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What Black Women Think - Boring Women and Dating
 
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Sistah Girl and her younger sister discuss women that put their friends aside when they get a man, as well as women that have nothing going in their lives so they make getting or keeping a man their hobby. From the creative mind of advice columnist Deborrah Cooper. Visit her blog at www.survivingdating.com There are almost 200 vids on this channel on love, dating, sex, relationships, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Check them out using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 28990 Deborrah Cooper
Give Him Six Months to Get Serious About Marriage or Get Rid of Him!
 
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Why is it that single women over 30 who claim they want to be married and raise a family waste their time with men who demonstrate no interest in their dream of happily-ever-after? Women often write in seeking advice about how to move a relationship along to marriage after dating the same guy for 5, 10 or even 15 years! These women will have children, buy property, help raise his children from other relationships, and do everything for them that a wife does without the title. Why do women waste years -- even decades -- of their lives, their youth, beauty and bodies on men who want only the privileges of having a "wifey", but none of the obligations, legal ties, or responsibilities of being a husband? Why do so many women settle for the okey doke mind games men play with commitment and marriage, instead of cutting these players loose, to confidently go after what they state they want - a husband? Why give men what THEY want at your expense? Why give up YOUR dream to make life easier for him? What are you really afraid of ladies? Why do you stay in a situation that isn't meeting your needs and never will? CATCH DEB LIVE! Every Tuesday at 6:00 PM (PST) Deb goes in hard, responding in her no-nonsense but hilarious way to dating advice questions submitted by channel visitors on TOTALLY TRIPPIN TUESDAY. On THINK ABOUT IT THURSDAY Deb presents lessons in love and life that most people prefer to avoid and don’t want to talk about. And on SHYT TALKING SATURDAY and/or SUCKA FREE SUNDAY, she responds to your questions and discusses controversial issues in modern culture, gender issues, marriage, dating, and other interpersonal relationships. SUBSCRIBE! Become a subscriber to THE DEBSTERISM CHANNEL and join the excitement! Don’t miss a show; be sure to click that bell symbol to get instant notifications of when we go live, because sometimes Deb just POPS UP with no notice for MONKEYSHINES MONDAY, WTF?! WEDNESDAY, or FUCKERY FRIDAY FIND WHAT YOU'RE INTERESTED IN There are hundreds of videos on this channel which address a wide variety of issues and questions singles have on love, dating, romantic intimacy, relationships, marriage, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Find the videos which address topics of interest to you by using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. SUBMIT YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTIONS Use this form and submit your advice question in either text form or a short video that you can record right on your phone or computer! http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! PATREON SUPPORTER: Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper ONE-TIME DONATION: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 8931 Deborrah Cooper
STORY TIME - The Three Types of Single Women: Which Are You??? (comedy)
 
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Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper has concluded that there are three types of single women. Judging by your recent choices in me you decide to date and love, which are you? In this "story time" video, Deborrah shares her personal experience with a high risk man, hoping it empowers you to find the strength make a choice in your own best interest. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 4679 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #12: Hotepery and Other Fuckery as EYE Overstand It
 
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We have to address the insane rhetoric flowing from the lips of black men into the ears of black women about Egypt, Africa, polygyny and other such fuckery. Here comes Amulet Amun Muhammad Bey El Debarge formerly known as Leroy Johnson, spitting game into your heads about the alleged shortage of "good black men" and the need for black women to share men in polygamous unions. These deeply misogynistic, offensively patriarchal black males demand support, uplifting, to be referred to as Kings, and to be honored for doing zip zero nada by every black woman they see ... though they don't have any signs of riches or land to call a kingdom anywhere in sight, and the only throne they sit on is a toilet. Spouting endless rhetoric about a revolution, conspiracies, what's wrong with black women, feminism and how it destroys the black community, and how abortion and birth control are at the root of genocide and tools of the White Man --- while simultaneously blaming black women for the high single parent household rate. This video explains why black women should immediately flee from anything with a hotep name, especially if he is selling incense or bootleg CDs. RATE! COMMENT! SUBSCRIBE! -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 6675 Deborrah Cooper
5 Biggest Dating Mistakes Single Women Make
 
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How can women stop wasting time in dead-end relationships with the wrong men? Believe it or not, there are several common mistakes women make over and over again when dating that are easy to recognize and simple to avoid. Find more great dating information on www.survivingdating.com and www.askheartbeat.com HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 3541 Deborrah Cooper
Crabs in a Barrel: The Baby Mommas That Want You to Suffer Too
 
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In spite of the expectations that everyone in the Black community would benefit from and promote the No Wedding No Womb campaign, I was shocked to discover that there are hundreds of Black single mothers that believe its fine for young women to follow in their footsteps. Well I say its NOT fine and those women have a selfish, evil agenda to encourage pregnant young women to suffer as they have. It takes no skill for a woman to lay down and breed baby after baby... it DOES take skill to go to college and work hard to make something of yourself. Read the article this video is based on at: http://survivingdating.com/dont-be-dumb-by-falling-for-the-baby-momma-okey-doke -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 11845 Deborrah Cooper
Should Single Women Remain Friends with Their Ex? | Deborrah Cooper
 
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Why is it that when a breakup occurs, one of the partners will toss out that "let's be friends!" liferaft? Why? Why drag out the end instead of making a clean break and utilize the no contact rule? Hanging out with, texting, talking to and being intimate your ex is a huge mistake that many people make - usually because they are afraid of letting go, and secretly hoping for a change to get back together. This video lays out the many ways singles who move on and can't let go of the past shoot themselves in the foot. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $3 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 2524 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper on Why Single Women Should NEVER Call Men
 
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Yeah yeah, I know you all are modern women of the new millenium and all that. And it's true that women have changed in many ways. However, it's also true that men have not changed one bit when it comes to mating rituals. Men still need to pursue the woman they are interested in, and by giving men the space and time to do that, women can get the relationship satisfaction they crave. Calling men will usually backfire and leave you with hurt feelings. Calling men makes men feel pursued, which is against their nature. Calling men makes men think you are desperate and insecure. Calling men makes them want to run away from you instead of seeking you out to dote on and adore you. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging anywhere between $3-25 per month will help get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 10587 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper on Women Accepting When a Relationship is Over
 
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Women seem to struggle with letting a bad relationship go and moving on, and the longer she has been in the relationship, the more she will resist accepting that it's over. Instead most women will go back and forth from breakup to makeup, trying over and over again to "make it work" in a treadmill relationship going nowhere. Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper explains the principles behind dating relationships gone bad and why it is in a woman's best interest to accept reality and leave a man behind sooner, rather than later. Believe in the work being done here for women? Help support this channel by pledging a monthly donation. Find out more information at the link: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 3568 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #10:  The Fairy Godfather Selling Woof Tickets to Manipulate Your Mind, Heart and Body
 
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In the 10th episode of the "Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops" advice columnist Deborrah Cooper breaks down "The Fairy Godfather" game. Coming in the door promising to "help" you with a crisis, your finances, your children, etc. this man uses the words you want...no NEED to hear, in order to feel that your problems will be alleviated with his assistance. Single parents are the prey of choice for this game, because he knows how lonely, overburdened with responsibility, and strapped for cash you are; his messages spin dreams of possibilities for an easier lifestyle and of course you bite. That's exactly what he wants you to do to get control over your emotions, after which your heart or at least your body will follow. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 4004 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper on What to Say When He Asks "When is the Last Time You Had Some?"
 
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Why do some men ask women they barely know "when was the last time you had some?" What are these guys REALLY trying to find out? Why do so many single men ask single women this amazingly stupid, overly familiar and intrusive question? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides a few suggestions on how you, as a single woman, should respond to such impertinent questions about your personal affairs and intimate life with other men. CATCH IT LIVE! Every Tuesday at 6:00 PM (PST) Deb goes in hard, responding in her no-nonsense but hilarious way to dating advice questions submitted by channel visitors on TOTALLY TRIPPIN TUESDAY. On THINK ABOUT IT THURSDAY Deb presents lessons in love and life that most people prefer to avoid and don’t want to talk about. And on SHYT TALKING SATURDAY and/or SUCKA FREE SUNDAY, she responds to your questions and discusses controversial issues in modern culture, gender issues, marriage, dating, and other interpersonal relationships. SUBSCRIBE! Become a subscriber to THE DEBSTERISM CHANNEL and join the excitement! Don’t miss a show; be sure to click that bell symbol to get instant notifications of when we go live, because sometimes Deb just POPS UP with no notice for MONKEYSHINES MONDAY, WTF?! WEDNESDAY, or FUCKERY FRIDAY FIND WHAT YOU'RE INTERESTED IN There are hundreds of videos on this channel which address a wide variety of issues and questions singles have on love, dating, romantic intimacy, relationships, marriage, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Find the videos which address topics of interest to you by using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. SUBMIT YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTIONS Use this form and submit your advice question in either text form or a short video that you can record right on your phone or computer! http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! PATREON SUPPORTER: Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper ONE-TIME DONATION: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 3874 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #4: Why Black Men Promote Struggle and Settling for Less to Single Black Women
 
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LIKE! COMMENT! SUBSCRIBE! SHARE! In the fourth video in our "Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Single Black Women Jump Through Hoops" series, we take a look at the messages black men promote of scarcity, desperation, poverty, loneliness and not being deserving of the best to single black women. From videos to blog posts to memes - the message is beaten down black women's throats that they have no right to demand a man come with something to offer. Instead she is labeled a gold digger and a man basher. If she gives a guy who swears he has potential and just needs a strong sista with her stuff together to have his back and hold him down, well then she is emasculating and doesn't know her role. If she gets with a guy who is struggling and it doesn't work out...well she should have chosen better. Settle for less or be alone. Settle for less or be lonely. Settle for less or you'll never have a man. These are the messages black women hear over and over and over. In this video we take a look at the memes and words used to manipulate black women into giving to black men without feeling deserving of more. There are almost 200 vids on this channel on love, dating, sex, relationships, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Check them out using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. Please SHARE this and the other video links in this series so that the information can get into the hands it needs to. This series is free and designed to help educate young black women on the crap they will encounter in the dating game. They need to have these tools to protect themselves before it's too late. --------------------------------------------- Read hundreds of articles on modern dating, relationships and culture at http://www.survivingdating.com HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper Check out my books on Amazon.Com at the URL below http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 8901 Deborrah Cooper
Breadcrumbing Dating - New Manipulative Technique in Dating Relationships
 
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Breadcrumbing like Hansel & Gretel meant laying down a trail of breadcrumbs so you could find your way back home. Unfortunately things didn't end well for them, and if you are being "breadcrumbed" by someone you call yourself dating, things won't end well for you either. Breadcrumbing, along with catfishing and ghosting, are just a few of the perils of dating in a high tech communications world. This video explains what breadcrumbing is, how to recognize if you're being breadcrumbed, signs of breadcrumbing, why women fall prey to it, and how to be smart and remove Mr. Breadcrumb from your life before you get trapped in his game. SUBMIT YOUR DATING RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTION TO DEB IN WRITTEN OR VIDEO FORM http://www.survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 18678 Deborrah Cooper
Rosemary and Rosewater Moisturizing Flax Seed Gel for Natural Hair
 
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A fantastic way to make flax seed gel that provides the benefits of Omega-3 fatty acids for your dry hair, as well as the moisturizing benefits of rose water and aloe vera, along with the scalp stimulating and hair strengthening benefits offered by the herb rosemary. Rosemary, rose water and aloe vera together make the standard issue flax seed gel a powerhouse of hair nutrients that leave your hair soft, with defined twists or curls. And it costs mere pennies! Try it for yourself! Recipe at http://yournaturalhair.com/rosemary-and-rose-water-flax-seed-gel-recipe/ Order any ingredients in our recipes and get great information on natural hair care including unique recipes for DIY hair care products at Your Natural Hair.Com (http://www.yournaturalhair.com). There are almost 200 vids on this channel on love, dating, sex, relationships, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Check them out using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. Follow me on Twitter @msheartbeat HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 22241 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper: In Memory of That One Time I Gave a Sh!t
 
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In memory of the time I gave a shit about the dumb stuff that black men say to shame, demean, discount and discredit black women. The Dumb Negro Lexicon contains just 12 words, and these 12 words are recycled ad nauseam both on and offline by black males in attempts to hurt the feelings and psyche of black women and girls. Check out my dating and relationship books on Amazon.Com! https://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12/ref=sr_tc_2_0?qid=1484978715&sr=1-2-ent HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 6025 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #9: Manipulating with One Word Answers and The Silent Treatment
 
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The silent treatment and it's cousin, the one-word answer served with a side of fonky attitude are yet another frequently used tool of in the arsenal of the black male who seeks to manipulate and control the emotional state of single black women. The silent treatment hurts because the man you care for is suddenly shutting you out, ignoring you, and treating you like you're invisible or not worth talking to. His goal is to get you to jump through hoops to placate and soothe him, allowing him to have his way or giving him whatever it is that he wants from you so that he'll speak to you again. The man who hits you with the silent treatment seeks total control of you, your behavior and your thoughts. Many will use this tool during or after a social event where you were having a good time speaking with other people. Time after time you'll adjust your behavior, attire, and words to meet his demands in order to avoid being ignored by him again. Instead, what you should do is take his behavior as a red flag of warning and demand healthier interactions, or leave him behind. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 4370 Deborrah Cooper
Single Women Who Treat Boyfriends Like Husbands - Deborrah Cooper
 
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On day two of VIDEO-A-DAY FEBRUARY we examine a common issue and big mistake women make in dating relationships. That is doing more and giving more than they should to men they are not married to. A boyfriend is not a husband, and a girlfriend is not a wife. The legal protections and privileges of marriage are something neither of you should expect from the other. There are certain limits and boundaries a woman must have in place and clearly communicate to the man in her life. When you give to much to, or have inappropriate expectations of your "boyfriend", you will end up in a sad and sorry situation like this woman. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 3822 Deborrah Cooper
5 Signs That The Man You Love is NOT THE ONE
 
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Though men show us who and what they are early on in the dating game, inexperienced or naive women don't know how to interpret male behaviors and words. Understanding the repercussions of certain behaviors and the true impact on your heart of the things he says could save you from a broken heart. More great dating tips and relationship advice from columnist Deborrah Cooper (Ms HeartBeat)! There are almost 200 vids on this channel on love, dating, sex, relationships, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Check them out using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 8474 Deborrah Cooper
One Who Loves the Least Has the Most Power | Dating Advice by Deborrah Cooper
 
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Years ago, my grandmother broken down the nature of male/female relationships, and gave specific examples of the ones that were most loving, romantic and happy for women. In those relationships the boyfriend or husband loved his girlfriend or wife MORE THAN SHE LOVED HIM. What makes so many relationships these days sad and sorry? They are out of balance (per my grandmother), and the woman is far more invested, more attached, and more in love with her man that he is with her. When a woman loves a man more than he loves her, she will rarely if ever be treated well because to him she is not precious -- she's just something to do. How to recognize if you are in one of these out of balance relationships, and what to do about it. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 3986 Deborrah Cooper
Dating Tips #6 - Face Behind the Mask Revealed With the Right Questions
 
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Dating is all about finding the right fit, and having an enjoyable time together with your dating partner. By asking interesting, creative, thought provoking questions instead of lame stuff like "what movies do you like?", a single woman can learn a lot about a man. Listen to his answers to learn who he is, what drives him, what causes him fear and pain, who he is closest to, etc. You can thereby make a reasonably accurate determination if the man in front of you has the capacity to understand you and love you the way you deserve to be loved. You'll also know if you have the qualities he is looking for - even if he unaware of what those needs are. Date smarter, not harder with dating tips and sage relationship advice from veteran columnist and author Deborrah Cooper. Since 1992 Ms. HeartBeat has been delivering answers to your questions, and solutions to your problems! Visit the original blog www.askheartbeat.com Visit the mature folks blog at www.survivingdating.com Check out my books on Amazon. Com -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 10123 Deborrah Cooper
Three Reasons Why Men Talk to You About Some Other Woman - Deborrah Cooper
 
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Of course when first getting to know someone, you need to hear his past relationship stories...but why is it that some men will KEEP talking about other women, and do it over and over and over again? Advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper breaks down this behavior and explains that there are three key reasons men will blab about some other woman to you. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5142 Deborrah Cooper
Why Men Never Say How They REALLY Feel About You - Deborrah Cooper
 
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A channel visitor recently posed a question about male behavior. She and her friends wanted to know why the men they're dating have such a hard time showing women how they really feel, and why it seems he has a mask up instead of showing his true self. Advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper breaks down the six reasons men won't verbalize their feelings. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 6000 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #1: Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops
 
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LIKE! COMMENT! SHARE! SUBSCRIBE! This is part one of a series examining the games black men run on black women with to get you to stay with them hoping for more, giving to them in a vacuum, focusing on them in a one-sided relationship, and worrying about keeping THEM happy while they do little to nothing in return for you. You deserve to have a loving union which is fulfilling and supportive...not some one-sided pimp player crap masquerading as "a relationship" that leaves you feeling empty and depleted. --------------------------------------------- Read hundreds of articles on modern dating, relationships and culture at www.survivingdating.com Host and producer of The Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. Listen to podcasts going back as far as 2008 at www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat Check out my books on Amazon.Com at the URL below http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5171 Deborrah Cooper
Dating Tips #3 - How to Say Hell No and Mean It!
 
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Most women are afraid to be assertive with men. Instead of speaking up in a way that promotes their own best interest, women will instead use weak, timid, indecisive styles of language while allowing the men in their lives to regularly violate their boundaries. Though women are socialized to "be nice" and to believe that "men don't want an argrumentive woman who won't listen!", the bottom line is that saying NO is what you must say to protect yourself. Fear of saying NO is a common issue for women and girls because females are socialized to please, give to and fit in. Fear of saying NO motivates you to give a year long dissertation to justify your reason for saying no because you don't want to hurt the other person. Fear of saying NO is associated with horrible consequences like ending up single. Here is the reason why you must learn how to say NO to men, and mean it, following through with both words and behaviors. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 8033 Deborrah Cooper
The Alpha Female: Beliefs and Behaviors of the Alpha Woman - Deborrah Cooper
 
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In honor of National Women's Day, advice columnist Deborrah Cooper responds to dozens of reader requests to add audio to her video which explains the behaviors and beliefs of Alpha women. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 8996 Deborrah Cooper
When Women Find Out Motherhood Ain't All That
 
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Help support this channel! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper Frustration, boredom, feeling overwhelmed and exhausted are just a few of the changes women go through when they become mothers. Though society glorifies motherhood and the sacrifices it entails, and pushes young women in the direction of becoming wives and mothers, in reality there are millions of women who aren't cut out for the "mommy" routine. And though some women have taken the time to look deeply at what it is they want to do with their lives and made the decision early on that they don't want children - there are millions of others coerced, manipulated and guilted into having children they really don't want to have. This video discusses how cultures worldwide pressure women into assuming the role of mother, holding up the female state of childlessness as a distastefully selfish taboo, even when the women don't have the emotional or mental makeup to be the caretaker of a goldfish. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 8548 Deborrah Cooper
Relationship Advice: Red Flags Warning of Dating Disasters
 
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Pay attention to the red flags warning of pending disaster early on in dating. If you do so, you're far more likely to create a successful, fulfilling relationship with the partner of your dreams. Veteran advice columnist Deborrah Cooper shares 10 of the most risky red flags that women absolutely MUST pay attention to. Check out my dating and relationship books on Amazon.Com! https://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12/ref=sr_tc_2_0?qid=1484978715&sr=1-2-ent HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 11306 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper: Women Too Independent? You FORCED Us to Be!
 
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American men (especially single black men), complain that American women are "too independent," "don't need a man," and therefore make poor partners for relationships and/or marriage. In reality if men want to complain about women not needing them anymore, men have only themselves to blame. Women learning to rely only on themselves, do for themselves, take care of their children themselves, and handle households themselves is solely men's fault because men left. Women were forced to be independent, so men have no right to be angry that we are! HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 7626 Deborrah Cooper
Get it Straight Black Women - Unless You Are Married You are Single!
 
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The reason why so many black women treat mere boyfriends and baby daddies like they are husbands is finally revealed. These ladies are confused about what it means to be "single" and are mixing the commitment of marriage up with dating, "seeing each other" or "being in a relationship." No amount of living with him, having his children, cooking/cleaning, or being submissive will change the fact that you are not his wife and are therefore still a single woman. None of that stuff means a thing if you ain't got that ring! HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $3-25 will help get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 7937 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper: When Catching a Man is Just Like Catching a Fish
 
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Dating is a sport, and catching a man is eerily similar to catching a fish! And if you understand the plays, the penalties, the fouls, who wins and who loses, you can be successful and come out on top. For anglers, dating is very much like their beloved sport of fishing, and this video explains in a humorous way, exactly how you ladies can catch yourself a prize winning "man" fish. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging anywhere between $3-25 per month will help get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 2682 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper - How Mary J Blige Got Set Up and Gamed On by a Gold Digger
 
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Mary J. Blige erupted onto the hip hop music scene in the early 1990s, but emotional problems due to childhood abuses, abandonment, neglect, low self esteem and drugs/alcohol wrecked havoc. When she met Kendu Isaacs, he seemed too good to be true, and as it turns out - he was. Taking a look at the situation Mary J. Blige found herself in, how Kendu Issacs found a woman who was destroyed and therefore easy to control and manipulate,. After a few years of marriage, the rumors of him cheating surfaced, along with astounding mismanagement of funds - seeing as how he was her "manager" and all. Mary J. filed for divorce in July 2016, and from the looks of things, it raised the question of her estranged husband's current goals. Could he be attempting to destroy her all over again by making her endure even MORE cheating, heartbreak, abandonment, lying, backstabbing, and unfairly demanding large amounts of her money for "alimony?" SUBMIT SUGGESTED INTERVIEW GUESTS For new He Said/She Said segment. Share the male perspective on various issues with female host Deborrah Cooper. Submit guest recommendations at this link: https://goo.gl/forms/oR7gpyQ2krRAYLJ03 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $3-25 will help get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 37381 Deborrah Cooper
ABUSIVE MEN: Beware of The Verbally Abusive Man... Hiding in Plain Sight
 
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Take heed of the man that denigrates women, who will call women names, taunts and "teases" so that you feel small, unworthy, insignificant and incapable. That is his goal - to lower your confidence and make you feel as low and bad as he does about himself. Using these guidelines you can recognize the disdain he feels for you early in the game so that you remove yourself from situations that would have you involved with toxic, angry men. There are almost 500 vids on this channel on love, dating, intimate relationships, teen dating relationships, single men, single women, second marriages, and modern U.S. culture. Check them out using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. From the creative mind of advice columnist Deborrah Cooper. Visit her blog at www.survivingdating.com -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 113538 Deborrah Cooper
Why Women Rush Into Commitment and Seek Relationship Titles
 
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Many women are in a hurry to define their new dating relationship and make it mean something, to have a title, to know where they stand. Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper says there is lots of information you need to have and questions you should be asking about the man you recently met before you even THINK about calling him yours! From the creative mind of advice columnist Deborrah Cooper. Visit her blog at www.survivingdating.com -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 8317 Deborrah Cooper
TEXTING GAMES MEN PLAY - Why They Want YOU to Text or Call First
 
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Single black women dating want to know why black men ask them to text or call first, using the excuse that they don't "know her schedule". Veteran relationship expert and advice columnist Deborrah Cooper responds and provides advice, insight and guidance into how single black women dating can protect themselves from yet another one of the emotionally abusive games that men play. Every Tuesday and Thursday at 6:00 PM (PST) we go hard responding to dating advice questions submitted by channel visitors and discuss hard-hitting issues in modern culture and relationships. Become a subscriber and join the excitement! SUBMIT YOUR DATING AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTIONS (in written or video form) http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 2503 Deborrah Cooper
What Zombies Can Teach Women About Pacing a Relationship! - DEBruary 1st
 
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It's Day 1 of video-a-day Debruary here on the Debsterism channel! This show discusses pacing of new relationships and how women mistakenly think letting the guy set the tone and speed of involvement shows interest and love. Nope, what it shows is that you are easily caught up and not handling yourself properly if you really want to get the guy. The girlish, overly romantic, idealistic view of a whirlwind romance can seem like the best way to do things at the time because it's fun and exciting. But as a mature woman on her grind, why do that to yourself? Soon enough you will have the power of hindsight and realize you did or gave too much, way too soon. Zombies will show you ladies the right way to move. Get the best, the realist, the most insightful and the funniest relationship advice on the web by tuning in to The Debsterism Channel, hosted by veteran advice columnist Deborrah Cooper! CATCH DEB LIVE! Every Tuesday at 6:00 PM (PST) Deb goes in hard, responding in her no-nonsense but hilarious way to dating advice questions submitted by channel visitors on WTF!? TUESDAY. On THINK ABOUT IT THURSDAY Deb presents lessons in love and life that most people prefer to avoid and don’t want to talk about. And on SHYT TALKING SATURDAY and/or SUCKA FREE SUNDAY, she responds to your questions and discusses controversial issues in modern culture, gender issues, marriage, dating, and other interpersonal relationships. SUBSCRIBE! Become a subscriber to THE DEBSTERISM CHANNEL and join the excitement! Don’t miss a show; be sure to click that bell symbol to get instant notifications of when we go live, because sometimes Deb just POPS UP with no notice for MONKEYSHINES MONDAY, WEDNESDAY WISDOM, or FUCKERY FRIDAY! FIND WHAT YOU'RE INTERESTED IN There are more than 500 videos on this channel which address a wide variety of issues and questions singles and marrieds have on love, dating, romantic intimacy, relationships, interracial dating, verbal and mental abuse, why men cheat, what men want, marriage and divorce, single men, single women, and modern U.S. culture. Get free relationship advice! Find videos which address topics of interest to you by using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. SUBMIT YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTIONS Use this form and submit your advice question in either text form or a short video that you can record right on your phone or computer! http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form SUBMIT YOUR SUGGESTIONS FOR SHOW TOPICS OR GUEST INTERVIEWS by writing to Deborrah at [email protected] CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! PATREON SUPPORTER: Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper ONE-TIME DONATION: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 1733 Deborrah Cooper
WOE IS ME:  The "Poor Me" Dude with a Pitiful Sob Story | Deborrah Cooper
 
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A channel subscriber posed the question: "What is the deal with the man who claims that each and every woman he has ever been in a relationship with cheated on him?" Dating expert and advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides a detailed analysis of this sympathy seeking behavior designed to pull at your heart strings. She takes women through the step by step of one of the most common games men play with women, and exposes the end goal. CATCH DEB LIVE! Every Tuesday at 6:00 PM (PST) Deb goes in hard, responding in her no-nonsense but hilarious way to dating advice questions submitted by channel visitors on TOTALLY TRIPPIN TUESDAY. On THINK ABOUT IT THURSDAY Deb presents lessons in love and life that most people prefer to avoid and don’t want to talk about. And on SHYT TALKING SATURDAY and/or SUCKA FREE SUNDAY, she responds to your questions and discusses controversial issues in modern culture, gender issues, marriage, dating, and other interpersonal relationships. SUBSCRIBE! Become a subscriber to THE DEBSTERISM CHANNEL and join the excitement! Don’t miss a show; be sure to click that bell symbol to get instant notifications of when we go live, because sometimes Deb just POPS UP with no notice for MONKEYSHINES MONDAY, WTF?! WEDNESDAY, or FUCKERY FRIDAY. FIND WHAT YOU'RE INTERESTED IN There are hundreds of videos on this channel which address a wide variety of issues and questions singles have on love, dating, romantic intimacy, relationships, marriage, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Find the videos which address topics of interest to you by using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. SUBMIT YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTIONS Use this form and submit your advice question in either text form or a short video that you can record right on your phone or computer! http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! PATREON SUPPORTER: Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper ONE-TIME DONATION: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 7355 Deborrah Cooper
Dating Tips #13 - Stop Wasting Time Seeking Unconditional Love
 
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Unconditional love - the stuff of romantic fantasies and wishes that go right along with happily ever after. The only problem with that is that it doesn't exist, and the people who insist that it does are the ones who get gamed on, used, and taken for everything they have. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 3328 Deborrah Cooper
HOW TO DATE or DATING FOR THE CLUELESS
 
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Rules of dating, the purpose of dating, how to get a man, first date tips, what to wear on a date, where to go on a date, asking a man out, how to flirt, where to meet men, and much more. How to be an intriguing woman who can easily get male attention and be remembered! CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5291 Deborrah Cooper
Men Advised to Choose Vulnerable Insecure Women With Low Self-Esteem?
 
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Believe it or not, there are men who seek out women who are needy, unhappy and insecure - women who have nothing going on in their lives but wishes and hopes. To these guys, a woman who is vulnerable is the perfect victim to seduce and make obsessed with him. Once she is desperate for his presence, he knows he has the upper hand and can toy with her mind and heart for the simple entertainment it brings. How can a man have such little confidence and such low self esteem that he has to play silly games in order to get and keep a woman's attention? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper breaks this all down as only she can! CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5844 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper: Black People Are Vegans Too - Why I Went Vegan
 
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Saving my health was my chief motivation to go vegan. Veganism offered a solid solution, and has provided almost instant improvement results. Find out more information at www.blacksgoingvegan.com and get information on my new cookbook WHY VEGAN IS THE NEW BLACK at www.whyveganisthenewblack.com. Most African Americas eating a high fat, high sodium, high sugar, high cholesterol and low fiber diet, which places them at risk for strokes, heart disease, Type 2 diabetes, cancer and hypertension, just to name a few. I chose not to go that route after a few medical warning signs; saving my life and health through an immediate change in diet to veganism seemed like a no brainer. Here's a more detailed explanation why. There are almost 200 vids on this channel on love, dating, sex, relationships, single black men, single black women, and modern U.S. culture. Check them out using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 7303 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper - How Women Should Communicate With Men
 
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Single women, married women - all women report having communication issues with men! "Men don't listen!" "He tunes me out!" "Why am I always having to repeat myself?" Men do listen (when they want to), and they will tune you out (if you don't know how to get him to stop), and you can stop repeating yourself when you understand these basic concepts of how to talk to men. Find more of my witty insights into male/female dating relationships on http://www.survivingdating.com and http://www.askheartbeat.com. If you're a vegan, check out the delicious meat and dairy free soul food recipes on Blacks Going Vegan at http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 4815 Deborrah Cooper
FAILURE TO PROTECT - Men Who Instead Choose to Prey On and Victimize Women
 
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It's Day 11 of video-a-day Debruary here on the Debsterism channel. In this video Deb discusses a disturbing social change wherein men around the globe no longer seek to protect women and children, but instead to victimize and prey on them at every opportunity. What is behind the worldwide change in men? What is fueling their hostility and negative mentality towards and refusal to protect those smaller and weaker than they? If one examines news stories and crime statistics collected over the past 15 years, it is apparent that men are no longer willing to protect women and instead seek to annihilate them. Considering the long-term ramifications of this behavior, what does this change mean for the state of relationships, families, and the very foundation upon which civilized human societies are based? Get the best, the realist, the most insightful and the funniest relationship advice on the web by tuning in to The Debsterism Channel, hosted by veteran advice columnist Deborrah Cooper! CATCH DEB LIVE! Every Tuesday at 6:00 PM (PST) Deb goes in hard, responding in her no-nonsense but hilarious way to dating advice questions submitted by channel visitors on WTF!? TUESDAY. On THINK ABOUT IT THURSDAY Deb presents lessons in love and life that most people prefer to avoid and don’t want to talk about. And on SHYT TALKING SATURDAY and/or SUCKA FREE SUNDAY, she responds to your questions and discusses controversial issues in modern culture, gender issues, marriage, dating, and other interpersonal relationships. SUBSCRIBE! Become a subscriber to THE DEBSTERISM CHANNEL and join the excitement! Don’t miss a show; be sure to click that bell symbol to get instant notifications of when we go live, because sometimes Deb just POPS UP with no notice for MONKEYSHINES MONDAY, WEDNESDAY WISDOM, or FUCKERY FRIDAY! FIND WHAT YOU'RE INTERESTED IN There are more than 500 videos on this channel which address a wide variety of issues and questions singles and marrieds have on love, dating, romantic intimacy, relationships, interracial dating, verbal and mental abuse, why men cheat, what men want, marriage and divorce, single men, single women, and modern U.S. culture. Get free relationship advice! Find videos which address topics of interest to you by using the SEARCH THIS CHANNEL function. SUBMIT YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP ADVICE QUESTIONS Use this form and submit your advice question in either text form or a short video that you can record right on your phone or computer! http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form SUBMIT YOUR SUGGESTIONS FOR SHOW TOPICS OR GUEST INTERVIEWS by writing to Deborrah at [email protected] CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! PATREON SUPPORTER: Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper ONE-TIME DONATION: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper
Views: 1726 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper - Respect for Women in Relationships
 
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Respect is one of the top ingredients required for a mutually satisfying and healthy romantic relationship. Yet, there are women who (1) stay with men who disrespect them regularly; and (2) women who have no clue about which attitudes and behaviors constitute disrespect! In this video advice columnist Deborrah Cooper shares examples of what a man does and says when he respects and greatly admires his woman, as well as what a man does and ways when he has no respect for you at all. ________________________________ HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment and software to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 4521 Deborrah Cooper
Story Time: How Protecting My Daughter Almost Got Me Prison Time
 
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Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper shares personal true stories of men's attempts over the years to have inappropriate and worrisome contact with her daughter from the time she was two years old. Why single mothers must be especially vigilant when socializing with men in their homes or anywhere men have access to their children. CONNECT WITH DEBORRAH COOPER Twitter: @http://www.twitter.com/MsHeartBeat Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborrahxcooper Relationships Blog: http://www.survivingdating.com Black Vegan Blog: http://www.blacksgoingvegan.com Natural Hair Blog: http://www.yournaturalhair.com Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/Deborrah-Cooper/e/B0088RYP12 RECOMMEND A MALE GUEST for HE SAID/SHE SAID Complete form at https://goo.gl/forms/V2d3D5nDuxFr7Vdx2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $5-50 will help show your belief in the hard work Deborrah does for single women worldwide. Support the growth of the channel by doing your part to get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! Monthly Pledge: https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper One-Time Donation: https://www.paypal.me/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 2469 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #6: Creating a Sense of Urgency and Scarcity to Manipulate and Control
 
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In the sixth episode in my new series entitled "Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!" we take a look at the setup which has you grow dependent on the attention he (at first) showers you with, then later uses against you to get the upper hand. This is a very common and oft-used technique to drive sales used by the retail, auto sales and housewares industry - putting limits on availability of product, constraints on the sale price, etc. to motivate you to buy, and to buy NOW! Though it's the same methodology at work, it's used in a way to manipulate you into giving to men in a vacuum. Log onto http://www.survivingdating.com for more great information on dating and relationships. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5316 Deborrah Cooper
Episode #22 - Marriage as a Carrot on a Stick
 
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In the 22nd episode of the "Manipulative Shit Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!" series, advice columnist and social researcher Deborrah Cooper examines the programming that black women receive almost from birth to desire marriage to a black man, and how this programming makes black women vulnerable to dozens of games which control their behavior, appearance, sexuality, development, achievements, and thought processes. Sadly, holding out marriage as the "carrot on a stick" is a tool used not only by single black men when dating; it is equally reinforced by married men and by black women! From shaming single women for being single with taunts, blame and ridicule to invalidating her thoughts and opinions "since you ain't married" - the mind games black men play using marriage as the carrot are endless. The black woman who was raised to desire marriage as the highest achievement of her life will struggle with choosing to be single vs. settling for just about any black man that will marry her, so great is her anxiety about being unmarried. Black men know this and will use the Marriage Carrot to manipulate themselves into marriages with women of higher social, educational and economic status than they could ever be. -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5270 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper on Little League Participation Trophy Mentality in Dating
 
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The response to my video on the True Forced Loneliness movement has been interesting, including the guy so irate he made three videos in one day to bitch and whine about what I said. In this follow-up segment I delve into the little league "participation trophy" mentality these guys have which makes them believe that no matter how little effort they put into getting a woman, they deserve one just for being born and "showing up." HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 3909 Deborrah Cooper
Top 10 Mind Games Men Play with Single Women - Deborrah Cooper
 
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If you think your man doesn't play games, you're dumb. Men of all ages play games with women's minds for myriad reasons...sometimes to test you because they're scared after having been hurt before. But for the most part, they play games with your head and heart for no reason other than they can. What you have to learn is (1) how to recognize when a game is being run; and (2) how to handle his games with skill so you win. In this video I break down 10 common relationship mind games men play, sharing with you what their goal is, how most of you respond, and how you SHOULD respond to come out on top. ARTICLES AND SURVEYS DISCUSSED (1) The HO Test: How and Why Men Test Your Values and Morals http://survivingdating.com/the-ho-test-how-and-why-men-test-womens-values-and-morals (2) WHAT TEENS WANT - a Survey for Women and Girls https://goo.gl/forms/vyWRpO5dUwB3fJym2 HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! A one-time flat amount donation, or a monthly pledge of anywhere between $3-25 will help get new equipment and production assistance to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Codependent Mother and Son Relationship Forces Husband to Say "It's Your Sorry Son or Me!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUzzvvTsXMg -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 27368 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper - Women Bragging About Their Nothing Ass Man
 
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You got a dude who moves into your house, is broke, slanging drugs, smokes weed, stupid, useless and broke...yet you want to brag to other women "well at least I GOT A MAN!" like you have achieved something akin to the Pulitzer Prize. Heffa please! You scraped the bottom of the barrel for a dude, and have the gall to want to throw it in other women's faces like what you have at home is something to be proud of? You should be hiding in embarrassment, not bragging! Here are some of the sad ways women with low (or no) standards demonstrate just how low their self-worth and self-esteem really is. HELP SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL! Pledging as little as $1 per month will help get new equipment and software to make better videos for you! https://www.patreon.com/deborrahcooper -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5033 Deborrah Cooper
Deborrah Cooper Discusses Thirsty Men Online
 
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Facebook can be used to keep in touch with dear friends and family, and to make new friends. Unfortunately, married men whining about their wife and bad marriage, and other opportunistic men looking for sex are most frequently the ones sending those friend requests! From the creative mind of advice columnist Deborrah Cooper. Visit her blog at www.survivingdating.com -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Burnt Toast Syndrome: Women Who Sacrifice Themselves to Make Others Happy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-v50yzbNdY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 5255 Deborrah Cooper

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