I love being around her: Macho Him: Shut up! Don't do it! Emotionally Open Him: But I love her! Macho Him: I don't care. Just don't do it! Run! If you're laughing right now, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that you've dated guys that seem to have this conversation going on in their heads. It's dumb, I know, but often, men fight their feelings. They just don't know what they want or need...and so they make things for you a lot harder to interpret. In today's video and article, I'm going to outline some key reasons why men fight their feelings, and help you figure out what to do about it. Your Coach, P.S. It's hard to navigate men's behavior without a map. Guess what I've created? The Male Mind Map, which does exactly that: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/ So why are men so terrified of their feelings? It may be because they were raised to not talk about them. In a recent study, researchers found that nearly half of men are unable to talk about their feelings and that 23% feel they have to be the strong, silent type. It's not necessarily their faults that they were raised this way, but the challenge is in hoping they will overcome this block. When a man seems to be stoic, it's easy to feel like he's not sensitive, but let me assure you: most men are. They may hide it under a layer of macho, but they get their feelings hurt just like you. They worry about being vulnerable in a relationship, just like you do. So let's take a closer look at why men fight their feelings so that you can understand their crazy behavior. Why Men Fight Their Feelings #1: He's Been Hurt Who hasn't had their heart stomped on in a past relationship? Most of us have. It's a big reason why men fight their feelings in relationships. Talk a little about your past relationships and how you've been hurt to show him that it is possible to move forward even with past pain. This could open the door to him talking about his own experiences. Why Men Fight Their Feelings #2: He Converts Feelings into Action Here's an interesting phenomenon: men are capable of converting their more vulnerable, mushy feelings into completely irrational actions. Men are good at taking feelings they consider feminine (you know, love and stuff) and translating them into something they perceive to be more masculine. If a man feels hurt, rather than embrace and deal with that hurt, he will just convert it into anger. Don't take his actions at face value, especially if they're out of the ordinary. Ask yourself what he might be converting into action. Have you had an awkward conversation? Could you have hurt his feelings? Give him some space and see if he gets back on track in how he behaves with you. Why Men Fight Their Feelings #3: It's Less Socially Acceptable For Men To Have Feelings I touched on this in the introduction, but socially, men aren't encouraged to express their feelings. Being a communicative, expressive woman, this may be hard for you to handle. You have to decide if you're willing to work with this guy who may be a little emotionally shut down or not. There are strategies you can use to open up the dialogue, starting with not pushing too hard. I know, the more he pulls away, the more you pursue one of those "talks" that we men loathe. But realize that he needs to feel safe to open up. Let him know that you understand his feelings and that you're here if he wants to talk about it. Why Men Fight Their Feelings #4: He Doesn't Understand Your Feelings and You Don't Understand His When it comes to communication and feelings, women tend to want to process their emotions while talking, whereas men will retreat into their mental caves to process things before they're ready to talk about them (if they ever are). If you're stressing about the vast difference between how you both process feelings, realize that it's not your job to change how he is. Nor can you. Cut your losses and move on. A man who can deal with actual feelings is out there. So have you had experience with a man fighting his feelings and not opening up to you? Dish! Share your story with other Confident women in the comments below.
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Learn exactly what men really want here: http://www.SexyConfidence.com The question "What do men REALLY want?" has been a question asked my billions of women for thousands of years. In this video, Adam answers it in under 5 minutes. It makes sense that women are so confused. A man might seem as if he only wants sex, then suddenly he gets crazy emotionally clingy. Or vice versa, he tells you how much he cares about you, only to disappear a week later. I'm not going to lie, this is a BIG question to answer in a short video, but after many weeks of deep thought on the subject, I've boiled this down to 6 core qualities that a man wants in a woman. Here are the six qualities: 1. We want a Woman who makes us Feel Like a Man 2. We Want a Woman to Be Fun and Playful 3. We want a Woman Who Passionately Loves Her Own Life 4. We want a woman Who We’re Physically Attracted to 5. We want a Woman who Is Honest And Trustworthy 6. We want a woman who knows how to communicate
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Learn these 5 ridiculously effective ways to pull on his heart strings, make him miss you, and keep him all yours. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Have you ever heard this one? “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” Well when you've got a good thing going with someone, it's absolutely true. Missing someone is a sign that you truly care about them and that their presence isn't easy to replace. Here's the thing: There are five essential ways you can make a man miss you. They are ridiculously effective when it comes to pulling on his heartstrings and keeping him all yours. Watch this week's video, “How to Make a Man Miss You” to find out what they are. Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet was right—parting really is “such sweet sorrow.” The feeling of longing and passion you get from missing someone can be part of the super-glue that keeps your relationship together. Basically, if he's yearning for you, then you're doing things right. So... how do you like men to show you that they miss you? Let me know by leaving me a comment below. Your Coach, Adam PS: Want to discover 32 ways you can become an irresistible magnet to men by building your sense of self-confidence? To learn how you can get a copy of my best-selling book, Men Love Confident Women click here: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Summary - 1. Be the type of woman he would actually miss. Humans are actually very simple. Either we pursue pleasure or we avoid pain. If when he’s with you he’s laughing, he enjoys your company, he’s connecting with you, he’s getting complimented when he does the right things, he’s going to feel pleasure, he’s going to enjoy that, and he’s going to want more. On the other hand, if he’s with you and all he’s hearing is nagging for every little thing he does, complaints from you about your girlfriends, or just generally bringing no personality to the table, then all he’s going to feel is pain. This will not lead to him missing you. 2. Give him some space. Now, this might sound a little cliché, but one common theme I’ve noticed in all relationships is is that men usually want a little more space than women do. Men are very different from women. If he needs a healthy amount of space, you’ve gotta give it to him. If you’re finding that you never ever want space from him, it’s time for you to start finding your own space. Find things that you can put yourself into. Create your own little space away from him. It’s really important when two people are together to create their own space and time away from each other. 3. Stop trying to make him miss you. Look, men aren’t stupid. We know when women are subtly trying to get our attention. If when you’re apart you’re doing the following things: tagging him in photos on Facebook, sending him a Snapchat every ten minutes to get his attention, texting his friends to see what they’re up to, or posting pictures with other guys on Instagram to make him a little jealous... he’s not going to miss you. He’s going to get frustrated and want to be away from you. 4. Move slower than he wants. You didn’t take control of the pace of the relationship. You didn’t let him miss you. You gave all of yourself to him right from the start and there was nothing to miss. A lot of women assume that just because a guy really wants to keep seeing them, they should do this. However, my advice is to put the brakes on. Let him have space. Let him yearn for you a little bit, because that space is going to allow you to get to know each other, instead of just giving in and seeing each other every single night. You guys are still strangers and then suddenly the entire relationship just burns up into flames. He realizes, maybe it’s moving a little bit fast and he wants to slow things down, and then you get mad and the whole thing ends. We don’t want that to happen. So, again, move slower than he wants. 5. Leave a little mystery in the conversation. Now, there’s a reason why when we watch a trailer to a movie we can’t wait to watch the movie. Because we get, of course, a taste of what the movie is all about but we have no idea what the whole full picture is about. We certainly don’t know how it ends. Same thing when you’re going out and meeting people or when you’re on the first couple of dates. You don’t need to tell him your three biggest life accomplishments on that first date. Spread it out a little bit. Keep him wanting more. And when he believes there’s more depth to you, when he knows he wants to keep seeing you... he’s going to miss you. He’s going to want to dive into that complex person that is you. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com]
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Fear, it can be a powerful motivator and can be used to get people to change their behavior if used correctly. Make him commit to you: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/commit/ SUBSCRIBE: https://bit.ly/2JYWxgU In this video and article I’ll show you how to make him worry about losing you, not by playing games, but by focusing on you improving your life. Your Coach, P.S. Add one more tool to your arsenal with my Make Him Commit Training. I’ll teach you how to own your power and get the man to commit…if you want him to. Sign up for this training today: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/commit/ Disclaimer: Before I get to the good stuff, I do need to warn you of something: if you feel like you have to constantly make a man fear losing you in order to keep him interested, then this guy is probably not for you. afraid man Put the F.E.A.R. of losing you into him! Make Him Worry About Losing You Through F.E.A.R Now I know this headline was a little clickbaity, and I used it to get your attention. So many women think they have to use actual fear to secure love, but I want to show you a healthier way to move a man who isn’t sure of what he wants toward a future with you. 1:15 FOCUS on Your Independent Social Life How does this make him worry about losing you? If you give everything up to spend all of your time with this guy, he’s going to pull away. It’s just too intense for most people. But if you have a healthy social life outside of him, he might get just the tiniest bit insecure and want to make sure you still want to spend time with him in between social engagements. 2:00 ELIMINATE Your Constant Texting Don’t text him more than a couple of times a day. And for every text that he sends you, wait a few hours to respond — not because you’re playing games but because you have other things going on in your life and you don’t need to drop everything to respond to him. The less available you are via text, the more he’ll want you. You might see him start to text you more and more as a result! 2:25 Get More Physically Active in Your Life Exercise for yourself, not for him…but let him enjoy the results! Research shows that exercising as little as 10 minutes a day or even just once a week can make people happier. And people who are happier in their lives tend to be more appealing as romantic partners. So find an activity you really enjoy. You’ll benefit in your body, mind…and relationship! 2:50 Reset Your Boundaries Communicate that you want him to stop disrespecting you. If he texts you at 2 a.m., don’t respond. Ignore him. If he doesn’t like that? It’s okay. It’s time to move on to find a man who respects you. If, on the other hand, he texts you the next morning (after you ignored his call) and says he’d love to take you out, that’s acceptable. He’s subconsciously agreed to your boundaries and is ready to follow your rules. Don’t be afraid to set those boundaries about what is acceptable — and respectful — to you. You set the pace for how this relationship will go, and if he’s not treating you right, he’s not right for you. Conclusion: If you want to draw a man back in who maybe has gotten a little distant for whatever reason, use these strategies to make him worry about losing you. Do that by putting less energy into dragging him toward you and focus more on doing what makes you happy and healthy instead. He’ll pursue you, I guarantee. I’ve said this before to you Sexy Confident ladies over the years, but I’ll say it again: Never PLAY hard to get. BE hard to get by living your amazing life and making him want to be a part of it. And remember this: he will worry about losing you if he knows that you’ll walk away if he doesn’t treat you right. Talk to me, ladies! Have you ever employed these tips to make him worry about losing you? What was the result? Leave a comment below to share! If you want more help on how to make him worry about losing you, please sign up for my Make Him Miss You and Commit Webinar. You’ll get proven strategies that will light a fire under him and get him to commit to you and only you: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/commit/
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Is he afraid of commitment? Look for these 3 critical clues to find out. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Turn your relationship from casual to committed: https://casualtocommitted.com/ Has this ever happened to you? You meet a guy and the sparks are clearly there… there's no denying that he has feelings for you and all signs are pointing to that four letter word - LOVE… but then without warning he pulls away emotionally. What gives? In today's video I'm going to explain exactly why this happens, what's going on inside men's minds when it does and - more importantly - what you can do about it. If you’re unsure what’s going on in his heart, look for these 3 signs that he's in love with you but is afraid to commit. I've said it before and I'll say it again: You don't want to miss out on a good thing. Just because a guy is hesitant it doesn't mean you should count him out. Look for these 3 critical clues to find out if he’s in love with you but wrestling with the commitment side of things. So let me ask you, have you ever been with a guy who you were in love with, or who might have been in love with you, but was absolutely terrified of commitment? Leave a comment below. Your Coach, Adam PS: Want to learn the fastest and easiest way to turn a casual relationship into a committed one? Do you want to learn what guys need before they will invest themselves completely in you? Or maybe you'd like to learn where you can find high quality men who aren’t going to play games and are looking for something real? To learn how to finally get the happy, healthy, passion filled and committed relationship that you deserve click here: https://casualtocommitted.com Summary - 1. When he’s with you it’s fireworks, but when he’s not with you it’s crickets. This is common for guys who just don’t want to jump into a relationship. However, just because they don’t want to be in a relationship on a logical side, doesn’t mean that their emotional side is on the same page. 2. He tells you that he loves you, but he’s also putting his energy into other things. A guy who’s ready for long term commitment, and wants to be with someone for the long haul, is going to want to spend a lot of his time with you. He’s going to put a lot of his energy into the relationship. Another thing to keep in mind, is that a younger guy may not be ready to put enough energy into the relationship. It’s not until he hits a mature point and says, “Now I’m looking for something more longer term.” That’s when guys start to flip the switch and are willing to invest their emotions and time. 3. He immerses himself into your life today, but he’s not willing to make future plans. He might be willing to meet your parents, meet your friends, or even allow you to keep a drawer in his apartment… but at the same time, he might not be willing to make future plans or sacrifices to be with you. There may certainly be signs that he loves you, but he’s not ready to take the plunge. Men who are commitment focused are going to be more comfortable talking about the future and making future plans. Of course these things aren’t just black or white. Some guys change, mature and go through transition periods. However, if you’re with a guy who’s absolutely afraid of commitment and showing these signs, then it’s important for you to be disciplined. If he’s not willing to give you love and commitment, then it’s time to look yourself in the mirror, examine your relationship, and be willing to walk away in order to find what makes you happy. At the end of the day, the best thing you can do is be real with yourself and him. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://casualtocommitted.com]
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Have you ever dated a guy then he suddenly disappeared? I bet it’s not for the reason you think. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Grab Adam's book: http://www.MenLoveConfidentWomen.com Have you ever gone out with a guy, thought the date went really well, but then he disappeared into thin air? I know there’s nothing more frustrating than a good date turned into a “rejection,” so I created a very special video for you this week. In it, I’ll explain the real reason why a guy would disappear from even the most sexiest, confident woman in the world. Looking back on your dating life over the past few years, do you agree that this is a reason why a few guys may have backed off? Leave a comment and let me know. Speak to you next week. Adam
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